Insecurities, Approachability, and Confidence: Dear Guyset

Josh Felgoise (00:00.206)

Welcome to Guy's Set, the guy's guide to what you should be talking about. I'm Josh, I'm 23 years old, and I'm here to find all the tips, advice, and recommendations for guys in their 20s. Let's get into it.

Josh Felgoise (00:17.966)

Hi guys, welcome back to Guy Set, the guy's guide to what should be talked about. Happy Tuesday everybody, I hope you're having a good start to the week. I hope your Monday wasn't as Monday as my Monday was and I hope it's a good Tuesday. It's probably early, no, I don't know when you're listening to this, whenever you're listening to this I hope you're having a good day, whenever it is. Week, late night, late night with Josh, you wanna hang out late? Come and hang out whenever you want, okay. This week I decided to do an advice guy episode but that is fully.

devoted to answering questions from Reddit, which is a wild place. discovered crazy enough. I discovered like a couple months ago. I always knew read it existed, but I always thought it was just like the black market of the internet. didn't realize it was like actually a good resource for people and people asked good questions. And surprisingly people like some people are always going to be like the clowns of the internet. You know, you need those because you need some, you need always need the funny shit, but

Some people answer and take the questions on Reddit so seriously and people go there for actual answers. So I've been like, I spent like the last month, I mean, not on, not actually, but like I spent a lot of time in the last month on Reddit, like looking through all the questions and all like the, there's a couple specific sub Reddits, like look at me knowing all the lingo. What the fuck? So there's a couple like sub Reddits like called ask men. I made one called ask guy and no one has said anything in it, but you know, we're just gonna start from somewhere.

I also made one called guy set that no one sent anything in, like, you know, we're, we're going to start somewhere. So, uh, there's a couple of like ask men ask teens. Like there's like a lot of like ques- ask women, like ask girls. There's all these like r slash ask is its own thing. And there's tons of questions every single day. And it's an amazing resource, like shockingly. And I'm sure it's also like, I mean, not, not that I'm sure. I know it's also filled with like porn and all this crazy shit too, but like,

It's a good place if you need a question answered, I'm sure it's already been answered on there. So I'm gonna answer some of the questions from Reddit that I've found over the past month or so and do an ask or do an advice guy segment on just that. So like I'm just, I'm in here right now, someone really does she like me? And it's like, he put all these things that like she liked all your different photos. And then people come in here and they say like, this happened to me, like it's always like this. And like they tell their like stories and they're long stories, like people,

Josh Felgoise (02:36.982)

I think because it's anonymous and there's an anonymous and there's an anonymity. Yeah, there's an anonymity to an anonymity. An enemy. There's an anonymity and anonymity to it that people feel free to say whatever they want. People feel free to just like ask questions and honestly share their advice and opinions here. I'm sure a lot of you guys actually are also on Reddit. I'm just late to the game. So I'm going to honestly, instead of going back into that, I'll just find some questions from today and answer them.

What's really expensive, but wait, sorry, people, you know, the phrasing on here. What's really expensive considering what is, but it's also totally worth buying as a man. I mean, I'm going to read some of the answers too. And then I answer myself. Someone wrote condoms. That's a great answer. Um, I also don't think they're that expensive. like that's someone wrote it's more expensive if you don't use them. Very funny and very accurate. Someone wrote of a sect to me. Um, someone said a good fitting suit. I think that's a great answer.

something that's worth a splurge. So you'll need a suit for at least one thing throughout your year, whether it's a wedding or a bar mitzvah or a work event more likely. Usually there's like a work holiday party that people dress up for, maybe like you need it for work. You never know. You're gonna need a suit at some point in your year. So I think a good fitting suit at our age in our 20s is a necessary and not necessary, but it really, it's a worthwhile splurge.

Yeah, that's true. mean, whether you're wearing it's like a funeral or you're always finding there's always gonna be a place for a suit. think I think actually a suit is a really good one. A rechargeable multipurpose shaver. on that same vein, I would add in like manscaped I think is expensive but worth it. Like good razors that don't give you razor burn I think is another one that's good. Don't be afraid to spend good money on anything that goes between between you and the ground car tires, mattress shoes, they're always usually worth it.

good bed all the way. think that's another great one. Someone said a bidet. Oh, a top notch fragrance. I that's a good one. Like a really good scent or a really good, um, what's the word? Like a, um, a good cologne, I think is another good one that's worth the splurge. So I'll answer this question as I'm going to share my answers alongside the Reddit answers too. So like let's, it's, it's like an interactive online, me and me and me and the boys, um, tools. I don't know.

