So, What Are We? A Guide To Situationships, Exclusivity, and Relationships?

I think one of the most confusing things about this generation, our generation, is our lack of commitment in relationships and how many terms we have created to confuse ourselves in the process of starting a relationship or getting into a relationship.

Older generations, like it was just dating. Like with our parents, like they just they went on a date and then they were dating. Like it it makes sense because if you go on a date, simply you are dating. It's as simple as that. Dating, dates. Like that's it. Dates, dating. And now we have so many convoluted, complicated, concocted things that we have created to confuse ourselves to kind of like.

let ourselves off the hook of commitment. It is so far away from what it used to be from our parents and our grandparents' generations. Like now with the existence of dating apps and DMs and Instagram and Snapchat and all of these other ways we have to date, rather than just going up to somebody and saying hi or being set up on like a blind date, like that stuff doesn't really happen anymore. Like people don't get like set up with the by their friends anymore. Like

It could and it should, but it just doesn't anymore because now we have all of these other ways to meet people, to talk to people, to start dating. And we've also along the way created all of these labels to continue to confuse ourselves further and further. We have hookups, we have situationships, we have exclusivity, we have relationships. Like we have all of these things that we have created to confuse ourselves.

So I am going to do my best today to define them all, to separate and parse out the meaning of each of them to hopefully help you define whatever you are currently in or that you've accidentally gotten yourself into, or define what you will inevitably start and get yourself into when you see the next person that you start going on dates with, with the hope that it can.

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Give ever everybody like a little bit of sense of clarity around all of this. Because it is so confusing. There is so much shit around dating now. And there's people that create new things every single day. And there's all of these terminologies and all this shit. Honestly, that's the the best word for it. Is it's it's all shit. It's all garbage that we have created. And I'm gonna do my best today to define it all, to help separate all of them, to give us all a better sense of what each of the things are and

you know, hopefully help somebody who has started in one, who who is in one right now, who doesn't even know that they're in one of these things, and can figure out what they want from there. Because you may think you're in one thing and the other person may think you're in something completely different. And if you don't talk about it, neither of you are ever gonna know and you're never gonna find out what you're actually in. And they may think like honestly, I feel like this happens so many times that one person thinks it's one thing, one person thinks it's a completely other thing.

One person thinks it's c casual, one person thinks it's serious, one person is seeing lots of other people at the same time, one person is seeing nobody else because they only like you at that time. And I feel like I've been in that situation personally so many different times where like I was never really good at dating multiple people at once. Like if I was seeing one girl, I could not see another girl at the same time. The one or two times I've tried to, like, it just completely and utterly fails. And it makes me look bad and I end up

Like confusing myself and with a mixed emotion and not knowing what to do and feeling badly about somebody and feeling badly about the other girl. And like it just, it's a complete and utter clusterfuck, and it becomes such a mess. Personally, I've never been good at that. I do not think that that means that like I think there are so many people who are good at it and can not that good at it, that's maybe that's not not the right word for it. But I think there are people who do it and see multiple people at once, and think there's no harm in that. I think there is no foul in that either. Like, especially when you're first starting to see somebody.

I think a lot of people date multiple people at once. And if a guy is going out on a date with one girl, you can expect that they're also seeing a couple other girls or maybe one or two others around that same time. And then when it starts to get a little bit more serious around like date three or four, hopefully you have the sense to cut off the other one or the other two and decide on the one because that would be unfair. And then you'd be like cheating all these people at some point. Like at some point it gets to a point where you're like, All right, you have to make a choice, you got to make a decision because

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Feelings get involved, you're gonna hurt somebody, you're gonna hurt a lot of people potentially, and you have to decide. And other times you're seeing nobody else, but you haven't had that conversation. You don't know what's going on in their head, they don't know what's going on in your head. And if you don't talk about it, nobody ever really knows. So what are we? I am going to try to let you know. When you first start seeing someone, technically by going on dates with them, you are dating.

But by our generation's new terms, you're not officially dating. Cause dating means you're dating. Dating means your boyfriend and girlfriend. Dating means it's exclusively just you two, also known as aka a relationship, aka boyfriend, girlfriend, seeing nobody else besides each other. And I guess that's where we should start because like that is the end goal, the end zone. Like that is what everybody is at some point or another trying to get to.

