Getting Ghosted, First Texts, and Rescheduling Dates: Dear Guyset

Welcome back to another Dear Guyset episode where I answer the questions that guys are asking. These are some of my favorite episodes to do. They're also some of the most popular episodes that I do where I answer the questions that you guys send in, the questions that guys are asking online that I find that other guys are asking that I'm hearing guys ask.

that I compile from the month before and answer and I try and do these every single month. I'm definitely going to going forward do these every single month because I love them. I know you guys love them. I can tell by the listeners that that you guys love them and I love doing them. I think they're really fun and this is kind of the foundation for guys set the bedrock if you will of what I'm doing here what I'm trying to build here because I think this is the most important

important part of all of this and I started guys step by saying I start every episode by saying the guys guide to what should be talked about and this is where I provide the answers are not the answers but like my advice or my recommendations my perspective on the questions that guys don't know where to ask and that is the whole purpose of guys said it's answering the questions that guys don't know where to ask or providing advice on those I don't claim to be an expert I never will claim to be an expert but I hope that something I say in here, some advice that I provide in here will help inform your situation or give you something to bring toward your, hopefully give you some sort of solution. And you let me know at the end if you feel that way. There's always some sort of a little bit of like an imposter syndrome in answering these questions because I'm just one guy, I'm just one opinion, but I feel like it's just helpful to have somebody else to hear that.

They're also going through the same thing or have gone through the same thing before and have another opinion on it because a lot of these questions I don't know where to ask. I think having something, someone to ask or somewhere to hear an answer or perspective is always good. So let's get into it. The first question is how long should I give someone to reschedule a date? also these are always anonymous. I'm never going to say who these are from. So you can send in questions anytime. I'm like, let's get into it. And then I'm like adding more preface.

You can send in questions anytime to my website. It's guyset.com, G-U-I-S-E-T.com. There's an ask me anything right there. I'm gonna make that even easier to find in like the upcoming weeks. But yeah, you can send in questions anytime, always anonymous. Okay, now let's really get into it. The first question is, how long should I give someone to reschedule a date? So I'm assuming that you were canceled on or like maybe last minute they said like, hey, like can we reschedule? Something came up, blah, blah.

I think this should be pretty quick. Like, I don't think an entire day should go by or you should give somebody a full week to go by because it leaves the other person feeling anxious and waiting for your response. And if you've ever been on the other side of that, or if you've been the one perpetuating the like the waiting or the anxiety of the other person by being like, Hey, can we reschedule like

I feel like that's really unfair. And if you're on the side of the waiting right now, like you know that it's really unfair and you're just like, like, okay, sure, we can reschedule but like, when like what like is this ever gonna happen? Like what? So I think you really shouldn't give somebody longer than like a day to reschedule. I really think it should happen within that text conversation. If they're like, Hey, can we reschedule? You're like, Yeah, to when? And they're like, Hey, is it okay if Thursday's better or I can do Wednesday instead?

Let's say it's a Tuesday or whatever like, can we do in the next coming days or this weekend? But I really think you should lock down a date and nail in when that next date is instead of being like, yeah, sounds good. Like, let me know when's best and like letting that float in the air because you'll never really have an answer to that. And then you'll always be like left waiting and kind of feel like you got ghosted or just feel like this didn't go anywhere. And that's the worst feeling. So I think you should try and lock in that date.

in that conversation. if they're saying, hey, can we reschedule? Yeah, of course, like sounds good. How's Thursday or are you free another day this week and try and get that answer like, it's Thursday at 730. Good. And then you figure it out from there. But I wouldn't give it longer than that. And if you feel like you're having to put the pressure on and you're the one having to be like, can we lock in a day? And they're like, yeah, like, I'm figuring out my schedule. Like, I'm really busy. I have a lot going on, blah, blah, blah, like

maybe this isn't the one and like maybe it's time to move on and set this one aside and go back to whoever you had like whoever else you were talking to or back to the drawing board because that doesn't feel like they're putting in the energy or the effort that you want to be putting in or that you're putting in and if you're exerting so much more than they are and you're bringing more to this relationship in quotes in bunny ears already because