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Waxed cotton jackets. Yeah, that's a good one. Like the I like those like Carhartt looking jackets. They're like kind of like waxy and they look really cool, an air fryer. I think is a really good one a decent air fryer air fryer aren't that expensive actually So someone this guy said a high quality jacket good watch wallet pocket knife pair of boots Okay. Yeah quality tools people like really love tools Extremely quality footwear. Yeah, I think like a nice pair of shoes is worth a good splurge if you're wearing them to work every day

Um, make sure you don't wear them out as well because then we get ruined at the bar or if you're going out and just like walking in them all day, a good belt, I think is a good splurge. Um, people are loving the tools. Good whiskey. Love that. Skincare products is nice. I don't think you have to spend too much money on skincare products, but I think it's a good thing to spend on. Um, cologne, good leather belt and leather wallet. Yeah, sure. Okay. Yeah. I think we're at, I mean, someone just said flashlights. I think we're done with this question. Um,

Okay, the next question is, how do you deal with a best buddy moving away? Oh, that's sad. I'm sorry. That sucks. Um, I would say, I mean, I have a couple good friends who don't live in the same area as me. And I would say I try and make it a priority to like give them a call once a week, once every other week, instead of just texting, like we send like gifts and shit and stuff over like Instagram and DMS and all that.

But I would, I would try and make it a priority to give them a call once a week and just be like, Hey, how's it going? How's life? Like maybe schedule like 20 minutes into your, or not schedule, but like make, make 20 minutes or 15 minutes in your week to give that person a call. And I also think it's a, it's a good idea to plan a trip together to have something you're both looking forward to. So for example, you're going to London together, then you can send each other like things that come up on your feed from London.

and you have like a conversation that's constantly going throughout and you have this trip you're looking forward to where you're planning a time to specifically see that person. So I think that's a great idea to plan a trip with that person and a couple other friends or with whether it's just that person or whatever. yeah, make it make time to keep in touch. FaceTime call. That's what I prefer to do instead of just texting because I think texting is like the bare minimum you can do with friends. So yeah, call FaceTime. The next question is...

Josh Felgoise (07:26.242)

Dear men, what makes a lady less approachable at a club? That is such a good question. This also has 319 comments on it. So people loved this one. This this one. It's not a field day on Reddit. But my opinion on this question is what makes a girl less approachable at a club or a bar? I'm going to make it not just club because like I don't always go to a club. I think girls are least approachable at a club at a bar, wherever you are. If you're going out, if they're in a big friend group.

it's very hard to like infiltrate the friend group. You're not going to go up to a group of five girls together and like tap one on the shoulder and be like, Hey, I think you're cute. And like want to talk to that girl. It's not going to happen because it's, it's intimidating when there's a big group of girls altogether. So if it's a bunch of girls in a group, think that's the most intimidating. If they're just like having like a girls night, I don't want to interrupt that and be like the annoying sleaze ball that's trying to come up and like talk or flirt.

I also think it's intimidating when they are on their phone. I mean, not intimidating. What the question is, what makes it's approachability. Sorry. What makes a girl less approachable is when they're on their phone or like obviously not interested in what's going on. So I think if it's a big group of girls, it's not approachable. I think if they're on their phone, it's not approachable. And I think the same goes for like me or for us as guys. Like if we're all together in a big group of guys, like slugging beers and like being obnoxious and like throwing up on the floor, we are not approachable either. Like if we're on our phone.

Man, sometimes a lot of people do this as like a nervous tick, like to go on their phone to like, just like avoid the crowd, but that becomes a non approachable look. Like you're just not engaged. You're, not engaged with the crowd or interested in what's going on where you are. I also think if you have like a resting bitch face, um, this is for either gender. If you're like, if you look like, I'm not, not saying bitch about girls. I'm just saying a bitch about like either resting bitch face. If you have like, like you're just like, uh, and you like have that like.

snarl and that glare on and you're just not interested, that's not approachable because you don't look like you want to be approached, which is the definition of not approachable. So I would say those are probably my three things when I think girls are uninterested and not approachable at a bar or a club. Why is the internet filled with memes shaming short men for their height? Because realistically, everybody who's making fun of somebody has an insecurity.

