What Guys Can Learn From Off Campus

Every once in a while I'm watching a TV show or a movie, and I see like a greater lesson in it that I think applies to Guy Set and what I try to do here every week, or what the mission of this whole thing is, and that is to give advice and share what I've learned or what I'm learning.

To hopefully make everybody's lives a little bit easier, a little less uncomfortable, a little less awkward, and talk about the things that should be talked about. I think by like exposing the situations that people kind of hide behind or don't want to talk about because they're awkward or uncomfortable or vulnerable or things that like we don't really see guys talk about is one of the most important things I could do here. And

Exposing the things that we don't really talk about, like opening the vault to the questions guys have but never really ask, the things that guys are wondering about but never really know where to find advice on or answers to, and talk about that all is really the purpose. So when I was watching the show off campus, which has taken the world by storm in the past two weeks.

I had a bunch of those different like realizations or like moments where I was like, shit, like I need to talk about that. Like, this is exactly what I'm here to do. And I just want to say, like, you don't have to have watched this show to listen to the episode. You should. You should watch the show because I think you'll gain a lot from it. I think it's also a good show. It's like the number one show in the world. Everybody's watching it and talking about it. it's truly everywhere. Like, if you haven't heard of it, I'm I'd be surprised if you hadn't at this point. But you don't have to have seen the show.

To hear what I'm talking about or to understand the takeaways that I think I'm I'm trying to pull apart to share with you and talk about a little bit further. there are so many things that guys can learn from this show. And I feel like that doesn't always happen that often. Like it doesn't always happen when I'm watching something and I'm like, shit. Like that, that is the thing I need to talk about. And when I'm like, like

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The answers to the questions that so many of us have are right in front of us. Like they're right there on the screen, waiting for us to watch them and then like actually take them into account and really consider them and how they could apply to our lives themselves. So I I wanted to start a new series on here that I'm gonna do every time that this happens, that I'm watching a TV show or a movie or I hear something. And this series will be called What Guys Can Learn from Blank.

So the first one is this one. It's gonna be called What Guys Can Learn from Off Campus. And I'm gonna do it whenever I find something that I think is really worthwhile, like this. And I think this is the perfect first one because it's the show everybody's talking about, and there really is so much in here. Like I think even when you hear me talk about all these lessons, you're gonna be like, shit. Like there, like maybe I should watch it because I really do think there's a lot to learn from it. There's so much to learn about how to act as a guy.

How to be a better guy, how to be a better man, how to show up in a relationship, how to be vulnerable in a relationship and be real and be comfortable and be honest. How to make sure somebody is comfortable in dating and in sex, how to make sure somebody is comfortable in general, how to care for somebody in a relationship, what that really looks like, how to act, like all of these things that I talk about a lot on here or that.

Guys are wondering, like, how am I ever gonna figure out how to do this or do that? It's waiting there for you. Like, it is right in front of you. And I think a lot of times, like guys write these types of shows off because they're girly or like it's a it's a girl's show, when in fact it is a playbook for dating, like it is a playbook for how to act. And if you're not watching it, what are you doing? Like it's it's right there for you. Sure, it's fictionalized and it's romanticized, but

Within there, like the behaviors of the characters and how they act and what they say, there is a lot to learn in there, especially from how positively real girls and real people are reacting to the behaviors of these characters. Like a lot of the follow-up from the show is people being like, These are obviously men written by women. Like a guy couldn't have written these guys. And why not? Because we don't talk about it like this, because we don't

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Share like this because we're not vulnerable like this, probably, but why couldn't we be like this? Why couldn't a guy write a guy like that? And they could, we could, we just don't, we haven't, we haven't really seen it before. And the fact that girls are pointing out that these are girls or these are guys written by girls means that this is how they want guys to act. Like perfect. It's right there for you. Phenomenal. Like the answers are waiting for you on the screen. And I feel like it's a gift, like it is a gift that has fallen into so many guys' laps.