It's not yet. Like if you're already putting in so much more effort than they are, that's probably not a great sign for the start of this. And yes, like they could be really busy. There could be something going on in their life. They could have some sort of family thing or work thing. And I'm all for rescheduling. I think that's totally fine. Stuff comes up. People have busy lives. But if you're having to push for the reschedule and they're kind of like, yeah, like next week or the week after, blah, blah, blah, like.

They're not putting in the effort that you deserve and I think it's time to move on. Okay. The next question is, what should I text a girl after getting her number at the bar? This is a common question I get all the time. I've answered it a couple times on here before and I think my answer has gotten better with time. So I think this is really simple. I think it's a one line answer. Or yeah, a one line suggestion. I think it's.

Hey, it's Josh from X-Bar from last night. It was really nice to meet you. Would love to grab a drink sometime soon or would love to hang out sometime soon. But I think you really should add in where you met them because chances are they met a couple people last night or maybe they met someone else or they got a random person's number. your number is coming in as like a random new number. People get texts all the time. They don't know who it's from. So definitely provide where you met them because that will provide some additional context to who you are. So say like, hey, it's Josh from down the hatch, which is always funny. Like it's kind of funny to be like, like you act like a worker there. Like, hey, it's Josh from hinge. Like it's funny to say that, but it does provide the additional context I think is necessary. So I would just say, Hey, it's Josh from down the hatch. was really great to meet you.

I would love to grab it or would do you want to grab a drink sometime this week? That is the perfect text to send to keep the conversation going or say something like, Hey, it's Josh from and I'm picking a bar, random bar in New York. You can pick wherever you want. Hey, it's Josh from bleaker street bar.

Like, loved talking to you about X and like fill in the blank with whatever you were talking about in the conversation you were having. And I think that's also a good idea to just to be like, I was paying attention, I'm interested in what you're saying, we had a really fun time, I had a fun conversation with you. So hey, it's Josh from bleaker street bar, I loved talking about your dog or whatever the fuck it was. And then say, I'd love to grab drinks sometime this week, or I'd love to hang out sometime this week, like when are you free? Or are you free? That's the perfect text to send. It's really simple. It's like, your name, the context in which you met, maybe some additional context of what you talked about while you were there. And then like the question or like the follow up, the follow through of let's hang out or I'd love to hang out or love to grab a drink. Perfect combination. And I think that's a very good answer to this question. Good answer. Okay. The next question is, what am I looking for when dating?

How am I supposed to know if this is right? This is the tale is all this time. Like this is a question that I think everybody has to answer on their own. I'm gonna give you obviously more than that because then you're like, okay, cool. Thanks Josh. Like I gotta figure that out on my own. Yeah, okay. I could have just not listened to this episode and then like throw my phone at the wall and gotten a better answer than that. No, I'm gonna give you more than that because that's not good. But I really do think this is a person by person question.

What are you looking for when dating? think I can answer better than how am I supposed to know if this is right? Because I think that second part of the question is it really has to come from within you and you will know when it's right, which is also like another one of those like, like really I'll know when it's right. But it's true. You will know when it clicks. And I think what I'm about to say about what you're looking for when dating is kind of an answer to that question. what I think you should be looking for when dating or my suggestion or my advice for it is an ease and a comfortability in the conversation or with that other person. And I think that is the biggest thing when dating. It's that ease and that comfortability. When you are in a conversation with the other person or you're in the other person's presence and you feel calm around them.

and you feel like you are yourself. It is truly the greatest feeling that is so hard to replicate with lots of people and you probably already feel that way with your close friends or with your family members and you know the feeling I'm talking about when you can just be yourself, when you can kind of let loose and there's no expectations for what you're gonna say or what you have to say or who you have to be. You're just you.