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and they need to take it out on somebody else because they're sad about something else. They feel bad about something else in their life. So they feel the need to make fun of you. So if you're a short guy listening to this podcast, just know that that is an uncontrollable thing and that's not a problem. And you'll find a short girl or a short whoever you want to find. That will be your perfect match. And if somebody is making fun of you and calling you short and making short jokes, you're seeing a lot of short memes online.

Just know that whoever's making those is also insecure about something else. So they have their insecurities, you have yours, everybody has their own. But don't worry about it, let's see what other people say. Someone said, it's the fucking internet, it collectively hates everybody. That's true. That's true. And now that I've addressed the short king listeners, I wanna address anybody who's making those mean comments online, which is most definitely nobody listening to this podcast right now. But just a good reminder that making somebody else feel smaller has never made anybody else taller. So just a good thing to keep in the back of everyone's head.

What is one app that has changed your life? Ooh, that's a fun one. I think the app that has changed my life for me, Peloton, I think changed my life. I love doing the Peloton workouts. think it also, it's also really helped me not an ad by the way. I think Peloton has really helped me because it gave me a way to figure out what I should be doing at the gym.

When going to the gym is a very intimidating thing for me. I'm around people who are a lot bigger than me and are a lot stronger and know what and look like they know what they're doing a lot more than I do. So if I have somebody guiding me through a workout, I feel more confident in my abilities at the gym. So I think that has really changed my life because I go to the gym almost every single day and I use Peloton a lot.

I like being guided through a workout and it's my way of having, I don't need like a, I don't want really like a personal trainer. I don't feel like I need that, but I, I like having somebody there to guide me through a workout. so I would say Peloton right now for me. yeah, I'm going go with that. Maybe Uber too. Cause when I'm drunk and I call an Uber instead of dying on the side of the road, I have a way to get home. And TikTok. I love TikTok.

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Um, if you've seen me on tick tock, if you're here because of my tick tock, uh, I'm so happy about that and I hope it doesn't get banned, but, I like, it's a, an amazing way to creatively and just like freely share all the shit that I'm thinking and feeling. And it's a very like nonjudgmental place compared to a lot of the other social media apps. Like if I post something on Instagram, the first comment is like, you're a pussy. But if I put something on it on tick tock, people are like, oh, like I totally agree with that. And like they, it's like.

It's a totally different energy on TikTok and on other social media platforms. So I think it's a way that people creatively and share all creatively and freely share all their emotions and all their shit on and with the world and find ways to relate. And there's always bad shit about TikTok and there's always like that, that bad side of it. I'm not even getting into like the data side of it. I'm saying about like the mental and mindset side of it, how it can be harmful for people.

To me, it's had the complete opposite effect of that, of what people share about social media and the bad sides of it. I've found it to be like a very funny and for the most part, very like supportive place on the internet where I've created a very small community on there, but it's like small but very engaged community. And it's very fun to have like conversations with people you don't know and that ability. So yeah, TikTok as well. Those are my three.

Okay, so on to the next question. Be brutally honest. What don't you like about yourself? And here some of the answers. This guy said, I set big goals for myself, but every time I wake up, I'm lazy with my phone and I end up doing nothing. Okay, and this is exactly what I've talked about before, where the answers are kind of agreeing with what I say. It says, I find it very useful to cut those big goals into smaller ones like milestones. A big goal is always more interesting, but it could also be something that's overwhelming to approach. Good luck, bro. that's so nice. I like that piece of advice specifically.

Ooh, this one's sad. my God. I used to make fun of my dad for coming over his bald spot. And then one day I found myself standing in front of the mirror trying to figure out how to style my thinning hair to cover up my bald spot. Damn. My lack of impulse control. I'm far too indulgent with myself. Wow. I don't like how some people don't like me, but as a people pleaser, I'm working on that. And then someone commented, not everybody at the party is going to like you and that's okay. Like people are so nice on here. Some people are not, but some people are really nice on here.

