

How Much Should You Text Someone When You First Start Dating?
The problem usually isn’t how often you’re texting. It’s the pressure people feel to do everything “correctly.”

What Is The Best Pick Up Line?
Most people aren’t losing dates because they picked the wrong line. They’re losing dates because they’re trying too hard to sound impressive instead of real.

The Dating App Problem Nobody Talks About
Dating apps didn’t just change dating. They changed the way people experience connection entirely.

What Are The Best Questions To Ask On A First Date?
The questions that actually lead to connection, keep the conversation flowing, and make the date feel easy instead of forced.

How Do You Actually Negotiate Your Salary?
Most people aren’t bad at negotiating. They’re just terrified of asking for more.

The Early Career Mistakes Most People Make
What actually matters when you’re just starting out professionally

How Do I Stand Out When Applying for Jobs?
What actually gets you noticed when resumes aren’t enough

How Do I Handle a Bad Conversation With My Boss?
What to do after a tense meeting so it doesn’t follow you and how to handle it best

10 Life Lessons I Learned at 25
What this past year taught me about confidence, relationships, self-doubt, and figuring out your life

The Quiet Pressure To Already Know What You’re Doing
Why so many guys feel behind in dating, work, relationships, and life even when they’re actually doing completely normal things.

How Do You Reset Your Goals After Losing Motivation?
What to do when the goals you once cared about quietly fall apart.

Why Is Consistency More Important Than Motivation?
Motivation might get you started. Consistency is what actually builds something.

The Part After College Nobody Prepares You For
The strange uncertainty of suddenly being fully responsible for your own life

Easy Outfit Ideas That Always Work For Guys
Simple outfits that always look good without making you overthink it

Why Your 20s Feel So Uncertain
The strange pressure, comparison, and confusion that quietly define this decade

How Do You Build Confidence at the Gym?
The mindset shifts and habits that make the gym feel less intimidating and help you actually stick with a routine.
Conversations about dating, confidence, work, and figuring life out as it’s happening.
Editor's note
I started Guyset because nothing I was reading actually helped when I needed it. Nothing felt like it was talking to me.
So I built the thing I was looking for.
A place for the conversations you have late at night, in your head, or right after something doesn’t go the way you hoped it would.
A reminder that you’re not the only one thinking these things.
— Josh
Editor's picks

Dating
How Much Should You Text Someone When You First Start Dating?
The problem usually isn’t how often you’re texting. It’s the pressure people feel to do everything “correctly.”

Dating
What Is The Best Pick Up Line?
Most people aren’t losing dates because they picked the wrong line. They’re losing dates because they’re trying too hard to sound impressive instead of real.

Dating
What Are The Best Questions To Ask On A First Date?
The questions that actually lead to connection, keep the conversation flowing, and make the date feel easy instead of forced.









