How To Survive Valentine’s Day

Josh Felgoise (00:00.206)

Welcome to Guy's Set, the guy's guide to what you should be talking about. I'm Josh, I'm 23 years old, and I'm here to find all the tips, advice, and recommendations for guys in their 20s. Let's get into it.

Josh Felgoise (00:18.04)

Hi guys, welcome back to guyset the- no fuck my glasses hold on. Hi guys, welcome back to guyset the guys guide to what should be talked about. It's Valentine's Day or it's- Valentine's Day is coming up very soon. If you're watching on YouTube, I am wearing some heart glasses because you know I gotta get into the vibe of this holiday because personally I don't have somebody I'm spending it with. But we'll get into all that. We'll talk about it for everybody. We'll talk about Valentine's Day for the single people, for the people-

couples for people dating for people not dating people who want to be dating people who don't be dating like we'll get into it all but let's just first talk about last week's episode because holy shit that was so crazy that I got the CEO of Barstool Sports Erica on this podcast she gave some unbelievable advice about career starting a job talking to your boss negotiating salary like anything you want to know for work we talked about it in that episode

And I think it was some of the best work advice I've ever heard. So if you haven't heard that episode yet, don't leave this one. But after this episode, go back and listen to that episode because it was such good advice. It was like a gold mine of career advice. And I'm so happy I got her on. And I feel like that topic of like career is now like set for guys set. Like I've, I've like, I want to get into every single topic for guys in their twenties. And I've now talked about like,

leaving my first job, joining a new job, and then I had her on and I feel like career is like case closed, like we've got it all, like that chapter of Guy Set is good at set. So now I can talk about more topics. I always say that I'm not gonna talk about like relationships and dating because it gets me in such hot water on this podcast. this little podcast has gotten me in more shit than you can imagine. Whatever you're thinking, like, I've been there and I'm still here.

And I'm still here, bitch. Yeah. No, no. Whatever shit you're thinking I've been in in this podcast, like double it, triple it, quadruple it. Because when I'm on here talking, I've talked about this before, but like I just forget there's people listening because I'm just I've gotten used to just like running my mouth on here. So, yeah, I will continue to talk about dating relationship stuff because like that's what I'm here to do. And I.

Josh Felgoise (02:39.15)

I will do my best to avoid talking about anybody else. I'll never use names. I'll never do any of that shit. But like, it's a topic for guys in their 20s. And I don't hear a lot of guys talking about it. So I'm going to keep talking about it. Sorry. Sorry, not sorry. Okay, so Valentine's Day is coming up and one more thing. One more thing. One more thing. I said HQ announcements. At the end of this episode, I will be doing a new segment. What crazy new segment called advice guy.

And I know that's like the literally the whole point of this whole podcast is like giving advice. This will be a reoccurring segment on probably most episodes without guests where I will, I will answer like one or two, no, two to three, probably questions that you guys send in to me to my email. And it's a new email. It's a new email. Focus on this. It's a new email. Advice at guyset.com. A D V I C E advice. Advice at guyset.com. G U I S E T.com. That's the new email.

because nobody sent anything to my other email and I was always like Josh at guys.com and no one sent shit there. So you can do it anonymously. will. I will. I mean, I don't think you can do an email anonymously. I don't I don't know about that actually. But you can go also my website guys.com G U Y S E T dot com and leave a question. I think it's in the bottom of the first page. I'll make it clear. Maybe I'll put at the top of the website and you can leave an anonymous question there too.

So whether you're putting it to the website, to my email, you can also Instagram DM me at the guys that T H E G U I S E T all these questions will always be anonymous. Like I will never like, I'll know, I'll know who asked it, but like, don't care who asked it. I will always keep it anonymous. Like always. There's no reason not to and share my thoughts on your question. I've been answering questions like this in a full episode form. I used to call them guys that toolkit episodes. I'm not going to call them advice guy, just like a rebrand. feel like

When somebody clicks on or somebody goes and finds like guys set toolkit and it's like, what the hell does that even mean? So next week will actually be a full episode where I think I answer like 10 or 12 questions and do a fast question section where I answer your questions quickly and not expertly because I don't know what I'm talking about, but I'll just answer them because it's from the heart, as I said. So at the end of every episode, I'll do like an advice guy segment of two questions and then there'll be a full episode, like once a month, usually where I'll answer a lot more, but.