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that no matter how much I work out and eat properly, my belly fat still won't go away even though the rest of my body looks great and people compliment me all the time on how I look. All I can see is the belly and none of my other progress I've made. Okay, and that, my friends, is called body dysmorphia. We can talk about that in another episode. I'm a piece of shit that gets angry and I fight the urge all the time. I have anger issues. People are so real on here. I haven't accomplished as much as I promised myself I would. I'm absolutely terrible at making friends. I'm too kind to everyone I meet.

I crave connection and feelings like someone cares about me, but I push everyone away and want to be alone most of the time. I'm fat, lazy, and I don't have an ounce of motivation to better myself. I can't fathom another human being being interested in me, so why bother? Wow, my god, it's really sad. My never-ending and intrusive inner monologue. I don't like my insecurities. I would like to be more confident. In my work and my relationships and with my friends and my hobbies, I feel like my work would be a lot better if I didn't get so anxious about a lot of the little things. My ever-lingering impulse to fall back into patterns of unhealthy sexual behaviors.

Not being able to enjoy things alone. I procrastinate a lot and lack self drive. How much time do you got? My self deprecation, I'm working on it. Perfectionism and procrastination. I'm not self confident regarding relationships. Does Reddit have a character limit? I'm not too much of a romantic. I have commitment issues. The fact that I shaved my body hair at 13. I don't wanna keep shaving my body hair. I think I could do a full episode on this question alone because this question,

gives me so much insight. know it's anonymous and know the anonymity, which I literally cannot say, makes it so much easier for guys to express themselves. And for some reason, we as a species of guys feel more comfortable sharing the pieces of ourselves and these like deep, dark, emotional thoughts and these like really intense things on an anonymous website that obviously nothing's nothing's really fully anonymous, but an anonymous website to the rest of the world.

more than we'll share that with a friend or a therapist or our family members. Like the fact that we can share it on here and look to other guys and just feel that like if we express it somewhere and this has been the place for it is so wild to me. And it makes me feel like this podcast has a fucking reason. Like once in while I'll forget the, I'll like forget the reason of this podcast. But the stuff like this makes me remember that like guys need to be sharing this type of stuff because if we just have this place for it and there's no community or there's no like

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There's no place for them. And I'm so happy Reddit is a place like that, but I wish there was a place and I'm trying and I'm working on creating it like a community where guys can fully express themselves and don't have to be so anonymous about it. Like they can find places where they can have an outlet and they don't have to be anonymous and they can actually share their shit. And like if they need to seek different opinion or different help or different advice or different recommendations, they have somewhere to go. The fact that a lot of guys go here.

every day, this question was put up 16 hours ago and has 250 comments on it. And most of them are like the actual reasons and then some people respond. A lot of these are so deep and emotional and and really like at the core of your deepest anxieties and deepest like things that make you feel weird and alone for. And the fact that we come here for it is so crazy.

So I am so happy that I'm at a place in my life where I feel comfortable enough to share my vulnerabilities and my anxieties and my emotions on a podcast to God knows who. And really I will never know who fully gets to listen to this every week or so. I find out that there's a person that I had no idea even knew this podcast existed that listens or has listened to an episode or so. That is crazy to me. But the fact that I have this outlet and have.

or I'm starting to create like a community like this where I can talk about this stuff, I think is really awesome. And I'm really excited about it. I get, I get rejuvenated about the idea and the fact that I do it every week when I see stuff like this. So I could do a full episode on this question itself. I mean, I did an episode about like, if I'm not, what if I'm not good enough a little bit, a little while back and it was like a sadder episode. I don't want that to be the vibe of any of my episodes. Like that's not what I'm going for ever with this podcast, but it is important to share my also like

core insecurities and my core anxieties and my core things that make me feel losery and weird and alone and all that shit that gets me to a dark place because if I'm asking you guys and I'm looking for all the things that other people other guys in their 20s or I'm looking and asking for what other guys are feeling and thinking I also have to share that that's just the trade-off that's how this is gonna work well because if you don't trust me I