It's really the greatest feeling ever. And I think that is what you should be looking for, or what I would recommend you look for, what I always look for in dating. It's that ease and that comfortability. There's not a discomfort or a, like, I can't say this thing because I'm worried about what they're gonna say if I say this, or I'm worried about what they're gonna think if I say this. You can talk about anything and everything.

But you can also be okay in those moments of silence. And I think that is the biggest thing that I have learned because I used to, when I first started dating, wanna fill every single moment of silence with something. With a follow-up question, with something else, with a comment, with like a fake laugh, with like whatever I could fucking think of in the moment to fill the silence because that is what I thought I was supposed to do. I thought I had to fill every single moment of silence with something.

And what I realized was because I wasn't comfortable in those moments, that may not have been the right person. And that may not have been the right girl across the table for me that ended up being the right one for me because I should have felt more comfortable in those moments. And that's not easy in the beginning. That's never gonna come naturally in the beginning. This is kind of like a second or third date type of thing. A thing that you can start paying attention to to like think, am I?

comfortable here? Do I feel like myself? Am I fully present? Am I not so worried about what they think of me? Am I good in this scenario? Can I sit here in an awkward silence and be okay and know that they're like, they're not like, what the fuck do I say next? Like, my God, like what? And there's not that panic or that worry or that like anxiety there because that is really what it was like for me before. And when I realized that I didn't need to do that,

and waited to actually see if I was comfortable in those quieter moments, I knew. And that is the best way I can describe my answer to that question. And it took me a while to get there. It took me like probably a year to get there with a lot of different dates that went by. And I used to come on here and say like, I think you should really look for those like sparky, energetic moments of conversation.

in any data and I think that is just still true. still stand by that piece of advice that like it is really important to have that like fun back and forth in that banter. But I almost think those moments of quiet are even more important. First, at least someone like me because I feel like that is when I knew that the person across the table was the right one when I was okay in those quieter moments and

I really think that is the best way I can answer that question. And I'm gonna try and answer the second part of that question, the how am I supposed to know if this is right? Because the when you know you know is like an annoying piece of advice, but like I think it holds weight and is true at times. I would also say that you know if this is right when you picture your week without them. So if you think about what

your next week of your life would be without this person. And if you think like, you know what, like, I'll be okay, like, I'm gonna be totally fine. I'm excited to see what else is out there. Then this probably isn't right. But if you think about what your next week of life would be like without them, and you're like, I could really see something here. I'm not so sure yet. I don't really feel that spark at the moment. But like, I think there's something there.

then maybe it's worth another shot. And if you think about your next week of life and you're like, I would be devastated to not have them in my life. I would be devastated not to see her next week. I would be so sad. I know I would be more sad in life without them than with them. Like, then you know that that's probably right. So I think it's those three scenarios. Think about what your life would be like without them. And if you think I'll be okay, like

I'm my week's gonna be fine like you know this was fun, but I'm gonna be totally fine then it's probably not right and if you think maybe there's something here like I could see it I'm not so sure yet then it's absolutely worth another chance it's worth another date because it's really hard as I was saying a little bit earlier to know in the beginning if you're comfortable if you can totally be yourself I think that takes a couple dates to really understand and to figure out

And if you think what your life would be like or what your next week would be like, because life is a whole big thing. I think it's easier to make it this smaller. Like what next week would be like without them? And you're like, I would be really sad. Like I would really not like that. And I would really rather keep my life than it's probably right. And you should keep following that. And you should just really follow what you feel about those three questions. think those are a really good guideline for what you should do next. Actually, that's a great piece of advice.

for any date, like if you're on date one, two or three and you're kind of like, you know, I'd be totally fine. And you're like, okay, maybe that's a good sign or an indicator that like you should probably end it and say like, hey, it was really great to meet you. I just don't see this going anywhere. like, thanks or whatever, not thanks, that's weird. But something like, hey, like I had a really great time getting to know you. I just don't see this going anywhere.