Josh Felgoise (04:54.934)

I've gotten a lot of questions and I don't want to wait for once a month to answer them. So I'll look at the end of episode. So wait till the end of the episode or if you like, you don't want hear this topic, just fast forward to that part. No, don't do that. Don't fast forward. Just we'll get there soon enough. I won't go on for much longer, even though I've rambled about the new section for a while, but new section alert. It's exciting. So Valentine's Day, everybody. How excited are we that we get to experience this one again every year? We get to have a Valentine's Day that if you're single, like it

sucks and if you're dating like it also kind of sucks because you're held up to the standard that like you have to get a nice gift and if it's been a couple years relationship like maybe it's getting nicer each year and you have to think of like a nice fun thing to do at night and maybe top last year and there's like pressure from the dating side there's pressure from the single side like it's just a horrible like shit show of a holiday and I mean unless you love it like if you love it

All power to you. personally I'm single but I when I was relationship and I had Valentine's Day I was like this is fucking stupid like I'm happy to buy chocolate and go to dinner and have a date night but like it's just like a pressure day and it's like I don't even know what date is this year let's check what date is on the calendar like if it's a If it's like a weekday like it's a Wednesday like who cares? Who cares? Okay, no, no, no a lot of people care. So let's talk about it

We made it everybody's here at holiday where boyfriends feel pressure to perform and single people soak in their sushi and that's that and that's that on that for Valentine's Day, but we're gonna talk about it for each party. So So here's what I'll say about Valentine's Day. Here's what I'll Here's what I'm gonna say is that I think Valentine's Day is the perfect time to reevaluate either your relationship or your like singleness Both we'll dive into both. So let's start with the relationship one if you're in a relationship currently

I think Valentine's Day is the perfect time for you to sit back and be like, all right, how am I feeling about my relationship right now? Like I have a few questions for you to ask yourself and like honestly, honestly answer them honestly, but sit down with yourself at some point and like think about these questions. Maybe it's right after this podcast. Maybe it's like late at night, whenever you want to do this and answer them, like be real with yourself. So one is, am I happy with where I'm at in my relationship? What can I be doing better? What can I improve upon? Like same type of question.

Josh Felgoise (07:14.284)

What am I doing well? And how do I feel when I'm with this person? Like I feel like those are four or five good questions that you can answer and answer honestly. And if something comes up that you're like, like I could be better about going on more dates or I can be better about planning dates and being, okay, let me give you an example. Let me give you an example. So one of the things could be like, I feel like I can be better about prioritizing texting throughout the day, or I could be better about

planning ahead for a date night or being more like, what's the word, like not forceful but like, fuck this always happens, every episode it happens, it's so embarrassing. Being more like, the word is decisive, the word is decisive, fucking decisive. So being more decisive in your plans, could be something like, instead of being like, like whatever you wanna do babe, like we could get like sushi or like pizza or whatever you're feeling tonight, like maybe that's something you wanna work on and you can instead can be like.

actually, let's go get sushi. I have a spot I want to try. Let's go do that. So maybe that's one thing you could work on. It's that's an example, but like whatever works for you, whatever your things are that you want to improve upon. Maybe it's spending more time with your significant other, not going out, or maybe it's like trying to plan more nights where you're just staying in and hanging out. don't know, whatever it is. Everybody has a different thing. And I feel like when you sit down with your thoughts and think about it like that, you'll come up with something. And I think it's a good time to reevaluate. So that's the first one for people in relationships.

For people that are single, it's also a good time to reevaluate where you're at with dating. So how we doing? What's up? What's up? That's my squad. That's my group. That's my crew. That's my posse. The single people. We are in this together. So don't fear. I'm here. Sorry. Okay. I'm going to these questions as if it's me because it is me and I'm going to do them myself. how's my day? Maybe I'll answer some of them for you. Ooh. Okay.

Why would I not think of that in the first place to do that? Why would I just answer them? Why would I make up fake scenarios people in relationships and not answer the single one? I'm gonna answer it. Okay. So these are the questions I have for single people and then I'll answer them after. how's my dating life going right now? How do I feel about the dates I've been on? What can I be doing better? What am I already doing well? If I want to be in a relationship, how am I going about it? Meaning like what apps am I on? How am I talking to girls when I go to a bar or go out somewhere?