Josh Felgoise (18:56.814)

what is this in the first place. So I did do an episode like that where I shared my like, what don't you like about yourself type of type of situation where I was in like a very heady spot. So I don't really need to that again. And in this episode, you can go back and listen to that one again. I'm like, I don't love that episode because I it was like a little dark and unstructured kind of like this one. Like a lot of them are just kind of like blab fest. And that's fine. Like it's a podcast. I don't like this episode, but you may like next week. So that's a podcast. Why you get to come back and you get to decide what you like and you turn it off if you don't, you can come back and find another one. But

Um, this has made me realize that the intention here is still really necessary and still really prevalent and it will never not be prevalent. And a lot of the things that these people right now are sharing and feeling are a lot of the things that I'm feeling a lot of things that you're feeling. If you're listening to this, we're all feeling very similar ways. I'm going to read a couple more, cause I think it's, I think it's just good. This guy said I'm too conservative, which makes me feel like I'm not experiencing everything. I feel like I've missed out on a lot of things. I'm 23 turning 24.

So my age and the people I'm looking for are here. So this guy said, I don't have abs. This guy said, I can't seem to shake my self doubt and that I don't feel safe around attractive women. mean, this guy said, I'm not sure. guess my self esteem and I'm kind of an introvert and my ability to communicate with people. Like sometimes I have trouble communicating with dudes and sometimes with girls. What I would really love is to be able to communicate without feeling some type of way like cringing at myself or feeling embarrassed with myself. Also my social battery tends to die quickly.

One thing is my appearance, my hairline is my biggest insecurity and lately my weight, which I plan to fix, but I am lazy TBH. I do plan to start working out, but I don't follow through. Dan, there's a lot to be fixed. And that's, that is the most like relatable comment I've heard. Like everybody, if you're a guy in your twenties, something in there you can pro most likely probably relate to, whether it's your communication with guys or with girls, whether it's you feeling embarrassed or feeling cringy at yourself, whether it's your social battery, whether it's your weight, whether it's

feeling lazy, whether it's your insecurities with your hairline or something on your body or something like that is one of the most relatable things I've heard and read in a very long time. And I am like happy I'm in this chat that I can see all of these. This guy said, I'm a naturally negative person and I've been trying for years to break the habit, but the way my brain sees it, I'm just being realistic. This guy said, I'm such a procrastinator. This guy said, I get to attach to people, but when they leave, it destroys me. This guy said, I'm not organized at all.

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This guy said, cracks knuckles can't set goals because I don't know what I want to do out of life. I feel like I'm ugly. I'm balding, but I'm too bitch made to go through with shaving it. Sometimes I feel like I'm dumb AF, but for some reason everyone around me thinks I'm smart. I feel like I wasted my time in college by doing nothing but working and in schoolwork. I really never made any friends. And he goes on and and on on on says he's a people pleaser and he's terrified to change as a result and has lived in the same house his entire life. This guy said, I don't love it.

I don't love being short, but I love everything else about me. And that's amazing. Okay. this guy said, I don't love it. I'm brutally honest, but I can't get out of it. This guy said my inability to do the thing, do the dishes, clean the bathroom, clean up the yard, replace the ceiling, call the dentist, make an appointment, see the doctor, exercise, whatever I'll spend days, sometimes weeks, dreading doing the thing. It'll gnaw at me. It gives me anxiety. I overthink how it needs to be done. I obsess over it. But then one day I somehow get the, that get the gumption to do the thing and it takes a couple of minutes. I absolutely hate this about myself. That is such a

interesting and real insight into this guy's life and I feel like a lot of people feel that exact way. I'm extremely apathetic and very tired all the time. My stuttering and my anxiety is holding me back but I work on it so I think I can overcome that. I'm anti-social and lazy AF. My lack of Riz. I don't like how fat I am. I've had tons of space time where I could be working out or eating healthier but I just haven't prioritized it. My looks can't control and my body can control. The way my voice sounds...

Welcome to the fucking club buddy. Um, and I sometimes I'm not confident enough in myself or not willing to speak up for myself. Well, I started a podcast, so we're a little bit different in that respect. Um, I think this was such an interesting insight into guys and I don't know who's saying it at what age. I do know that someone said they were 24 and I think there's some parts of my Reddit that like fully take me back. I'm like, holy shit. There are so many guys sharing their deepest and rawest emotions.

