How Do I Know If She’s Pulling Away?
How to tell the difference between normal fluctuation and real loss of interest
What to Say When You Walk Up to a Girl at a Bar
Why confidence matters more than the perfect line
How to Build Confidence to Talk to Girls
Why confidence isn’t something you find, it’s something you build
How Do I Check If She’s Comfortable Without Killing the Mood?
Why asking the right way builds trust instead of tension
Am I Supposed to Love My Job?
Why feeling unfulfilled at work doesn’t mean you chose the wrong career
Why Does Everyone Else Seem to Have Their Career Figured Out?
Why comparison lies to you and clarity usually comes later than you think
Why Does Everyone Else Seem to Have It Figured Out?
The illusion you’re comparing yourself to, and what you’re not seeing when you do
Is It Normal to Not Know What I Want to Do in My 20s?
Why uncertainty is a normal part of figuring things out, not a personal failure
5 Pieces of Advice from Robert Dugoni Everyone in Their 20s Needs to Hear
On anxiety, success, doubt, identity, and the pressure to have it all figured out too soon.
Is It Normal to Feel Behind in Your 20s?
Why comparison hits harder in your 20s and why you are probably not as behind as you think
How to Stop Labeling Yourself as “Anxious”
The subtle shift that can change how you experience stress in your 20s
You Don’t Have to Have It All Figured Out Right Now
An honest conversation about anxiety, ambition, vulnerability, and the pressure men feel to be further along than they are.
Should You Live With Your Best Friend After College?
The risk, the upside, and the conversation most people skip
Why You Feel Boring Lately (And What’s Actually Missing)
Why That Flat Feeling Is a Signal, Not a Personality Flaw
How to Find a New Hobby
Why You’re Not Bored, You’re Just Putting Too Much Pressure on the Answer
How Do I Stop Feeling Like I’m Missing Out?
How to stay grounded when it feels like everyone else is moving ahead without you.
Conversations about dating, confidence, work, and figuring life out as it’s happening.
Editor's note
I started Guyset because nothing I was reading actually helped when I needed it. Nothing felt like it was talking to me.
So I built the thing I was looking for.
A place for the conversations you have late at night, in your head, or right after something doesn’t go the way you hoped it would.
A reminder that you’re not the only one thinking these things.
— Josh
Editor's picks
Mindset
5 Pieces of Advice from Robert Dugoni Everyone in Their 20s Needs to Hear
On anxiety, success, doubt, identity, and the pressure to have it all figured out too soon.
Dating
Is It Bad to Wait To Have Sex?
Why moving slower does not kill attraction and can actually build something stronger
Dating
What to Say When You Approach a Girl
Simple ways to approach a girl with confidence without overthinking