And I don't want you to miss it. I don't want you to miss that gift. Like, I want you to open the gift and be like, how what actually else can I get from this? What can I learn from this? What can I take away from this? And there's a lot. There is so much. And the girls are telling us how they want to be treated. The girls are saying how they want to be treated. So listen up. Like, why would we not? The girls are saying, This is what we want you to do. This is how we want you to act. And why would you not do that? So

This show is like the guy's guide on how to act. It really does feel like that at a lot of times. Like how to act in a relationship, how to act around girls, how to you know, like go for what you want, how to stop standing on the sidelines and actually act more confident and be more confident and do the thing and ask the girl out and go for it and put yourself out there and like all of the things that we keep in our heads that we don't know where to find advice on or answers to, it's right there. So let's get into it. I wanna tell you.

About what I've learned and what I saw in this show that I think can apply to everybody listening today and really everybody in general. So if you're looking for how to act around girls, how to improve in dating, what to say, what to do, how what to say when you walk up to somebody, what to say when you like somebody, how to move things forward, how to make sure somebody's comfortable for sex, how to make sure you know that somebody wants to have sex, how all of these different things, like all of these dating questions.

The answers are right in front of us. Like the girls are telling us what they want and what they're looking for. So we better get our pens out and take notes. The first one I want to talk to you about is that the guy Garrett Graham, who is the main character in the show, is not embarrassed to show how much he likes the girl. Like he is not afraid to admit that he really likes her and put himself out there and go for it.

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He's really not afraid of that. And I think so many times guys like to play it cool or act like they're not interested or play hard to get or you know, like if if she wants to, like she'll come up to me. Like you just you kind of like wait on the sidelines for things to happen. Whether you're trying to play it cool or whether you're nervous or anxious that it's gonna go badly, that you're gonna get rejected, that all these different things that like flood into your head when you see somebody you like and you see somebody you wanna go after and go up to.

All of the things and the doubts and fears and anxieties that stop you from doing that that flood your head. He showed exactly how not to do that and how to get past that. Of course, it's a TV show. This character is a character. Obviously, you don't see all of the doubts and the anxieties and the fears that are in his head, but they're there. They are definitely there. But there are so many moments where he's like, you know what? Fuck it. I'm gonna go up and say hi.

Fuck it. I'm gonna go up to the girl and tell her how I feel. Or I'm gonna put myself out there. I'm gonna put my hat in the ring or my name in the ring and see what happens. Like I'm going to be confident. And I think that people find it so much more attractive when you go for what you want, when you put on a a hat of confidence or feign confidence for a minute at least.

To go up to say hi to somebody, to put yourself out there. I think that is so much more attractive than waiting on the sidelines or playing it cool or playing it hard to get. And I think that's one of the best things that this show did is that it really showed going after what you want, trying for something, not being afraid of failing or what's gonna happen if you lose or if the person doesn't like you back. Because you can always try again, because there's nothing worse than never knowing if it was gonna happen because you never tried.

And I think the show did a really good job of showing the main guy's confidence. Of course, he's just like six fuck foot fucking three guy who's ripped and jacked and like yeah, like it's definitely easier for somebody like that to put themselves out there and be confident. I'm not forgetting about all of that. Like that's that that is not pass me by. Of course, it's easier for somebody who looks like that than somebody who looks like the normal guy or us to do that. But

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The way he acts and the way he carries himself and the way he walks up to her, there is something to be learned from that. There is something to look at that as an example and be like, I could do that too if I believed in myself a little more, or if I had a little bit more confidence, or if I, you know, acted like I was that for like that for just an long enough to walk up to somebody. I could do that too. So regardless of how he looks or how many abs he has, you know, like you could do that too.

There's no reason you couldn't do that. It's just because of all the things we tell ourselves about ourselves that we don't do it. It's just because of all the fears and the doubts and the anxieties that flood our head that we don't do it. You could. We absolutely could. We all could. We could take a note from that amount of confidence.

The next one I think the show does a really good job of showing is what a healthy young relationship looks like. These kids, college kids, are both juniors in college. Every all the characters are juniors in college. And I think the show did such a great job of showing how relationships ebb and flow and change throughout your own development. Like

Throughout what you learn about yourself and how you want to go about your life and your goals and your passions and your hobbies. And showing that if the person you're with doesn't support what you're doing or doesn't support who you are or what you want to see for your life and do in your life, like then they're probably not your person. And

There's one breakup in the show between two characters when the the one girl says that like she wants to do this thing and he's like, Well, why? Like you're not really gonna be successful in that, or like you don't know if you could be successful in that. And he's not showing like a go try, why not? Like, go go do whatever you want. And then, like, if it doesn't work out, I'll be here to support you. Like n he is the epitome, the opposite, not the epitome, the opposite of how to act supportive in a relationship or how to be around a partner.