When you're in a more serious place and you want to be dating and you want to be seriously dating somebody, you want to have a girlfriend, you want to have a boyfriend, like you want to be in a relationship with somebody. So I think we should start there with the most obvious one. When it is confirmed that you are dating, officially dating, that is the terminology, dating. Dating equals boyfriend, girlfriend, dating equals relationship. And it is only confirmed by you asking the girl or whoever it is to be your girlfriend.

And it requires an ask and a confirmation. Like to be officially dating, to be boyfriend and girlfriend, you cannot assume. You can't just be like, I think we're dating. I think we're I think we're good. I think we're exclusive. I think we're boyfriend, girlfriend. I think this is it. Also, I would put exclusive in here, by the way. Like I think exclusive also means you are by by the terminology of exclusivity, it also means that you are only seeing each other. You are exclusive with one another. So you are by terms boyfriend, girlfriend, you are dating, you are in a relationship.

We've kind of like mucked the waters around exclusivity because a lot of times we kind of like some people, if you you say you're exclusive, you're not actually dating yet, but it really honestly means the same fucking thing. Like if you're exclusive, you're dating. And if you are not seeing other people and you're just seeing this one person, but you haven't put a r like defined relationship on it, you haven't asked the question, you haven't confirmed it with the other person, then you're kind of in that like muddy.

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Middle period between exclusivity and dating. Like that's that big gray area that I think most people get really confused by. When you say, and I'll get to this, but when you say, like, I'm not seeing other people and you're just seeing the other person, you are officially exclusive without being like, so we're exclusive, right? Like you don't have to say that. But if you're not seeing any other people and it's just you and it's just her and it's just her and it's just you, like you are in between boyfriend, girlfriend, and exclusive. It's like that.

That is the gray period, where I think is confusing. And I I I I'll work on that a little more too, because honestly, I'm confused by it all too. I came on here and I'm like, I'm gonna do my best to define everything. And I'm like, honestly, I'm lost too. It's so confusing. Like it you do get lost in all of this. So if you're lost in it, please, by all means, we're relating right now. Like it's so confusing. But the most obvious one, and it's to be in a relationship, to be boyfriend girlfriend, you do have to ask. You do have to say, like, do you want to be my girlfriend? And it can be

Completely it can be done in so many different ways. It can be done elaborately over dinner or over like a meal. It can be like in bed. Wing it can be in like the morning, it can be in the evening, it can be whenever and wherever you want. It really is completely and entirely up to you and your relationship. And there is no one size fits all for this. But it absolutely requires an ask of will you be my girlfriend or do you want to be girlfriend? Like that type of thing. And you do have to confirm that. You do have to

Do the ask. And if you don't, you're left in that like muddied, watered gray area of like, what is this? Because we're not seeing anybody else. And I want to be dating, and I she wants to be dating, but I think I don't know if she wants to be dating, and I think she wants to be dating. It's like, like you just kind of mess with yourself in your head of like, what is this? And like I think this is one of the things where it is more traditional. Like guys have to ask. Guys are the ones that do the ask here.

Guys are the ones that say, Will you be my girlfriend or join me my girlfriend? And it and it is a con it is up to you. Like you have to do that. if you're listening and you're a guy and you're in a relationship right now or you're in something right now and you haven't done that ask, but like you think you're in a relationship, you're not until you ask. And if you have asked, great. Happy for you guys. Happy for the happy couple. Cheers. This is the one we all know and love. The relationship, the dating, like the this, the specifically dating, exclusive, all of that.

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When you are boyfriend and girlfriend, everybody knows this one. This is the one that is not not confusing, not hard to define. The rest are the complicated ones. So let's take it back to the start. When you first start seeing someone, I wanted to start at the end, at the the end goal end zone. Now I want to take it back to the beginning. When you first start seeing someone, you're dating because you're going on dates. But again, you're not dating by our new generation terms.

You're going on dates, and that's what we call like the situationship phase. Like the undefined, what are we? But neither of you are asking yet. It's undefined, it's messy, it's confusing. It's this like phase and stage where you're just starting out and you're both kind of like, What the fuck is this? And you're wondering, is she seeing other guys? And she's wondering, is he seeing other girls?

