The Dating Mistakes I Made This Year

Josh Felgoise (00:00.238)

Welcome to Guy's Set, the guy's guide to what should be talked about. I'm Josh, I'm 23 years old, and I'm here to find all the tips, advice, and recommendations for guys in their 20s. Let's get into it.

Josh Felgoise (00:18.03)

Hi guys, welcome back to Geisset, the guys guide to what should be talked about. I have a fun one for you today because I am going to be talking all about my dating mistakes that I've learned over the past year. Now I want to start off with a statement by Geisset representation. Geisset HQ has sent in something that I have to read before I go on this episode and it is that this one is all about me.

This is not about anybody else. This isn't about any of the girls that dated over the past year or scene or situationships or relationships, hookups, any of that. It's all about me, nobody else. These are just the mistakes that I've made over the past year of dating. These are five or six, I forget which number I'm doing, lessons or things that I've learned from my side of the street of my dating life. And I try, I try, try, try to keep my side of the street clean. But like, you know, it doesn't always happen like that. Like if you've been dating,

and ending relationships or ending situationships, it doesn't always end up the best. I feel like it's very hard to end things well. You can try your best, but you don't succeed. So this is all the lessons and things that I've learned from, not all, five or six as I said, of things that I've learned from my dating experiences over the past year. So I make a lot of mistakes as I said.

I try, I really do try. I'm not coming on here to talk shit about any of the girls that I've dated or anything, because that's just a really terrible look and that's just a bad idea for future dating prospects. I do want a girlfriend and it's just a bad look for dating in the future. So I'm never gonna come on here to talk shit. So if you're here to hear me talk shit, sure, I may spill some shit once in a while, but that's not the intention of the episode. It isn't to be like, let's get on here to bash my last hook-up or situationship. That's not what I'm doing.

so if you're here for that, like, yeah, you may hear some of that sometimes, but that's not the intention of the episode. If that happens once in a while, like that's just me when I'm ramble. Yeah. I recently said that I probably wasn't going do another dating episode for a little while, but then I had all these like learnings and things. was like, actually like after this one, I feel like I can go into the next situation ship relationship with this better mindset or knowing this more about myself.

Josh Felgoise (02:31.576)

So I feel like I wanted to come on, or the point of this is to come on here and share all that stuff with you because that's literally the point of this podcast. I want to get better myself and I wanna share all this shit with you so that you can apply it to your dating life or if you want, can take these tips or these things that I'm learning and see how they apply to yourself. That's kinda like literally the whole point of this thing. And I also just like, feel like you don't hear a lot of guys talking openly about this stuff. So hey, how are ya?

The intention here, as I said, is just to share what I've learned so far and then go into the next date and situationship with a better mindset and also just etiquette and share all that with you. So it's kind of like a one-sided therapy session or what I like to call a podcast. So these are five to six of the things that I have learned or the dating mistakes that I've made over the past year that I have now reflected on. So the first one is about

communication. And I feel like I've learned that I am not the best communicator. I'm not always the most open with my communication. I could be better about sharing more information to avoid having confrontation or confusion later. So an example here is, recently I went to a lunch date and after the lunch date,

I was like, all right, I have to go. meeting up with a friend for this, blah, blah, blah. And the girl was like, oh, like we're not hanging out after like, and I was like, oh shit, I didn't even think about the fact that I should have maybe before said like, hey, I just want to let you know that I have this thing with my friend after I don't mean to cut it short. Like, please don't be insulted if I have to leave early or if I have to leave right after the date, because I do have this other plan. It's not like about the date or anything. I just have this other plan and that.

like simple clarification or communication would have changed a lot of the weird tension that came up after that date. She was kind of just like, I thought we were going to hang out after this or I would have loved to hang out for this. And I was like, no, I would have loved to as well. But I have these plans that I've committed to and I don't want to bail on that either. So I feel like my learning from that experience was I should have just been like, hey, don't be insulted if I cut this off early.