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And I think he was used for that purpose exactly. He's now the ex-boyfriend of that character, and she's seeing somebody else who is much more supportive of her and her goals and what she wants to do in life. But I think that is the the the perfect juxtaposition of of a guy who's supportive and a guy who is absolutely not at all. And a a guy who wants a girl to fit into his life and, you know, follow exactly what he wants to see for his life, and and she just kind of comes along for the ride, and a guy who is willing to.

stand by her side through thick and thin and and let her go do whatever she wants to do and he'll be there waiting to support whether it's an applause or a cry. And I feel like they did a really good job of showing how to support in a relationship, what it takes to actually be in a healthy relationship and be a a good partner to somebody else. And throughout the show, the characters go through a lot and they have to kind of figure out their own shit.

themselves before they can be with somebody else. And I think that is also a really good lesson from the show is that being with somebody can't solve your problems. Like somebody else is not going to be able to just fix everything that's going on in your life for you. You have to tackle all of that yourself, like before you can jump into something or before you can bring your whole self to a relationship. And somebody else is never going to fix that for you. Somebody else is never going to solve that for you.

The person you're with can only do so much in terms of supporting you and being there for you. You have to figure out your own shit on your own. And asking somebody else to figure all of that out for you and solve all of that for you is unfair. And it's it's putting too much weight on the other person. And until you're good with yourself, you kind of can't be fully committed into a relationship. Of course.

You can figure shit out alongside the other person, but you do have to go through your own stuff yourself, even if you're in a relationship. I'd always thought that that like to get into a relationship, you should be really good with yourself and happy with where you are and pretty content with what you've got going on before you commit to somebody else and before you take on somebody else. And I still think that's true, yes and no, because I really do think you can figure stuff out alongside someone. I don't think you have to break up if something happens and

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I think the show does a good job of that too because the the characters are obviously immature. They're young. So they feel like they have to break up in order to figure out the stuff on their own. And that becomes obviously not the case because it's not the truth of the matter. You don't have to break up to figure it out, but you do have to go through your own shit. Like you do have to solve whatever is bothering you or coming up for you on your own. Nobody else is gonna do that for you. Nobody else can do that for you.

The next one I want to talk about is communication and the amount of care that is placed on making sure the girl is comfortable. One of the biggest questions I feel like guys have is how do I know if she wants to sleep with me? Like, how do I know if she wants to have sex with me? And like, how do I know if she's ready? Like, what are the signs? How do I make sure that she's super comfortable and ready and wants to? Whether you admit it or not, I think that's a very big question that I think every guy has had at one point in their life. Like,

How do I know if this is right? How do I know if this is good? How do I know if I'm doing anything right? How do I know if I'm supposed to do this or that? Or what the fuck am I supposed to do? And I feel like that is a question that everybody has had at some point in their life. And if you're saying you don't, you're lying to me and yourself. So continue on, but you know, know that you're probably lying. Like, unless you were born you're you're you weren't. Like, please, please. Everybody has had that question. Everybody has had a thought at least of like, am I doing this right? Is this right? Is she comfortable? Is she happy? Does she feel safe? Is this like are we good? Like

Everybody has had that at some point in their life. And if you're saying you haven't, I feel like you're lying. I just said the same thing twice, but I I emphasized it because I was uncomfortable. the the emphasis that the show places on care and consent and making sure that the girl is comfortable and both party not just the girl, both people are comfortable before they go into sex and a relationship and hooking up. Like the answers to how to make sure somebody is comfortable and safe and secure.

Are all waiting for you in this show. And I want to play a scene for you between I'm gonna like find a clip of it. Between the two characters, Garrett and Dean, who are the the two main guy characters in the show. And their conversation they have over lifting weights, like in the weight room, they have conversation about how to make sure let me just play it for you and then I'll comment on it. So let me find the clip, hold on. It's like two minutes.

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You've been with a good amount of women. That's Garrett to do this day.

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Is there something going on with Hannah?

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Someone else. She wants me to do this this thing. Do all the things, bruh. Do them all. It's just it's kind of a big thing. It's really important to her. She's like trusting me. Taylor a virgin?