And you're like, well, if she's seeing other guys, should I be seeing other girls? Because I'm not right now. But if she is, like I probably should be. And I'm gonna get my heart broken and I'm gonna get hurt if she's seeing all these other guys. And like after three dates, she's hey, by the way, I don't see this going any further. You're like, fuck. Like that sucks. So it's this confusing period where neither of you know what the other person is really feeling and thinking. And

That just takes time to get through. Like that just does take the dates and the time and spending time with other person and going on actual dates with them to start to figure out and feel out what this actually is. There's no other way around that. Like you just have to put in the time and the effort and texting and and talking to them to really define what this is and see if you want to you want this to go any further. And

By the way, she's probably saying all the same things to herself. And she might be saying, Is he seeing other girls? Like he's probably seeing other girls. Like, and if seeing other girls, like, I should probably see other guys. Like, nah. Like you both are just going crazy in your heads, especially after like date two and date three. You're kind of like, what's going on here? and she might be seeing other people, and you might be seeing other people, and you're both gonna drive yourself a little bit nuts during this time because you're both starting to figure this out. This is the time in which you start to develop feelings, you start to

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figure out that you actually like them and feel that you like them. And there's no way around this, as I said. You just kinda have to put the time and the effort in to make this happen and and continue to to see them and get to know their vibe and get to know if you vibe with them and if their energy is good and you like the person you are around them and and you are yourself around them and you can tell that they're themselves around you and that

In the moments when it's awkward or you don't have anything to say, like it's not so awkward because you actually feel like you really like them. And this all takes a lot of time. Like that first date, those first few dates that I've talked a lot about on Guy Set, and I'll continue to talk a lot about on Guy Set because that doesn't go away. It doesn't really get any easier. There's always kind of more advice to give, more to say around this time.

Because there's always somebody new or somebody going through it again, either for the first time or again after a relationship or after dating somebody else. whether it was this one of these situations chips where you're not officially dating, but you've been seeing somebody for a long time. There's always somebody in a first date phase. And there's always somebody that first dating advice applies to. And I think as I continue to progress in this podcast, I get better at giving the advice around this type of stuff.

But I think that first eight phase for the sake of this episode, like it really is important to commit to getting to know them and really seeing if you like yourself around them, if you like the way you are around them. And that is the best way to see if you want this to move forward and and move further. And letting this time kind of be messy and confusing and undefined, and being like, I know it's going to be like this. I just have to

Put the time into it because it will be worth it if it is. And if not, I will learn something and I will hopefully gain something from this. and if not, you have hopefully like a funny story or something to share and just experience dating, like getting yourself out there, getting that like dating sent on you and putting yourself out there in the first place is always it's always a good thing. And developing like the skills around confidence and talking to somebody and

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Putting yourself in a position when you're across the table from somebody else and you're getting drinks and you're like, hey, like you have to ask questions. You have to really be vulnerable and real, and that's hard and it's awkward and it's messy. And it's important to put yourself in that place to learn a lot about yourself and get better at it and and get better at dating and trying. And at the same time as all of this, you don't want to come on too strong or make them run away or feel like.

Push them away by coming on too strong because you're it, you're too into it. And everybody goes through this again. Like, this is the part that everybody goes through. And nobody talks about this part because it is so messy and awkward. And this is the part where everybody, even the most confident people, spiral because they're like, fuck, does she like me? Fuck, am I weird? Am I saying weird things? Am I awkward? Am I doing weird things? Like,

Like and you you everybody, I'm telling you, even the most confident people that you were like, How are they so confident? They also deal with this shit of like, does the other person like me? Maybe they ha deal with it less than us, but they still deal with it. This is the thing that that just like no guys really talk about. Like this really awkward period where it's like, this is the situation ship. E maybe you are hooking up, maybe you're in that phase of the situation ship. Maybe it's like better to talk about it in phases than than definitions or terminologies. Maybe it's better in s in phases, like

When you start seeing somebody, you're going on dates, then you're in like kind of a situation ship with them. Then maybe then you're in like a hookup phase with them. That kind of is like a subset of the situationship one. Then when you discuss that you're not seeing other people, you're in that like exclusivity, like getting more serious phase. And then when you ask them, it's like relationship, dating, boyfriend, girlfriend. Maybe it's like five kind of steps, which again is is too convoluted to to be too, it's just too much. but back to what I was saying. Like you

Don't want to come on too strong. You don't to push them away. and it's always different from relationship to relationship. Like it it always is going to be awkward or uncomfortable or weird in this moment. But you just have to do it. And this is where it's this kind of tricky. Maybe it stays undefined for longer than you'd like to, but maybe they're seeing other people, and maybe you are too, and you both haven't really communicated or talked about it yet. And

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Until you say something like, So what are we? Or so what is this? And and after a few dates, when you start to really like somebody and you see this going further, and you don't want to see anybody else because you really like spending time with them, you like the way you are around them, you like where this is going and you feel like it really could go somewhere. I think a simple like, hey, I really like you and I love spending time with you, I'm not seeing anybody else right now. Like, I think that's the

Perfect thing to say. And that kind of creates the exclusivity without having to be like, are we exclusive? And if she says the same thing back and she's like, I love spending time with you too, and I don't want to be seeing anybody else right now either. And I think that this is the turning point right here in any situation ship that goes from the situation hookup zone into the other one of like exclusivity, dating, boyfriend, girlfriend relationship.