Josh Felgoise (04:55.162)

I don't be insulted if I have to leave early, like I just, I have this other plan and I'm, I'm committed to that. So like, I'm sorry if it feels that way. It's not that way. And that would have been really helpful for her because it would have just like set the expectation that we're going to just this lunch date and nothing else after. And maybe I'll see her like later that day or later that night or another day soon, but it would have set the expectation. So she doesn't come into it thinking that we're going to have this like day together where I was like,

Obviously, we're having this day together. Like we're just having lunch and that was a mistake I made because like it makes sense to go do like a little like walk around after like hang out a little bit after as well And not cut it so short. So That would have been really helpful. So I've learned that I should be better about my communication And that's like a that's one example of that I was also told recently that I'm not a good texter by a girl and like if you're looking for that like little shit talking part like

You've made it and we've only made it like seven minutes into the podcast. So like yeah, it's What guy is a good texter? Like i'm sorry I don't i'm not putting like a bunch of like hearts and like emojis and exclamation marks and like yeah i'm so excited to see you like love you bitch like no That's not I feel like I don't text like that with any of my friends I feel like i'm a pretty like straight shooter when it comes to texting i'm sorry if i'm not like Adding in a bunch of emojis and so maybe that's something I should work on i'm i'm coming in fiery because that annoyed me but like

That's something I should probably work on. I'm curious like what becoming a good texture looks like and maybe that's just being like more open with like, as I said, communication. But I also like heart messages a lot. You how you have that feature on the phone where you can just like double tap and heart. The girl was like, like, but like you didn't like say anything after that. Like I thought it was just, just like you loved that, but like, do you really love that? I was like, wait, don't like, don't think into that. I did love it. Like I, I'm sorry. I didn't like.

say heart after or say like love that like so much. I don't know. That's one where I'm stuck on because I feel like I'm not a good texter with any of my friends in general. Like I'm a good texter with responding I feel like but I'm not a great texter when it comes to like emojis and like exclamation marks and capitalizations and like boom pow. I don't know like I'm not doing that like screen effect laser pointer. Sorry, but maybe I should be doing that more often.

Josh Felgoise (07:17.12)

Yeah, that's that's that's that on that on my communication, but I feel like I'm a good responder on this same note. I know people are like people like to play the game of like if she didn't text me back for a couple hours, then I'll wait to I'll wait a couple hours or if she waited like a day, I'll wait a day and like it kind of becomes like a texting game between you two, like who's going to respond quicker and like who's going to like wait the longer time. So I don't I don't like playing those games with texting. I like just responding when I see a text or when I can get to it.

But I'm not one for those games of waiting to text because she'd waited to text. You never know why she waited to text or why you waited to text. So I like just shooting out of text when I can. So in that line of defense, I don't know. I've definitely gotten better about not playing those games. I feel like a year ago I was probably like, if she didn't text me for a day, I'll wait two days. Fine, let's see who can wait longer. Okay, let's do this, bitch. can go all day. I can go all day.

No, sorry, didn't mean to say bitch. I didn't mean to say bitch I'll go back. Let's do this. I can go all day. I could go all day. Okay So but now I don't do that. I'm much better at that. So in communication I've learned about texting maybe I should add more exclamation marks and be a little more enthusiastic in my texting and I can also just be more open about like Making setting clear expectations with like plans and stuff I think that would be really helpful for for my future dating life the next one I've labeled as commitment

I personally feel like I commit to things sometimes without being like, I'll be like, yeah, sure. Like let's do that. That sounds great without actually being fully committed because I don't think it's going to like become an actual plan. Sometimes it's kind of like when someone's like, yeah, like we should grab coffee. And you're like, yeah, like absolutely. Like I'd love to grab coffee. And then you never grab coffee with that person. Like, because both of you don't follow up with the plan. And then when one person does, it's like, my God, they followed up with that plan. Like that's insane. But that's, it's great because like you probably want it to get.

I don't know. Did you want to get coffee or not? It's up to you. But, I think that I'm going to get better about only saying yes to stuff like that when it's an, it's an a hundred percent. Yes. Like it's either an a hundred percent. Yes. Or it's a fuck. No. Like I think that's a way better way to do it than being like, yeah, sure. Like that sounds great. We should definitely do that. And then not actually like, like verbally committing, committing to it, but not actually mentally committing to it. Does that make sense? So I.

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I'm pretty bad about that honestly where I'm like, yeah, like we should definitely go do that. Like that sounds like so much fun. And then I don't actually think it's going to happen. And then when it does, it's like, I'm like, oh, I didn't think you'd follow up with that. And now I can't make it to that because I didn't think that was going to happen. Or I end up like canceling last minute or something like that. And that's not a good look. Like it's just, it's not a good look. So that's something I've learned that I'm going to take forward is, is saying yes only when I actually can commit to it.

like mentally and verbally at the same time, not just one or the other and not like canceling last minute because I have, I want to change the plan then in the same vein. don't know. I keep my transitions. They are tough in the same, spirit of, in the same spirit of expectations. No, Jesus. In the same spirit of like commitment to things. I think canceling last minute is like pretty rough.