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This doesn't leave the weight room. We're not actually having this conversation.

It's just that I I really want it to be good for her. If it's her first time, she might not come. Not an option. She has to come. Respect. Well, there is one thing that helps make her girl come. The single, most effective, highly recommended, enjoyed by all tool at your disposal. Trust. That's it. She's just gotta feel completely safe. Like completely relaxed. But consent is key.

And she can't consent if she doesn't feel safe. So you just you just gotta figure out whatever makes this specific girl who is not Anna feel safe. I'm just not sure I'm the kind of guy she should be trusting with this. Well, if she asked you, she thinks you are. Which is fucking hard. Just don't. Skinbone the foreplay. Yeah.

I could do a whole episode on that on just that conversation alone. Like, I think there is so much to be said about that conversation. Like, I I could take it in so many different directions, and I'm probably going to because I think that the fact that they had that conversation as two like very masculine guys on the show, the the two like huge, like

Figures on the show. You don't see guys talk like that on TV. You don't see guys talk like that in general, really ever. It kind of feels like a revolutionary conversation, although it shouldn't, and it probably isn't. It feels that way for so many different reasons. One, because you don't see guys talk like this. You don't see a friend walk up to another friend, although you should a friend walk up to another friend and be this vulnerable and honest.

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In terms of being like, hey, I'm not sure how to do this. And I hope I can and I really want to. Can I have your advice? Like, that is an incredibly awkward thing to have to say or want to say. It's exactly what this show is built on. Like, it is like that conversation is what guys said is built on. It is what should be talked about for guys. Like, that is the fucking conversation. That's the whole per that's the whole purpose. It is that.

We don't feel comfortable enough to walk up to another one of our friends, our best friend, and say, like, hey, you've been with a lot of girls before. Like, I want to make sure she comes. do you have any advice? Like, that's a weird thing to have to say. That is an uncomfortable thing to have to say. So for the fact that the other friend to say, Don't make this weird. Like, just tell me what you want to say. Like, we'll just just say it because, like, I want to help. Like, what can I help? What can I do? First of all, that's a second of all, or fifth of all, whatever.

That friend is such a great friend for saying that because he immediately cut the tension and cut the air and made it not awkward. And it it's it's that easy to do that. Like it that is one of the best things that conversation did. And it's such a small moment that I haven't really seen people point out is him saying, Don't make this weird. Just cut all of the noise and the awkward uncomfortableness out of the conversation with just gave the other guy permission to be like, Okay, here's what I actually want to say. Because like obviously I'm uncomfortable saying this, but I obviously still want to say it.

By being like, don't make this weird, or just being like, hey, whatever it is, like it's fine, or like I'm here for you. I I don't care. Like, just don't make this weird is a great way of saying, hey, I lit listen, I'm here to listen and I'm here to give my advice. Boom. Fantastic. That's like the best line any friend could say. Like, don't make this weird. Like, or you don't have to make this weird. Like, I'm I'm here for you. No, we're like, no, what what what's up? Like, and you can see that it it's just a really well-put conversation between these two friends.

The conversation is one guy admitting to his friend that he's not sure how to do something, make this girl come. And he's nervous about it because he really wants to make it happen. Obviously, it's very funny throughout. Like there's a ton of humor in that conversation. You can hear me laughing probably in the background. When he was like, Well, like she has to, and he's like, respect. It's hysterical. And it's a great line. and when he's like, and don't skip on the fourth play or five play or six play, like, and then he's like, she wants me to do this thing, and he's like, do all.

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Of the things. Do everything. Like, why not? Like, try everything. You only live once. Like, there's so many elements in the conversation that cut the tension and cut the noise of all of the uncomfortableness that made it so good and so real. Because, like, that is how that conversation would go down between two guys. Like, that's a pretty accurate depiction of what that conversation would look like if it was to happen or if it does happen when it does happen. There's gonna be a joke, there's gonna be somebody being like, I knew this day would come.

When a man and a woman love each other, like it's it's that's how people talk, that's how friends talk. But within that, between the lines of the conversation, the conversation within the conversation is about consent. It's about respect. It's about how to make sure a girl is comfortable, how to make sure a girl is safe, it's about trust. Like the one thing he says, he says that there's one thing you can rely on. And of course you're thinking, like, what? Like a vibrator? Like what and then he's like

Trust. Like it's perfectly set up. It's a slam dunk line to say that trust is the one thing that you can rely on to make sure that a girl feels safe, consent, comfortable, and everything else and everything far and wide and and in between. It is all reliant on trust. And I feel like that is the best part of that conversation. That's like the one line that is is the the big takeaway is that.