I don't know but not not by I had a good answer to that. No, I'm kidding. Hey, it was really great getting to meet you I just don't see this going anywhere like I had a really great time something like that. Whatever there the goodbye text I'm gonna formulate that better because that was not a good answer and then if you're thinking around the second or third date like yeah I could see this going somewhere keep going and if you're like I know this is going somewhere and if they're not in my life I'm gonna be sad keep following that the next question is

I'm feeling really burnt out in my job. Any advice on how to get back? So the good news is I feel like a lot of people, not good news, but I just feel like a lot of people feel this way too. I feel like especially around this time of year when it's like winter time, when the seasonal depression starts to hit, when the sun goes down at like 430, like you're out of work and it's pitch blackout.

and you get to work and you have a little bit of sunlight and you're just, you're not experiencing as much sun as you usually do. Like it's easier to start getting burnt out quicker. So I feel like that's a common thing going on right now for a lot of people at their jobs and in work. So not that that's good news, but I feel like it's always nice to hear that there are other people experiencing that too. I always like hearing that other people are feeling that way too. So I wanted to share that.

My advice here on how to get back is to go do something that you've always wanted to do but never had the chance to do. And I'm not saying by any means leave your job, quit, blah blah, like no, no, no. I'm saying to maybe take the day or take a personal day or a sick day and go chase that thing that you've always wanted to do. And this is just like a one day exercise.

And I did this recently and I think it's a really fun exercise. So make a list of the top 10 other careers you've always wanted to do and just have never done yet or always said like, I could never do this. This is never gonna actually be my life. This is unrealistic. Make a list of those 10 careers. And yes, it has to be 10, okay?

Because you most likely don't have 10 at the top of your mind right now. Like you're probably like, I can probably maybe pull like three other things I'd like to do like tops. You have to think about 10, like push yourself to think of all 10 of those. And like when I did it, I was, I felt like I was lucky that I pulled five out of the gate. So keep going until you get to 10. And I'm talking about like the pie in the sky ideas, like actor, astronaut, comedian, the bolder, the better here. Okay.

Once you've built your list, circle the three you like best. You'll most likely find something in the 10 that you didn't even know about yourself before. Like the fact that you have to push yourself to get 10. Maybe you're going to be like, I never really thought that I want to be an author, but like, think it would be cool to write a book. You will get something like that. Then decide on the one thing that is most interesting to you right now. Like the one that is piquing your interest most. What can you do?

today on that personal day or maybe it's a Sunday if you're really busy and you can't take off a day like take one day for yourself and even a couple hours like make this as easy as possible for yourself. What can you do to make that happen? So I will take astronaut for example because that feels like the biggest one that is like okay like what am I going say to make an ass make myself an astronaut like what the fuck are you even talking about? Being an astronaut I feel like is every little kid's dream.

But when we learn all the science and the neuroscience and all the chemistry and all the shit that we have to do and what it takes to actually become an astronaut as we get older and become more realistic about what our lives are like and what we want to do and how we're going to actually build a life for ourselves. Like most of us don't follow that little kid dream of becoming an astronaut.

What is the simplest thing you can do today to make that happen? And that is as simple as watch a movie about astronauts, go to a museum, watch a documentary, read a book, listen to a podcast. What can you do today to open that interest back up and follow that rabbit hole down? Like have some fun with it and actually like let yourself follow, follow down because we don't often let ourselves

do that. don't let ourselves go all the way down and peak our interest to the highest point because we realize how absurd it sounds and we often think about what other people will say and what other people will think when we tell them that we're trying to become a stand-up comedian or we tell them we're gonna start a podcast or join a flag football league or run a 5k or a marathon, whatever it's going to be. Start posting on social media.