I have done it a couple times, but when you're in the other end of it, it's so shitty because you're like, you're looking forward to it. You've prepped, you've gotten ready. Like you've kind of just like mentally prepared yourself. It's kind of like that expectation setting. And then when somebody can't the last minute, it's like, fuck, like that really sucks. so being on the other side of it, like it's never nice to cancel last minute. Something I'm going to work. I'm, I don't do it that often. Like I'm making it sound like I do a lot. really don't. but if you can,

change that to cancel like an hour or two before instead of like no well even longer like i i just think canceling last minute is not a good look ever so it's something i'm gonna work on i don't again i don't do it that often but like it's just something i've done recently i did recently and i was like that was shitty like that was a piece of shit move and i shouldn't do that again i'm not a total piece of shit but like yeah sometimes i sound like a piece of shit on here but that's it's my internal monologue i'm just sharing with you guys and that's the whole point of this thing so

Sometimes there's good, sometimes there's bad. And this one, this one's kind of like a negative connotation episode, like I'm bringing up, I'm bringing out the mistakes I've made in order to improve. So it's it's a negative turned into a positive. So I've canceled last minute previously. I'm going to work on not doing that again. Okay. I guess just like one more thing on that. Even if you're not, if you're not like fully sure you're okay, you can, you can swing that or make that happen. I think it's just better to be like, yeah, like let's play it by ear or year. What is it? Year year. Let's play it by year.

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I don't think that expression makes much sense because year I think is the one that makes sense because like, let's play it by like the minute, like play it by year. And, I actually think it is year. It's better to just be like, let's play it by year. Fuck Josh. It's better to be like, let's play it by year because if you're not like fully committed to it and be like, yeah, like let's, let's see if we can swing that or like, let's see if that's going to happen. Like instead of being like, yeah, I'd love to do that. And then canceling or being like, actually I can't do that. So it's better to just be like, let's see if we can make that happen.

So it's not like an actual set in stone plan and it's better to be like, oh, I'm sorry, I actually can't. And it wasn't set as an expectation or a commitment that you were gonna, you were gonna go do that. Does that make sense? I that makes sense. Okay. The next one is setting boundaries. I think going into a relationship, I swing them all off or I rattle them all off every time. Cause like, I think it's important for all of them, like relationship, situation, ship hookup that you go into it with like a clear mindset of like what you want for that situation.

You're not going into it thinking that like like if one person thinks that this is a hookup and the other person thinks that this no This is not the right one for that. I'm gonna bring it into it. Anyway, this is not about setting boundaries But this is about something different like if one person goes into it thinking it's a hookup and it's just like a fun fling and the other person wants more of a serious relationship like that's something that you need to figure out pretty soon and like level set because if you're If you're the one who thinks it's a hookup and then the other person thinks the relationship or becoming a relationship then

that person's gonna have different expectations for you than you are for them. And I think it's important that you kind of know that going into it. It doesn't have to be an automatic like first date, second date, third date conversation, but I think once you're getting into more of like the weeds of a relationship, you should start figuring out what you want and what she wants or what you want and what they want, whoever you're talking to, doesn't matter. I just think that's an important thing to kind of know. I think I lost my chain of thought there. And then setting boundaries. So what I meant by that one where I just went off

a little tangent there, was going into this, going into the relationship, knowing your kind of like non-negotiables. So, and what I mean by that is like things that you're unwilling to compromise on. So I think it can be really easy to start making a bunch of sacrifices for somebody and then kind of getting like lost in the sauce of the things that you wanted to keep or maintain while in that relationship. So think it's really important to go into it knowing that like, if, for example, like if you

Josh Felgoise (14:30.442)

Want to see your friends and make your friends and relationship a really big both a priority in your life If you're canceling plans to see the person you're seeing it's just not a good look to your friends that if you if you're going to be doing that so if you want to Have both like plans with friends and the relationship. I think it's important for you to be like, yeah Like i'm what I was saying earlier being like, yeah, like i'm seeing my friends after this like

Just letting you know that I'm not cutting this short, like I do have these plans with my friends and I wanna see them. And I think any reasonable person on the other side of that statement would understand that and be like, yeah, absolutely, go see your friends. Like I'm not gonna stop you from them. But I think like canceling on plans and changing your like routine of seeing people or like whatever it is, if it's like calling your family a lot or whatever like the things that are your non-negotiables in life, like if you're working on a podcast like this, like, you wanna make it happen every week, that...