In order to make somebody feel comfortable, in order to make somebody or you make sure that you feel like she's safe and she wants to do this and she's here for the for all of it and and and wants to, you know, like trust is the only thing you can rely on. And when you know someone trusts you and is excited about you and wants to and trust is the only thing you can rely on, and trust is the thing you should rely on. I think that is amazing advice. Like

If you're looking for the answer to the question of how do I make sure she's comfortable before sex? How do I make sure she's comfortable? How do I know if she wants to do this? How do I know if she wants to kiss? Like all these things, trust is the answer to all of it. Like it's it's right there. That's what when I said like the answers are waiting for you, right? In this show, that's one of the biggest ones I'm referring to. That line itself, and it's it's just it's perfectly put. It really is. that conversation is

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Great. It's it's perfect example of these two guys in a very vulnerable moment. And it's an amazing example for all young guys or guys in general to see on TV. Because it shouldn't be that deep, but it is. Like it shouldn't be that revolutionary, but it is. And that's what I've talked about on here so many different times. What I always talk about on here is that like these conversations should be normal for guys to have, but they're not. These conversations should be comfortable for guys to have, but they're not. And

They're inherently uncomfortable. They're inherently awkward. These are these are things that you don't want to admit that you don't know how to do or if you're doing it right. Because nobody wants to admit that. And then nobody wants to say that I don't think I'm good at this or I don't think I'm good enough. Or I don't think I'm big enough. Or all the different things. Like nobody wants to admit those things. But having that conversation play out on TV is it's showing that it can happen and that it does happen. And it's okay to have that happen. It's okay to ask for advice.

Or talk to a friend about this stuff, or say you're not sure or you don't know. Like it's the it's just an amazing example of real vulnerability and being comfortable with a friend and just like saying what is going on with you and and sharing it with a friend because that's what friends are for. Like that is the person you should lean on for those types of questions, or who you should lean on when you don't know, or you want advice or what to do or what to say or

And I know it's uncomfortable. I know these conversations can be weird and awkward and and all of the things, but the fact that they showed it play out means that it can happen and it should happen. And if you are asking or looking for advice, like your friends are there and you should lean on them, or come to me and I'll and I'll talk to you too. Of course, like I always do every Tuesday. And from that, I wanted to talk about how the show does a really good job of showing how vulnerability is not a bad thing. It's actually a superpower.

And sharing how you feel about somebody, like I started talking about, sharing what you're worried about or nervous about or anxious about or fearful about is a superpower. Telling somebody how you feel, telling asking somebody for advice, those are things that everybody could work on and something that will move you forward in life. It is something that will never be a bad thing.

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And I want to play one more scene from the show. It's this conversation between Garrett and Hannah Wellsy. He calls her Wellsy. Her last name's Wells. It's very cute. Hannah and Wellsy or Garrett and Wellsy, where they're on both sides of the floor because neither wants to go into the bed because at this point they're friends, and that's a whole plot point of the show. It's not the not what I'm talking about today. and what he says to her, and I feel like

You also don't see guys being this vulnerable and this honest a lot of the times. And I thought they did a good job of too. So I'm gonna play it for

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Singing.

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I followed your voice through the tunnels.

I saw you in the green room.

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saying it out loud and I realize that sounds creepy, but you were so like genuine, you know?

Free.

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He centered me.

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sorry for the TikTok sound at the end. beautiful, right? Like somebody a guy in the relationship, like being vulnerable, sharing how he feels about her. Or not in the relationship, just a guy being vulnerable, sharing how he feels about this girl. Like, wow. I feel like that scene did a great job of showing what a healthy relationship looks like. Like it it does take.

vulnerability and honesty and you being so real and raw and emotional and sharing how you feel, sharing what's going on, sharing what's in your head, letting the other person into your life. I think one of the best things you can do in any relationship is letting somebody in and opening the door to everything that may look ugly or insecure or anxious or doubtful or fearful.