And we do not talk to each other like this. Like we do not share these shit, this types of shit, this type of shit with our friends like ever. And it's an interesting thing. And it's like an interesting way that our type or our species is that we just don't share this type of stuff. So my goal for this podcast and, and, and, and hopefully making like a community like this is where I can have like my own forum where people can be honest and open about these questions.

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And whether it's anonymous or not, you maybe like you put your age next to it at least to it's something. but I love that question on Reddit. You know, you, you never know who's writing these obviously because it's all anonymous, but it's the way a lot of us are feeling, but we just don't share it or don't talk about it. Like that is the point of this podcast. It's to talk about the things that should be talked about for guys in their twenties or guys in general. And this is the place where guys are sharing their shit.

Okay, I'll do one more. what books or films inspire you and why what an amazing question. I'm going to answer that myself. I don't even need the Reddit ones. I'll do one book and it's green lights. I've talked about it before, but it's green lights by Matthew McConaughey. And the reason I loved it so much is because I love the way he looks at life. Like he never takes anything too seriously, but he also takes it so seriously the exact same time. And that mesh and that

balance is the way I try and live my life and I try and catch the green lights when I have them and I also feel the red lights when I'm at them and the yellow ones when I'm just kind of moving and going with it like some days you're gonna feel like you're at a yellow light when it's just not and I don't even think this is how we describe this I haven't read it in like two years but it always is in my head but like some days you're at a yellow light when it's just like you're moving and you feel like the day's going and the days are passing by you and it's fine there's nothing going on

Nothing going on that's so intense or so amazing at the same time or nothing that's so bad. It's just a yellow. It's a yellow light. The days are okay. The week is okay. Some days and weeks are so amazing and it feels like a green light and everything's going right for you and everything's going perfectly and you're hanging out with all your friends. You're going on amazing dates and you feel like your best self. You're getting amazing sleep and you're eating well and you're like or you're eating great food or whatever it is that makes you feel amazing and you're working out and you're getting bigger and getting stronger and

you or whatever, whatever that is and you feel like you're capturing that green light, there's gonna be times like that. And there's also gonna be times where there's that red light. And that was me two weeks, three weeks ago when I made that episode where I was like, what if I'm not good enough at the things I'm trying to do? And I made like this like kind of sad episode. My mom called me after and she was like, are you okay? Like that was so sad. I was like, no, it wasn't meant to be sad. was the intention of that episode was to share that there are those red light times. There are those times where you're gonna feel so...

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upset and mad at the world and feel like everything's going wrong and you feel like what you're trying to do is not good enough and what you're doing is not working and you just feel like you're failing and those are gonna be those times those those red light moments but there are all there's a mix of the three so you have to capture the green lights when you have them and you also have to feel the red lights when you have them because the green lights can't happen without the red lights that was my takeaway from the book and it has stuck with me so intensely and when i'm in those red light moments i always remind myself that

the green ones can't happen without these and the amazing ones can't happen without me feeling like shit sometimes. Like I have to hit the ground in order to, in order to, to climb back up. So that is my book that inspires me. And yeah, outside of that, I will answer more from Reddit when I find them. But, yeah.

So I love the fact that people are sharing that there's so much shit on Reddit and I hope to build a community and forum that like feels the same way that Reddit does. And that's the episode. If you want to ask me any questions and you want me to answer them, similar to this Reddit stuff, like Reddit has been an amazing source for some of these questions in previous episodes, but I haven't done like, I've probably thrown in like one or two that I've just seen that I think should be answered.

This one came all from Reddit because there's such amazing questions people are asking on there and people are answering really well too. So if you have a question like that, instead of sending it to Reddit and you want me to answer it and you want like the guy set community to answer it, you can go to my Reddit, which is ask guy. And then there's also guy set. There's two. You can decide whichever you want. want r slash ask guy and r slash guy set and ask any questions there. and I will answer them on here and on Reddit.

And also you can send all your questions into my email, which is advice at guyset.com or to my DMs at the guyset or to my website guyset.com. have a section you can ask any questions. Those are three great places you can ask a lot of questions and I'll answer them. But yeah, I love the fact that I found all these amazing questions and there's a place for it and people are getting really good answers. And I hope that one day the people from Reddit will find this podcast and I think they will because eventually you find all the things you're supposed to find in life.

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