Josh Felgoise (09:37.25)

And then this is more of like a mindset thing. How am I talking to myself about dating? Am I being down on myself? Am I being open to new things? Like that's more of a mindset thing. And I think that's, that's a really good one. I think it's probably the most important one. So I'll answer them for you. Ooh, here we go. How's my dating life going? It's fine. Actually, I think it's pretty good. I've gone on, it's like some, some great dates. I've gone on some not great dates. I'm putting myself out there and I'm being open to whatever like comes my way. Like if it's, if it's

If I go on a date or so and it's feeling... I haven't thought about these by the way. Like I'm just running my mouth as I think. So I recommend doing this exercise with like a pen and paper. I always say pen and paper, but I really do believe it. So I recommend doing pen and paper or your notes app or just like sit with your thoughts, whatever you want to do. I can't do that. I prefer to see it out on paper or on my phone. So how's my dating life going? I think it's going pretty well. I'm currently not seeing anybody, but I...

I'm going on a bunch of dates. I'm on Hinge and not sponsored, it should be. Like they're sponsoring every fucking podcast now, but except for this one, like somebody at the Hinge like, hello. So I'm on Hinge. That's the date. That's like the app that I feel like works the best for me. I don't know why I just like, haven't tried Bumble or anything else. I don't know. Tinder feels like too trashy now. And it feels like the app people go on like for trashy behavior. So like, I'm not really looking to be.

I'm gonna be honest with you. really I redownloaded tinder like a couple weeks ago and I was like I was like, yeah, like why not? Like let's try a new Avenue like if something was not working on tik-tok I'll post on Instagram like like why not like let's try a new Avenue like what's the harm and I got on tinder and I was like, like this is like garbage town on here like this is like everybody is on here like just to hook up and that's that and it just feels like that and it feels like Slimy and I'm not in for it. So I deleted it tinder

I was gonna say this is no shade to Tinder, but like that's big shade to Tinder. Like I just think it's a trashy app now. I think it used to be like the way people really met. Like when it started, it like, it was the hinge of its time and things change. So sorry Tinder, you're out. Hinge is in. So I'm on hinge. I'm going on dates. I'm trying to go on a date like every other week or so. I feel like once a week is a lot for me. I don't know what it is for you, but that's my like kind of truth of it. And I think it's going pretty well. Okay. The next question I asked was

Josh Felgoise (12:01.358)

What can I be doing better? mean, I did a whole episode on that. So go back two episodes ago. I think it was called. Oh yeah, it's called my biggest dating mistakes. I think it's episode 34 and you can listen to that one. Like I dive deep into what I can be doing better. And there's like six things that I know that I messed up on or screwed up with and I'm to get better at. So I did a whole episode on that. So listen to that. I was very honest. Like I was almost too honest. Like I put it out and I was like, oh, like that was a lot of information about my

my my like how i'm thinking and like everything i'm feeling and i'm just putting it out for anybody to hear and Yeah, like fuck it. What's what's the worst that happens? So well, well Yeah, we'll get into that another time with the worst that could happen happened, but we'll get into that another time That's a little cliffhanger for you because as I talked about earlier like i've got that got that episode Woof, okay, but I loved it and i'm still happy I did it I stand by it because I think it's important for guys to be honest about like

what they learn about themselves through dating, what they learn about themselves, what they learn about what they can do better. And I think it's cool that I have a place that I can be pretty honest and not pretty honest, I can be super honest and very vulnerable and share everything in hopes that other people can feel like if they're thinking that same way.

That it's okay and it's normal and it's not embarrassing. It's not weird to think that way. And it's cool to improve and get and want to get better. So I'm happy I did that episode. But you go. Yeah. Go listen to that one after the CEO one because that's that's the answer to that question. There's a lot of things. And then the next one was what am I doing well? I think there's a lot of things I'm doing well. Actually, I like to think that I'm a fun date. That's that. Like I talk to myself pretty well. Like to answer like the mindset one of how am I talking to myself about dating?