Letting somebody into all of those vulnerabilities lets them really see you. And without doing that, you can't really enter into a really strong relationship. Without sharing all of those things that you don't want to share with anybody, or opening the door to the ugly and the raw and the real. Like that is how to it's one of the best ways to really connect with somebody and to.

Create a really strong foundation for a relationship. That is how you build the foundation of a relationship. Being honest, sharing the things that scare you and your insecurities, and also on the other side of that, your hopes and your dreams and your aspirations. The show does an amazing job of showing those vulnerabilities. And you don't hear her talking in that scene. It's just him talking, and it's him sharing all of this shit. And then he says, You centered me.

And I just feel like that is something that guys can really take away from this show. It's one of the biggest lessons guys can take away from this show is that being vulnerable is your superpower and it's not something to shy away from. It's not something to push away. Sharing your emotions, sharing your feelings, telling somebody how you feel, what's going on in your head, and letting them into that door, unlocking that door is one of the best things you can do in any relationship.

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Those are my thoughts. Those are the things I wanted to share with you that came up when I was watching this show that when I was thinking about the show after what I wanted to share and expose and what I wrote down, like the stuff that I literally took notes on because I was like, this is amazing advice. This is great things that I want to share with you guys. And I feel like will really benefit somebody else's life. I think it benefited mine, and I think it'll help yours too. And I I just think

That there is so much in here. There is so much even within the stuff I said that I could extrapolate further and talk about for another hour or so. But I feel really good about these five or so takeaways or lessons from the show. I think that when I see the next thing or movie or TV show where I'm like, that is the thing. Like that I want to talk about that because I feel like there's so much in there. I will do it and I'll I'll do another one of these what guys can learn from.

Blank. So I'm really excited about this new series. I feel like it's I feel like every time I come up with something like this, like guys that kind of evolves in a way. I'm not gonna set it to like I'm doing this every single month because that would put a lot of pressure on like watching something for the purpose of this. But I do feel like when it comes up, I'm gonna do it because I I I think it's a great addition to the podcast and I'm really excited about it.

Again, I I don't think you had to watch the show or you even have to watch the show to learn all of these lessons or hear what I've said. I think there is so much in here that you can take away and imply to your life. And I hope you do because I think it'll make you better for it. That is the episode. Thank you so much for listening to Guy Set, a guy's guide to what should be talked about. I'm Josh. I'm 25 years old. my god, I'm 26 years old. I'm 26 years old, and I'm here every single week, every single Tuesday, to talk about what should be talked about for guys.

If you like this episode, I really hope you did. Please like, subscribe to this podcast. Five stars. Review the 24. Five stars, not four, not three, not two, not one. It's five stars. Thank you so much for that. I really, really appreciate that. If you want to ask me any questions, you want to talk anything you want me to talk about that should be talked about for guys or for really anybody, you can head over to guyset.com, g-u-y-s-e-t.com. Guyset.com. there isn't ask me anything right there. It goes right to me. It's completely anonymous. You can put whatever name you want. You ask me anything.

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And I'll be sure to talk about it and I'll include it in the next Dear Guy set episode where I do where I answer the questions that guys are are asking and I answer listener questions. I do it every third week of the month. So send yours in to be included in the next month's or this month's actually or June. I don't know what what it is. you can watch this full episode on YouTube. You can also check out my other podcast. It's called If You're Going on a Date This Week, where I talk about everything going on in the world in terms of music, movies, TV shows, pop culture, sports, entertainment.

Really anything going on in the world that you could talk about on a date or with your coworkers or with your friends or with anybody. It's just a f a fun rundown I do every Monday and Thursday. You can find it on the same channel on YouTube, just at Guy Set, or on a separate audio podcast on if you just search if you're going on a date this week. You can also find daily blog posts on guyset.com across dating, confidence, comparison, mindset, lifestyle, style, really all of these questions. Like each one of the questions I talked about in here gets its own blog post. I write a bunch of separate ones and

There's just a bunch of different answers and advice and so much other, so much value I think you can find in that website. And I'm really excited about it. And it's growing really quickly. And I'm really, really hyped about it. So it feels like an extension of what I do over there. It's just more questions, more answers, more advice. So check that out, guyset.com. Thank you so much for listening to Guy Set, a guy's guide to what should be talked about. And I will see you guys next Tuesday. See you guys.