takes a lot of the time of my week. This is now a very specific example, if you have like a hobby or a passion that you spend a lot of time on every week or work or like things that like are a very big priority in your life, I think you can set that and be like, hey, like, I just want to let you know, like I have, I'm working late, like this day and this day and this day. And like, I'm sorry, but like, I can either see you after or a different day. Like just want to let you know, like that's like a boundary I think is really good to set in place before you get anybody upset or like hurt any feelings. I just feel like

If you're canceling on plans, can kind of you with anybody. But like I'm just saying with the friends one for this example, you can kind of come off as like flaky to friends and being like, oh, like he's prioritizing that girl over us. Like that's kind of shitty. In the beginning, I totally understand it. Like if you're just seeing somebody for the first couple of times and it's like, no, I guess I know I'm kind of up in the air about that one. If you're seeing somebody in the beginning and it's like, oh, like I'm I want to hang out with her. Like I'm seeing her tonight. Like, I'm sorry, I can't make it to this thing. I think that's totally understandable. But once you get into it a little bit more and you

start like already making those sacrifices that it can be easier and easier to just keep making those sacrifices and being like, all right, I'm going to see her over them. So I personally prioritize my friendships a lot. I talked about that. I did an episode on how to stay in touch with friends a little bit ago. It's really, I think it's a really good one. I gave like tips and advice for ways that you can stay in touch with friends throughout your week that just make it easier to squeeze it in. And doesn't feel like a big burden to keep staying in touch with a lot of these people. and I personally make that a big priority. So

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anybody who I'm dating or in relationship with will just like have to understand that these people are also priority in life. Like of course she's a big, probably the biggest priority. But these people, no, I don't know. I don't even know her yet, so I can't say that. But she'll be a really big priority and then it'll be a really big priority, like friends and family. I think you can have both and you don't have to sacrifice one or the other. So that's what I mean by setting boundaries for yourself. The next one is called the spark.

think you know pretty early on into the relationship, the relationship hookup, whatever it is, if you have a spark with that person. And I feel like on a first date, it's really easy. Like if you're feeling that person, like it's sparky, the conversation's going really great, like you're back and forth, you're not, there's no like breaks in the conversation. You know what I'm saying when I'm saying this, if you've had that feeling before. It's just kind of like an indescribable feeling of like,

damn, like this person is so awesome. I'm so happy to be sitting across from them. Like her eyes are beautiful. Like you're just, you're in that moment and you're not looking at your phone. You're not thinking about anybody else. You're just, you're there in that moment. And that's, it's like the best feeling ever. That's what I mean by the spark. And I feel like, you know, pretty early on into relationship situations, hookup, if you have that spark with the person and you can lose that spark, you can always have that spark. You can never have that spark, but

I think it's a gut feeling and if you're unsure about somebody or or a person you're seeing and you can get advice from thousands of friends, you can talk to whoever you want, you can get advice from wherever you want. At the end of the day, you know how you're feeling, like you know how you feel about that person if you want to keep seeing them, if you don't. And if you're kind of like, yeah, I'll give him another chance. And like, I really like them for like this amount. I like them for the first couple of dates. I'm not sure about like if I'm going to

I'm not sure how I'm feeling. I think it's great to give that person like another date or two and see if that spark is still there. But like at the end of the day, you know how you're feeling. Like in your gut of guts, you know if it's the right vibe or not. If you're a match for each other, if you feel that spark energy, like that's just like another, I don't think it's like a piece of advice or like a tip that I'm giving on this one. It's just something that like I've noticed recently in

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couple of dates where I'm like, yeah, like, I don't know if it's there or not. And then like, if I'm saying that, or if I'm like thinking about it, like it's probably not there and there's no reason to push it. Like if you're like confused or you're like, yeah, like I'm not sure if it's there or not. I think it's a great thing to give them like another date or two, but like, you know, at the end of the day, you know. Okay. And then on that same note, like a fading spark, I feel like you can definitely like get a spark back if there's like maybe like one or two like off dates. I feel like you can, if you want to see them again and see if that spark is still there, like you can definitely get that spark back.

It can definitely come back and be like, all right, maybe they were just off or I was off for a couple of dates. Like that's totally fine. But you truly just can't force that. And I just don't really believe in like settling for less than that scenario or like that form of happiness where if I'm going to like spend a lot of time with this person, I want that to be there and I want that to be there for them as well. So I like I want I want both people to feel that way in the relationship. And if you don't like, you know, and you just kind of can't force that.