We always think about what everybody else is going to say if we decide to chase that dream or chase that little voice in the back of our head that always said, I really wanted to write a book, but you know, if I write a book, everyone's gonna be like, what the fuck does he know about writing a book? Why would he write a book? Like he's not, he's not a journal made journalism major. Like why the fuck in what world can he write a book? We always have those voices, the like thousands of negative reactions that aren't real, but we create.

to stop ourselves from doing that. Everybody does this. This is like a there's a science behind this. There's neurons firing telling us. Yeah, like there's there's something happening. It's not maybe it's not neurons, but there's some sort of science behind all of what I'm saying. Like I'll figure it out at some point. But there's there's all these reasons that we stop ourselves from doing all of the things. The best way I can explain it is what everybody else is going to think of what you say when you say it like.

You think about what everybody else is going to react to what you say or what they're going to talk about behind your back to their friends. Like he's starting a podcast. What? What do you mean? He's starting a podcast or he's writing a book or he wants to become a standup comedian. Like he's not that funny and all those reactions. Let yourself go down that path. At least for a day, let yourself like

be really excited by that thing you've always been excited about, but you always stop yourself from doing. And I think that is a really great way to restart, to kind of push the restart button or refresh. And I think it's a really great way to reinvigorate your interests and your excitement. When I did this, one of the things I circled was author, and I just started writing and I wrote a bunch of pages and I love doing it. I don't know if those pages will ever see the light of day.

but I had like the greatest time acting as if I was an author and writing a couple chapters of a book that I don't know if they'll ever see the light of day, but I loved doing it and it really made me feel excited. Another thing I circled was musician and I got a guitar and I started playing. I'm not good at it. I haven't really stuck with it, but I still really want to. like those are the things that like I think you'll find when you make this list of 10 things.

And I think when you have a creative pursuit or something you're interested in or something you're doing or trying outside of your career and outside of your work, it makes the work so much better because you know you have that thing that you can go do after you have that thing you're looking forward to, you're excited about, and you provide that for yourself. Like you make that part of your day or you make that excitement. And if you're in a rut or if you're in a point in your life where you're not

feeling energized or excited, you're feeling burnt out. think finding a new creative pursuit or finding something that you're excited about is the best way to restart or reinvigorate yourself. Okay, what should I do if I feel like she's losing interest? I think there are a couple ways I want to answer this question. And it really depends on

how far into the relationship you are or how long you've been together. So assess the whole situation, like look at the relationship as a big picture. These are important questions to answer because it's the foundation of the relationship. And my advice here is gonna be really different for somebody you've been on three dates with versus somebody you've been with for three years. Like it's a completely different answer, a completely different advice based on

how long you've been with the person. So I'll take the answer in two directions. And I'm going to start with the early stage of the relationship because I'm assuming this person is an early stage of the relationship question. I don't know that to be true, but I'm just going to assume because I feel like I have been there many times where I'm like, I feel like she's losing interest or she's not responding as much as I'm texting. Like I feel like I'm the only one driving the boat here and she's like laying on the sun deck in the back while I'm

kind of creating the relationship. I'm weathering the storm and figuring out which direction to go in. And she's just like, yeah, okay, sounds good. Or like responds in a couple of days, like, hey, sorry, I missed this. Like would love to hang out. And like, yes, she's interested, but I feel like she's losing interest. So I completely understand this situation. And I think that's where my advice is coming from here. So if you're in the early stages of the relationship,

You've just started seeing each other. Maybe you're a few dates or a few weeks in and you feel like she's losing interest. You have to weigh what might be going on. So there could be a bunch of different scenarios happening. She might still be seeing other people, which is something that I didn't even think about in the early stages of dating. Like I didn't because I was never seeing other. I really have a lot of struggle balancing a couple of people at once. Like it's just it's never been for me, but I know it's a very common thing for for

especially people who are dating young like 20s and 30s to be dating a couple people at the same time and like having prospects or having like a roster is what people say but like that makes it sound really bad but having a couple people you're dating at the same time and then following the one you like best and that may sound like bad on paper but I think it's really normal like I think a lot of people are dating a lot of people and that might be happening like she might be seeing other people and

that's totally normal and it's fine and it's upsetting of course because you might like this person, you might be really interested in her, like it sucks but that might be happening in the back end. She also might be getting out of something, like she might have been in a long term relationship or a recent something and getting out of that so, or there's something else, like it's career related or it's family related or it's just like personal or mental, like there's a lot of different things happening and I think