Like am I being down on myself? Am I being open? Like, of course when something ends, it's hard to be like so positive and uppity about it. But I feel like I'm happy with the place I'm in with dating and I've gone on a lot of dates and I put myself out there as I said, and like, that's cool. Like it's fun to try new things. It's fun to meet new people. If it fails, it fails. If you never try, you never know. So like I'm excited about how open I've been to going to meet new girls and

Josh Felgoise (14:19.158)

going out to dates and all that good stuff. So yeah, I feel like I'm talking to myself pretty well. So do what I did and answer those questions if you're single and I think it'll help. think it puts you in like back in a good mindset if you're pretty honest with yourself about all this stuff. Okay. I was I was a quick transition. I was like, let me get the fuck out of there. Okay. The next one is now back to the cup. I was trying to get out of there quickly. Like I don't know if you could tell but

I've gotten a lot more comfortable on this microphone and on this podcast and I'm being very honest and vulnerable like all the time now, but there's still things that make me like, I'm like, damn, like why? Like I'm going deep with everybody and I don't even know who's gonna hear this. Anyway, the next one is back to the couples. I wanna answer two questions for like the couples and then also for the single people. So one is what should I do for Valentine's Day?

from somebody who's single and has no Valentine's Day plans right now. What I think you should do, I've only had one Valentine's Day, sad, big sad, but like, I had a great time. I had a great time that one Valentine's Day with my previous ex-girlfriend. And like, yeah, so I had one Valentine's experience. So what gives me the right to talk about this? My one experience. That's what gives me the right to talk about this Valentine's Day for couples. And I just think I'm a good date planner. like, that's, no, that sounds cocky.

I don't mean to sound cocky. I do think I plan fun dates So that's why I'm gonna talk about what I think you should do for Valentine's Day I think you should plan a nice dinner. I think you can either cook at home or you can Go out somewhere nice make a nice reservation I think you should buy flowers think you should always buy flowers girls love flowers who doesn't love flowers also chocolate like stop at CVS you don't have to get something so nice, but like

Maybe make it look a little nicer, like wrap it with a bow. do put some effort in, put some effort in, get some flowers, roses, whatever you prefer. And not like the supermarket flowers, like let's be, let's be nice. No, no, no, you can get supermarket flowers. Like go get some nice flowers, get some chocolate, bring them to her at the dinner, whether you're at going to reservation or you're cooking at home, just do something that's like a little bit nicer than usual.

Josh Felgoise (16:35.498)

Um to try and like i'm here I am falling into the fucking trap of the hallmark holiday i'm telling you you should do something nicer than usual because It's one those days that's been propped up as like a special extra day But like it is it is what it is and I think Why not like why not dive into it if you're in a relationship? Why not have fun with it? Um, so I think you should do something a little bit more special than usual Um, you don't spend something so you don't have to be like so crazy expensive So that's what I think uh, you should do if you're in a relationship. I feel like that's a nice thing to do I think it's a dinner

Chocolate roses holiday you can pick yourself a pair of these glasses up give them to her if you want and the other one I want to answer is what should I get my significant other for Valentine's Day? I kind of answered that in the last one But I I think you should get like roses flowers chocolate whatever and then if you want to get something nice and you can get like a necklace a little piece of jewelry I heard from my followers on Instagram that you should not get heart jewelry heart jewelry is out Take it to the trash dump it if you've if you've bought it already throw it away

Put it down the garbage disposal. They're out on hearts. The girls are out on heart jewelry. I think I liked heart jewelry, but I heard it was tacky and it's old and it's not the vibe. So if you're looking to buy heart jewelry, don't. That's what I heard from a lot of girls on Instagram. So yeah, like you want to get like a little piece of jewelry. I don't think it has to be so expensive or so crazy. So outrageous. You're also probably paying for dinner if you're a guy listening to this. So

Yeah, think treat treating to dinner is really nice and and it doesn't have to be something so crazy. Little teddy bear is always nice. A card. let's talk about a card. A handwritten card I think is a nice thing to do. It's like an older classy gentlemanly thing to buy. So go get a card from CVS and write a little handwritten note. I think that's cute. Yeah. Okay, cool. And what you could write on the card is something like this. Hey, babe. Hey, baby. Pookie, whatever you want to call her.

happy Valentine's day. I love you. Love Josh. No, you can write whatever you want, but yeah, get a handwritten card. I think it's nice. and then for what should I do if I'm single? Let's, let's, let's bring it back to us. Enough with the people relationships. Enough with those motherfuckers. Enough. Enough. Let's talk about us. We're the ones that matter on this holiday because we're the ones that are in our sorrow. Okay. So what I think you should do if you're single is treat yourself. Go.