Okay, the last one I want to talk about is called the end and subnote ghosting. So the end of a hookup situationship relationship is always, always, always hard. Like it's just never going to end well. I mean, some end better than others. I feel like I've had like a couple situations where I still like talk to the girls and like, I don't mean to sound like a dick or a player when I say all this stuff. I hope I don't come off that way.

That's never the intention of this podcast But like I really do believe it's important to talk about this stuff for guys in their 20s Like I don't hear anybody else talking about it. So that's that's why I'm doing this so if I come off like a Like a douche, I I don't mean to so I really don't okay. I just wanted to preface that I Think it's just very very hard to end things well like it is you can as I said in the beginning like you can do your best to keep your side of the street clean and

leave a late leave one of those situations with a like your head held high and feeling like you did all you could to end it well or say the things that that you wanted to say to that person but like it's never easy whether you're sending a break off text or like a cutoff text of a situation ship if you're the one on the receiving end it's never like it's never great to receive those either way like it's just not a fun part of the

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dating life. It's not like it's not nobody enjoys that part of it, but like it is part of it. Not every situation is going to end up great. Not every hookup is going to end up well. And it's just incredibly hard to do right. So my advice here is when you're in that situation, like think about how you would feel on the receiving end of it. So if you're thinking about ending something with a girl or a guy or whoever you're talking to,

Put yourself in their shoes. Like if you were on the receiving end of that text, what would you feel when you receive that text? I think you can keep something like that like short and sweet. I just truly don't believe in ghosting. I really don't. The fourth episode I did of my podcast was called Let's Talk Ghosting. I went in fucking shooting fire when I started this thing. And that was like crazy. Looking back at that, was like, it was an experience I had in that moment. And I was like, if this truly is going to be the guy's guide to what should be talked about,

I need to talk about the experiences I'm having while dating. I don't mean to be like airing out dirty laundry, but I was like, I was ghosted in that, in that like situationship and it felt like shit. And I want to normalize that for, want to, I want to make sure that other people feel like it's okay to feel like shit when that happens to you. It's okay. Like other guys are going through that as well and it's normal and like that shit happens. And I wanted to just be very honest and up forthright, like right when I started this thing.

In Hindsight like that was probably crazy to start this podcast with that much of a bang being like hey I was seeing this girl and she ghosted me she ended up texting me like after that episode and was like Not ghosting you lol and I was like, my god, you heard the episode and then like two hours later She was like my friend sent me the episode blah blah blah blah blah blah blah all this stuff and it was it ended up like Being fine, but I was like that's not a good look airing out dirty laundry like that on a podcast

where truly anybody can hear what I'm saying. Like I can put this out and like the Pope could hear this. He's not going to, but he could. You know what I mean? Like anybody could hear this. So, and especially like the small circle of people that I have, like somebody is going to send that to somebody who's going to send that to somebody. Like it's a big dating world, but like it's, it's not that big at the end of the day. So that was a, that was definitely like not my best move. I'm still like, I still kind of like stand by it because

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It's all it's all for the brand but like all that that whole story to say like it sucks getting ghosted and I truly don't believe in ghosting anybody I would rather send a short and sweet text saying like hey like you were really sweet I had a really great time getting to know you but I just don't see this going any further or Like hey, I had a really great time getting to know you and but I just don't want to waste your time because I don't see this going any further I think a text like that is short sweet to the point and

is kind of like a final thing. And I think that's very helpful for both sides of the relationship. For you, it's kind of like, okay, I've left this with my head held high, like as I said earlier, like I kept my side of the street clean as much as I could. I didn't leave her with like on read and just like curious about why that ended. I mean, not that I'm giving such a reason, but I'm at least giving like a, hey, this isn't working for me. Love you, bye.

Like I'm not just being like, okay, fuck you. Like I'm never responding to you again. The end of anything, I really think it's hard. It's always gonna be imperfect. It's never gonna go exactly the right way. And it's never great to send out or receive those texts. I was in that place pretty recently and it sucked. And like I spent my whole day thinking about the text and afterwards thought about like her response and was just like feeling very shitty about the whole situation.