And so it's like these two kind of like whatever it's called, those that that Venn diagram of like beginning and then there's obviously the middle part where it's like overlapping, it's that messy gray area, and then it's dating relationship, boyfriend, girlfriend. I think a Venn diagram is probably the best way to think about this. and I really do think something like that where you what once you feel really confident in it and you wanna say this to them, like.

You can just say, like, by the way, I'm not seeing anybody else right now. Or I don't want to be seeing anybody else right now. Like, I just wanted to let you know that. And then you don't have to be like, Are you? Like, are you seeing other people right now? Like, I I I I don't know what let them respond. And everything they say from there will tell you everything you need to know. This is one of those moments where like it

You you finally get out of your head and into where you actually are. You get to where your feet are instead of spending all of your time in your head wondering, worrying, anxiety inducing like yourself into all of these other like situations and worries and all of that shit. Like this is the moment where you get out of your head and into your feet. When you finally say to them after whether it's a few dates, whether it's many dates, whether it's a few weeks, whether it's a few months, whatever it is for you guys.

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When you say to them, hey, I really like you, I love spending time with you, or hey, I I I really like spending time with you, I really see this going further and I don't want to be seeing anybody else, or I'm not seeing anybody else right now, everything they say to you on the other side of that will answer everything you've been wondering about, everything you've been anxious about, everything you've been wanting to know will reveal itself in that person's answer, in her answer. Like if she responds and she's like, I really like you too, but I I'm just not sure yet.

Then it's like, okay, like now then we move from there. And if she's like, I really like you, and I don't want to be seeing anybody else further, it's like fantastic, amazing, you've you've done it, you've won. And there's everything in between those two as well. Like she might be like, I really like spending time with you too. I'm not seeing anybody else further, but like I'm not really ready to like get into something, or I'm not I don't know if I wanna whatever it is. Like there's so many different responses that she could give you to this, but everything you want to know is in her answer. So if you're in a place

Where you're like, I really want to know, then that is what you say. And at that point, you also have to commit and you also have to stop seeing other people that you're seeing, or you also, if you never were seeing anybody else in the first place, then you just have to say it. But it is really dependent upon everybody's situation. There's no one size fits all to any of this. there's no timeline for any of this, which I think is a really big thing. Like there's no after a month you have to jump from this side to that side, or after two months, after three months, like.

There's no there's no one timeline for everybody. And everybody is on their own timeline when it comes to a different relationship. And it also depends from relationship to relationship to relationship. Like you could have been in one relationship that you got into pretty quickly. Maybe it was after a couple weeks or a month. You could have been in one that was after three months. You could have been one that like it it's so different depending upon the relationship, depending upon the people in the relationship. And here's the thing about all of this nonsense.

Is that it's all nonsense. Like honestly, you don't need any of it if you don't want it. You don't have to go from this place to this place or this stage to this stage or worry about if you're in a hookup zone or in a situationship or in an exclusivity. If you don't have to worry about any of that. That's also the thing about all of this is it it is all complete and utter nonsense at the same time.

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At the same time as it helps you figure out what you are in and what you want to be doing. And it also helps you kind of navigate commitment and figuring out if you want to commit or if you want to be in something or if you don't yet or if you're ready or if you're not ready. It helps you kind of spend the time in the middle of it figuring out what you want to do next and where you want to go next and where you want to take this thing. But if you don't want any of it, you don't need any of it. And

As much as our parents and our grandparents were dating when they went to see somebody, like you can do that too. You can be dating if you want to be dating. You don't need to be in a situationship and be in a hookup zone or in a like whatever. You you don't need to be in that if you don't want any of it. It absolutely overcomplicates everything. And if you don't want to have it, you don't have to have it at all. But what you do have to have is a conversation.