Josh Felgoise (18:59.342)

get yourself something nice, whether it's like for dinner, get yourself like some takeout sushi. I went on a date last year. Oh my God, I forgot about this until right now. I went on a date, a first date last year and didn't realize it was on Valentine's Day. Like I just, I didn't even think about it. It didn't cross my mind. And I was like, like two days before I was like, oh my God, I'm on a first date on Valentine's Day. Like that's like a cardinal rule, not why would I do that? Like, hello? Am I like, well, that's not even like why?

The expectations are already so high. So what I did, this was so cute. I bought a rose and, actually no, my office had roses for everybody. So I took one of those and gave it to her. And I was like, that was sweet. I never got a second date. Anyway, no, we just like didn't vibe that well. I think she was like, she was super sweet, super nice, great girl, deserves the world. and I hope that one day a lovely man can try her handmade pasta that she makes.

That's all I wish for her. I wish her the best and nothing else in life.

But what I think you should do if you're single is I think you should order Uber Eats, get yourself something nice, or go make yourself something nice, and have a fun night for yourself, or go hang out with friends. Again, it's a Wednesday, so it doesn't matter. Similar to the New Year's Eve this year, it was a Sunday night, so it didn't matter. When it's on a random day of the week, I think it helps a lot because there's not as much pressure of, oh my God, Friday night, all the couples are out, and I have to now make plans, or I'm gonna feel like a loser at home. It's a Wednesday.

You have work tomorrow. Go get your ass up and work tomorrow. Like watch a movie, hang out with some friends, make food, order food. Just do something, do your normal thing. I don't think you have to put so much pressure on it if you're single. What I'm gonna do, I'm gonna be on a flight, but what I would do is order sushi and watch a movie because that's my ideal night in life is ordering sushi and watching a movie if you wanna know what really gets me going. And buy yourself a gift, buy yourself something nice.

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If you've been looking for something, you're looking at like a new pair of shoes, you've been thinking about getting yourself a new whatever the fuck, go get it for yourself. Treat yourself. Why not? Life short, money. Money lasts short. Life lasts short. No, I'm not gonna even try. I'm not gonna even try. Okay, that is the Valentine's Day part. Now onto the new segment of Guy Set Advice Guy where I answer two to three questions from the audience you guys send in to my email, Josh. No, fuck.

To my email advice at guyset.com, advice at guyset, guiset.com or to my DMs at the guyset, t-h-e-g-u-i-s-e-t on Instagram or on the website guyset.com, guiset.com. There's a little box you can submit anonymously. And this is the part in the episode where I answer questions that you send in. So please send in anything at all, anything you want me to talk about, anything that should be talked about for guys in their twenties, any questions you have for yourself, questions that friends had, the things that come up throughout the week. And you're like, huh, you know what? want someone else's opinion on that.

That's me. I'm happy to give my opinion and I'm excited to do this. So and I'm I'm theming them. So like they'll usually be themed based on the episode. They're not just like actually no, I'm not they're gonna they're these are more like dating and hinge ones because that's what came in this week. So the first question is how should I ask a girl out over text? I think it's super simple and we over complicated as guys because we're nervous about what they're gonna say or nervous about what the what the response is gonna be if she's gonna reject us whatever blah blah blah.

I always say, I will always stand by this, like, if you don't shoot your shot, if you don't try, you'll never know. So like, why not? The text I would send if I'm asking somebody out is being pretty definitive. Like, I really like setting a date and a time and like where you want to go. So it feels like an actual plan. So instead of being like, Hey, you're free to grab drinks this week. Like would love to see you instead of doing that. I would say, Hey, are you free Thursday at seven 30 to grab drinks this week?

would love to see you something like that. think something short and sweet like that. You can add your spin on it add your own personal flair to that message. But I think overall like giving some definitive set plan is super helpful in making the plan actually happen. So yeah, like send something like hey, are you free at 8pm Wednesday to go to this wine bar would love to see you or are you free Wednesday you get it you get the vibe I don't have to keep going you get what I'm saying, but I think set a definitive time and plan. Okay.