And it's just never a good thing. Like it's never, it's never a good ending. Water break. It's never going to be right, but you can do your best to make it like the best it can be. I feel more comfortable talking about this stuff now because I'm, talking about my perspective. These are all like things I've learned mistakes. Like when I'm talking about ghosting, like I've definitely ghosted a couple of girls before and that's a bad look. And like I've felt shitty about it. And I like reflecting on that when writing all this, all these notes and like all this stuff I was going to talk about today, like

I was like, fuck, I shouldn't have done that before, but I think it's such a cool thing to be able to recognize and realize that you did that before and you're improving and becoming a better person through this, through like realizing that you've made those mistakes and now you're gonna not do that because it was a bad thing to do. So it may sound very simple, but like it's a big win, think, learning that type of stuff. So now I'm not the guy with the four episodes of a podcast that like talked about my ghosting experience with this girl.

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Now I'm the guy with 34 episodes of a podcast. And I'm talking about my personal dating mistakes, not anybody else's. I'm not saying that like, fuck her for ghosting me. Like I'm saying that like I've done that as well in the past and I won't be doing that again. So end it as nicely and as well as you can. Always send a text is my biggest piece of advice. Those are my those are my five to six. I think it was six. Five. I don't know.

dating mistakes that I've learned and noticed that I'm now going to like improve upon, whether it's about like the etiquette of dating or the mindset when going into dating, that I'm now gonna go into my next like situationship relationship, hopefully relationship, with this all like set in place. And my recommendation is to take like whatever you want from this episode. If there's a couple things that like you've noticed in your dating life that you're like, like, you know what, I could...

be better about that or I heard him say that and like I actually do that too. I should be better about that as well. So I hope that's kind of your takeaway from this episode. So I wanted to I want to just end with a couple more things like if you're seeing somebody and it doesn't feel like that relationship is adding to your day or to your night then like why I just feel like it's so silly to settle especially at such a like we're pretty young like I'm 23 like I consider that very young. I feel like until you're like

28, like, I don't know, even like 30. feel like every, I feel like this is like a very young time in our lives. And I know like stereotypically like in olden times of like our parents, like our parents got married at like 21, 24, like that, like this time that we're in right now. And that's totally shifted from that to what it is now. Like it's a totally new.

way of dating and and I do believe as well that like we're young until we're like 30 30 well like I just think like Even the early 30s like there's no reason to rush anything There's no reason to settle if you're not happy where you're at or with your relationship then like I don't know I think we're really young to to be settling so Make sure you feel that spark in relationship. Me giving relationship advice without having a relationship. So if you're listening to this, you're fucking catch and don't let anybody tell you differently So don't settle

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I also just want to mention a note about dating. This is a long episode. sorry. I had a lot to say. personally, like the dating world, like the app world is really hard for me because I personally can't date two girls at once. I mean, three, whatever it is. Like I can't date anybody more than just one. I personally am a one man woman show. Like I, that's, that's how it works for me. Like I can't emotionally attach myself to two people at once. I just can't. I'm,

always impressed that people can see more than one person at a time. That's not me that never will be me. If that is you, cool, that's great. But I get more emotionally attached to one person and I wanna just see that through before I move on to the next thing. But the dating world now is a lot of people see a lot of people at one time and it's kind of like a pool to pick from or like a roster. That's not me that probably never will be me. That's just a side note that I've noticed about myself.

I've tried the idea of, or I've tried seeing two girls at once and it just doesn't work for me. So that's another like learning or takeaway from my past year of dating. So that's the episode. I wanted to share everything I've learned and my biggest takeaways from dating over the past year. And I hope you can take some away from this and I hope you can either see yourself in one of these things or take something else away from your own personal dating life that you're like, okay, actually like.

The fact that I've heard somebody else talk about this pretty openly, now I can try and think about this more openly and just feel like there's other guys in their 20s like going through this shit and feeling very similar ways, but also like changing their ways and improving and improving themselves. Like we have that ability. We're pretty cool in that respect. Okay, so that's the episode. I really hope you liked it.

If you like this podcast, I really hope you did. Please like, subscribe, give it a review, give it a positive review, please give it five stars. Send any advice, questions, topics, things you want me to talk about, things that should be talked about to my email, josh at guyset, j o s h at gu i s e t dot com. You can also Instagram or tick tock DM me at the guyset, T H E G U Y S E T for any of that stuff as well. And I have some really exciting shit coming up. Uh, you're not going to believe next week's episode. If you're still here right now, like that's your little teaser.

Josh Felgoise (31:00.962)

Like I'm not gonna say anymore, but like the next week's episode is insane. Okay, I hope it happens. The interview, I'm doing the interview after this episode and if it doesn't, like that would be so shitty if I was like, my god, I'm so fucking excited. And then it's just like, hey, actually I have to cancel like I did on that girl. Okay, thank you so much for listening and I will see you guys next Tuesday. See you guys.