You do have to talk to the other person. It is completely up to you and the person you're seeing to define whatever you are in or what this is and this relationship on your own timing and on your own timeline. And there is no one size fits all to any of this, but you do have to talk to the other person about it. Because without the other person in it, you are not in anything. You are not in a relationship. Like

You have to talk to the other person and you have to share your feelings and you have to be vulnerable and you have to be honest and you have to be real. That is what it takes. Vulnerability is a superpower in these types of things. Like you have to share what you're th feeling and thinking. And this is hard for a lot of guys. And it's not something you're used to or it's not something you're told or it's not something that you're reminded of that you have to do. And you might be waiting on the girl and you might be waiting on this thing to happen or you might be waiting for this mo.

But it is all up to you, and you have to talk. You just have to talk. Some people come into relationships on the heels of something else, whether it's like a long-term relationship ending, maybe never having even been in a relationship before, trust issues, trauma, their own shit. Like everybody has their own baggage when they walk through the door of any new relationship.

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And everybody's bag is a different size and a different shape and a different color and a different look and it says different things on it. And that is why there is no one way to do any of this, because everybody has their own experience going into this. Everybody has had their own experiences leading up to this. So you can't use what you've done in a previous relationship or a previous situationship to define this next one.

You they can't use a previous experience's situationship or relationship to define this one either. You can use what you've learned to inform your experience, but it's never going to be exactly the same. You're never gonna be able to have the exact same bag. You're never gonna be able to have the exact same tools from it to use for this thing. So what does matter is that you talk about it. What does matter is that you share how you're feeling and you learn and listen to how they're feeling too. That is what matters.

And you know what you have with the other person. And what does matter is that you know what you have with the other person, and you are clear about how you're feeling, and you're honest about how you're feeling, and they are clear on how they're feeling because you let them know, and you're being honest, and you're being open, and you're being vulnerable, and that is how you know. Like that is how you cut through all of this. You can cut through all of the noise, it just

Takes conversation. It can all be defined and it can all be answered with one simple thing that so many of us avoid in all of these situationships and relationships. And that is a conversation. Nobody really knows how to do it, or the right way to do it, or the proper, or the best way to do it. And there is no best way to do it. The only best way to do it is to have a conversation.

with yourself about how you're feeling, and more importantly, with the other person in it with you. The only wrong way to do any of this is to continue to avoid talking about it. To continue to like beat around the bush and skirt around it and never actually bring it up or never talk about it and stay in your head and stay up there. Like that is the only wrong way to do any of this.

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If you continue to avoid and overthink and worry, because what that does is it not only creates more anxiety for you, it also creates so much more anxiety for the other person because they don't know how you're feeling. They don't know what you're thinking. So have a conversation with them. Share how you're feeling, talk to them, and let yourself be vulnerable. Because none of it can happen without them.

So do not leave them out of it. Like let them into your door. Like open it up and let them know how you're feeling and what you're thinking because otherwise they have no idea. And otherwise you can never find out what they're feeling and what they're thinking and what's going on inside their head and inside their door. So you have to let them know. You have to be vulnerable. You have to share what's going on in your head.

Especially if you've been seeing them for a long time or a a long period of time. You've gone on lots of different dates. Like the best way to define any of this, the best way to uncomplicate this or unravel this or clean up that mess in a way is to talk. Open up your door to them and talk about it. Like that is, that's how to do it.

It's the right way to do it. It's the best way to do it. The as I said, the only wrong way to do it is to never have the conversation and never let them know how you're thinking or how you're feeling. And none of this is to say that you have to commit and you have to put a label on it. So many of us, including myself, are afraid to commit because of what could happen to the relationship, or you really love what you have so far and you don't want to change it and you're worried about what's gonna happen if you change it or if you commit or if you

if you end up breaking up and you're afraid to lose them and all of these other things that we think about and worry about, this is not to say that you have to commit, but you do have to let them into your door. You do have to let them into how you're feeling, what you're thinking. Otherwise they don't know and you stay up there and you're still also like, I don't know either. So in like cueing them into the conversation, including them into your thoughts could just be like, hey, I really like you. I really like what we have here. Like I don't know.

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I I don't know if I'm ready to commit to something fully yet. I don't know what but but I really like you and I like what we have going on here and I'm not seeing anybody else right now. Like that's great. Like that's and then hear them out, hear what they say about it. They could realistically, and I think what this conversation a lot of time time does is give you that confidence to be like, okay, I am ready because I like what they just said and I I I they're feeling the same way too. And it's not just me alone in this feeling this way, and they're actually feeling this way too. Like

I'm not the only one feeling confused and lost and undefined and messy and unraveled. Like they're also feeling that way too. So why don't we jump into this together head first and we can both feel that way together? And together we can kind of put our messiness together and maybe that'll create something whole. Like that type of it it doesn't always have to be a conversation when you're just ready, but at least letting them into your confusion and your mess and your uncertainty as well is a good thing. Just letting them into your thoughts.