Josh Felgoise (23:29.484)

The next one is what are your thoughts on adding lol or haha after haha after a text I Do this pretty often and I'm really really working on it. Like it's it's something I'm I really want to get better at I think adding lol or haha to a text like discounts the whole text it's like what you're basically saying when you add an lol to a text is like what I said actually didn't mean like I don't really care about what I just said and I

Or I'm nervous that what you're going to think of it and I'm trying to like discredit it before it goes through. So it just like, and I'm really working on it. Like one of the, one example I have is that when I moved from hinge to texting a girl, like after I've asked for their number and I moved the conversation over to text, I will, I used to be like, Hey, this is Josh from hinge, LOL. And LOL is used as a crutch. Like it's just, it's the best crutch we all have at our disposal.

And we all use it like way too often. Exactly like the example I just said, like, Hey, this is Josh from Hinge, LOL. Why did I just need to add an LOL to that? And my friends called me out for it like two or three weeks ago. We were talking about something that came up and they were reading a text, whatever. I don't know what it was, but they were like, why did you say LOL? Like you didn't need to say that. Like she'd be like, Hey, this is Josh from Hinge. And then keep the conversation going. The reason I added the LOL is because I was like, it's funny that I'm moving from hinge to text. And this is like an awkward.

thing that we all do and it's just like a normalized like I just it's awkward and weird and awkward so that's why I add an lol like it's a crutch for me so I think if you're it as a crutch you shouldn't use it like if the text can stand alone without an lol or a haha then I think it should unless it like is like you're like lol lol like then it's different but this is only speaking in terms of like using it as a crutch so if you're using it as a crutch

try not to as much. don't think it's helpful and I think it just discredits exactly what you said. It's kind of like, hey, it's Josh from Hinge. Like, why did you, it's kind of like slouching like I'm doing right now. It's like you stand up straight and say, hey, this is Josh from Hinge. Why do you have to slouch over and be like, hey, this is Josh from Hinge. Like, do I have to, why do you have to do that? Or it's kind of like when people put their,

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This is like a very weird analogy, but it's kind of like when people like put their hands in their sleeves, like, I'm so cold. Like why, like you, you like, it like looks like you're like, you don't take yourself so seriously. Does that make sense? Does that analogy make sense? Like it, it just looks like you're not like, I think the stand up straight one makes more sense. It's like slouching over instead of standing up straight, the LOL. So if you're using as a crutch, don't. Okay. I'll answer one more because it's a new section and I want to make, I want to.

Do my best. my God. How did I not? How did I almost not pick this one? Okay. The final advice guy question of the day is should I get my girlfriend perfume for Valentine's Day or will she think I'm saying she smells? I don't think that would be something that a girl would think. I mean, I'm not a girl so I can't speak for that gender. but I don't think that's like a thought that would cross someone's mind being like, my God, he thinks I smell like shit. Like you're not buying her like

Deodorant and being like let's let's clean up at the BO department, but you're buying her like a perfume like perfumes expensive I think it's a nice gift. I do think though. It's not a great gift because I Think that girls prefer to buy that type of stuff for themselves like I don't know I would like if a girl bought me cologne, but things smell different on every single person So she could try it and it just like it doesn't work with her scent her like bodily odor So I think

it's best to let her pick that type of stuff. But a recommendation I got, I asked this question to the audience on Instagram, is find the perfume that she likes and buy it in travel size because every girl needs travel size perfume or stuff like that. So get it in travel size, that's a nice gift. So if you're looking to buy, like don't go all out and try, like buy her a different new perfume. don't think, and that's something she'd rather buy on her own, but I think it's nice to get what she has in a travel size.

But I don't think she's gonna think you say you're thinking she smells bad. Like I wouldn't jump to that conclusion. Maybe she would. I don't know her. And I wish her the best. And I wish you guys the best. I hope you have a wonderful Valentine's Day. For all the couples out there, I hope you have a great Valentine's Day. I hope these suggestions helped. For everybody that's single out there, what up, yo, hey, how we doing? No shade to the couples, but like you guys are my people. like, you know, we relate on a different level. But I hope everybody has a wonderful.

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