How to Move On After Being Ghosted Without Losing Confidence
How effort turns into anxiety, and why mutual connections never need to be forced
Should You Let Her Split the Bill on a Date?
Why Early Dating Isn’t About Money, It’s About Signals
Best First Date Ideas for Guys
How to choose a first date without overthinking it
How Long Should A First Date Last
How long is too long and when to end the date
Am I Supposed to Love My Job?
Why feeling unfulfilled at work doesn’t mean you chose the wrong career
Why Does Everyone Else Seem to Have Their Career Figured Out?
Why comparison lies to you and clarity usually comes later than you think
Why Does Everyone Else Seem to Have It Figured Out?
The illusion you’re comparing yourself to, and what you’re not seeing when you do
Is It Normal to Not Know What I Want to Do in My 20s?
Why uncertainty is a normal part of figuring things out, not a personal failure
Why Guys Don’t Talk About Their Feelings
How Bottling Everything Up Leads to Anxiety, Overwhelm, and Burnout
Am I Behind in Life?
Why this question shows up so often, and why it’s usually the wrong way to frame what you’re feeling
Is There Such a Thing as Being Behind in Life?
Why the feeling won’t leave, and why it might not mean what you think it does
How Do I Stay Motivated When No One Sees The Work?
How to stay driven when the grind feels invisible and the results feel far away.
Why You Feel Boring Lately (And What’s Actually Missing)
Why That Flat Feeling Is a Signal, Not a Personality Flaw
How to Find a New Hobby
Why You’re Not Bored, You’re Just Putting Too Much Pressure on the Answer
How Do I Stop Feeling Like I’m Missing Out?
How to stay grounded when it feels like everyone else is moving ahead without you.
How Do I Bounce Back After Failure?
How to recover, reset, and rebuild momentum when life knocks you flat.
Conversations about dating, confidence, work, and figuring life out as it’s happening.
Editor's note
I started Guyset because nothing I was reading actually helped when I needed it. Nothing felt like it was talking to me.
So I built the thing I was looking for.
A place for the conversations you have late at night, in your head, or right after something doesn’t go the way you hoped it would.
A reminder that you’re not the only one thinking these things.
— Josh
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How to Move On After Being Ghosted Without Losing Confidence
How effort turns into anxiety, and why mutual connections never need to be forced
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Should You Let Her Split the Bill on a Date?
Why Early Dating Isn’t About Money, It’s About Signals
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Am I Supposed to Love My Job?
Why feeling unfulfilled at work doesn’t mean you chose the wrong career
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