Because that really could help you kind of conclude the thoughts or get to a conclusion or get to somewhere that you probably couldn't have gotten on your own. Having these conversations, having these talks, letting them in is the best way to move in a relationship. It's the best way to move in a situationship. It's the best way to move together. Like just keep cueing them into your thoughts and your feelings continuously.

And this doesn't end when you get into a relationship. Like this is mo I almost even more important in a relationship, letting them know what's going on with you and in your head and in your thoughts. Like this communication and what I think so many of us guys can work on and don't have a lot of practice with or don't know how to do it yet, communicating, sharing, talking, like

opening up these conversations conversations, starting these conversations without being prompted by her being like, Hey, are you good or what's going on? Or like being able to be like, Hey, I want to talk to you about this. Or as I sounded I meant to say hey. like being like, hey, I want to talk to you about this and and like let you know what's going on with me. Like that is so good. And I think I can work on that. I've worked on it a ton. I think every guy listening can work on this. I think every guy in general can work on that.

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And it's something that we don't know that we have to work on, or something we that we know that we are something we don't always know that we're not good at until we are confronted with the fact that we don't do it enough, or that girl that we're seeing says, like, hey, like you don't talk about this stuff, or you don't really tell me anything, or like what like until it it's usually not until it's not a good thing that we have we have to realize that we're not good at it, if that makes sense. So I hope hearing me talk about this maybe incites you to be like, I could work on that, or I should say something, or

Maybe it would be good if I had that conversation or opened up the floor to that conversation or just started it by saying, like, hey, I want to talk to you about this. Hopefully this gives you that. Hopefully it gives you a push or a minder or just something that that starts you up to be like, I could be better about that. I should start being better about that. And I don't think this is something that you get better at overnight or over a couple weeks. I think this is something that you have to continue to evolve in and continue to learn.

in every new relationship throughout your life. Like I don't think there is ever a time when you are done getting good at this. Like I don't think there is ever a time where you are done at this and you are the best you'll ever be at this. We always have to work on communicating and talking and opening up the conversation and starting it and sharing our thoughts and our feelings, especially for guys. I feel like that is something that guys are not raised to do or not brought up to do. And it's it's not like a a thing for guys to share and open up and

be vulnerable. So this is always something that every guy will have to continue to get better at. And I think starting here is a really good place. So if you don't want to worry about all the labels, don't worry about all the labels. If you don't want to worry about the Venn diagram and the phases and the steps and all of the things, don't worry about all of it. Just have the conversation. Just talk. Just open up, just be vulnerable and be real.

That is the episode. Thank you so much for listening to Guy Set, a guy's guide to what should be talked about about. I'm Josh. I'm 26 years old, and I'm here every single week, every single Tuesday to talk about what should be talked about for guys. If you like this episode, I really hope you did. Please like, subscribe to this podcast. Five stars. Movie, this one, two, for five stars, not four, not three, not two, not one. It's five stars. Thank you so for the I really, really appreciate that. If you have any questions, what should we talk about for guys? Head on my website, guyset.com. G-U-Y-S-E-T.com. There's an ask anything right.

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box right there. You can ask me anything we talk about. It should be talked about. I've gotten so many questions this week. Thank you so much to everybody that's written in. I'll be sure to include every single one of those questions in the next year guys that episode I do in a couple weeks from now where I answer all the questions that guys are asking. Thank you to everybody that writes in. Thank you to everybody that has written in so far and anybody that can continues to. I really, really appreciate it. And you are like kind of what makes this

operation continue because I then know what guys are actually asking, what guys actually want to know or or what they're thinking about. And they don't know where to find answers or advice on. And that is kind of how I build the episodes and what I continue to do. You can find so much more advice, perspectives, things that you want to know about on guyset.com across dating, situationships, relationships, all of this alongside career, lifestyle, style, what to wear, what to do, all these other questions.

that span basically anything that you could think about from your 18 to your 30s. Like it's all there on guyset.com. I post about four blog posts a day, so check that out as well. You can watch this full episode on YouTube, Guy Set. You can follow me on Instagram at guysetpodcast. Thank you so much for listening to Guy Set, a guy's guide to what should be talked about. And I will see you guys next Tuesday. See you guys.