What to Do If You Get Rejected After Going Up to a Girl
How to handle it without losing confidence
How Do I Know If We’re Moving Too Fast?
How to tell the difference between real connection and rushed momentum
When to Ask for a Girl’s Number After Talking to Her
Timing it right without overthinking the moment
Why Does Sex Feel Like a Test for Guys?
How performance anxiety turns intimacy into evaluation instead of connection
Am I Supposed to Love My Job?
Why feeling unfulfilled at work doesn’t mean you chose the wrong career
Why Does Everyone Else Seem to Have Their Career Figured Out?
Why comparison lies to you and clarity usually comes later than you think
Why Does Everyone Else Seem to Have It Figured Out?
The illusion you’re comparing yourself to, and what you’re not seeing when you do
Is It Normal to Not Know What I Want to Do in My 20s?
Why uncertainty is a normal part of figuring things out, not a personal failure
You Don’t Have to Have It All Figured Out Right Now
An honest conversation about anxiety, ambition, vulnerability, and the pressure men feel to be further along than they are.
What to Do on Valentine’s Day If You’re Single
How to Handle Valentine’s Day When You’re Single Without Feeling Worse About Yourself
How to Stop Comparing Your Relationship Status on Valentine’s Day
Why Valentine’s Day Triggers Comparison and How to Stop Letting It Affect Your Confidence
Does Valentine’s Day Pressure Mean You Want a Relationship?
What Valentine’s Day Pressure Really Means About Your Readiness for a Relationship
Why You Feel Boring Lately (And What’s Actually Missing)
Why That Flat Feeling Is a Signal, Not a Personality Flaw
How to Find a New Hobby
Why You’re Not Bored, You’re Just Putting Too Much Pressure on the Answer
How Do I Stop Feeling Like I’m Missing Out?
How to stay grounded when it feels like everyone else is moving ahead without you.
How Do I Bounce Back After Failure?
How to recover, reset, and rebuild momentum when life knocks you flat.
Conversations about dating, confidence, work, and figuring life out as it’s happening.
Editor's note
I started Guyset because nothing I was reading actually helped when I needed it. Nothing felt like it was talking to me.
So I built the thing I was looking for.
A place for the conversations you have late at night, in your head, or right after something doesn’t go the way you hoped it would.
A reminder that you’re not the only one thinking these things.
— Josh
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What to say next without overthinking or killing the momentum