I would have a conversation about where you're at and it doesn't even have to be the what are we conversation but if you're interested which I'm assuming you are because you're asking this question I would say something like hey I'm not seeing anybody else right now and I don't want to and I want you to know that and and I don't know if you are but I want you to know where I'm at because I think that shows that you're really interested and you're serious about this or you're getting more serious about this

And you see what she says from there because her answer is always going to be better than all the assumptions you have in your head about what her answer could be getting what she actually is thinking and feeling is so much better than the amount of rabbit holes or different feedback loops you can go through in your head to think about. Well, it could be her career. Well, it could be she could be out of a relationship. She could be and like all the scenarios that I went through, like it's just better to kind of

assess the situation by getting her not kind of it's better to get the way she's feeling from her and having an adult conversation, which is really fucking hard. Like, it's not easy. And it's not easy for anybody. So so know that going into it that this is a very normal situation to be nervous for and anxious about, and having reservations about but if you are feeling that way that like she's losing interest and you are really interested, I think you have to have a conversation about it. And

I feel like communication and getting it out into the air is always the solve. Like it's always the solve. So have a conversation that way. You're not stuck in your head thinking about the hundreds of thousands of different things and situations that could be happening because we can really drive ourselves crazy like that. Like as I'm speaking from experience, we can really drive ourselves nuts. So get out of your head and into the world.

ask her how she's feeling and have a conversation about it. And I think that my advice here is the same for a longer term relationship to have a conversation about it. Say something like I feel like you're distancing yourself, what's really going on? Like I really want to talk about this. And you will come off as genuine because you are and have that real adult conversation because that's what a relationship takes and

those conversations that so many of us are scared to have because of what might happen or because of what will happen and inevitably you'll get an answer one way or another. This is all part of being in a relationship or it's all part of dating and the experiences of being young and having to learn all this stuff and just be honest, be real and be vulnerable, which are really hard things, especially for guys to do. Like it's hard to have to like lay your heart on the table and be like

Hey, this is how I'm feeling. Like, are you feeling the same way? Because if you're not, I'm going to be really heartbroken about this. I'm going to have to pick my heart back off the table and bring it back with me and then somehow put it back into my body in a couple days because I'm going to be really sad about this. But that's what it takes. And listen and really pay attention to what she's saying. Don't just jump to respond. Really hear her out and then figure it out from there. And you are going to figure it out one way or another. I know that for a fact. So

Just everything I just said I think is really how I would handle this situation. Have the conversation as hard as it's going to be and as hard as is, have the conversation. It's the best thing you can do and it's the only way you're really gonna feel better. The next question is, can I reach back out to somebody who's ghosted me? I mean you can.

Should you is really probably the question here. And that answer is no. Like, yes, you can reach back out to somebody who's ghosted you. So like you have all the power in your fingertips. Like you have your phone in your hand right now. You can do that. Should you like absolutely not. You probably shouldn't because I don't know what do you really want out of that? Like if you're trying to.

restart the relationship and like see if this is going to go anywhere. If she ghosted you, I feel like you should have more self-respect than that. And again, like you might be saying, well, Josh, like she could be, she like something could have come up. She could have responded to a different text. She could have, she could have got a text from her friend and then went out and forgotten blah, blah, blah. Like, yeah, that, that might be, but like, I feel like you deserve better than somebody that's going to forget to respond.

And I feel like, that may not be the case for every single scenario. Like I forget to respond sometimes and that doesn't mean I don't like the person I'm forgetting to respond to. Shit happens. Like you do forget a lot of the time. But when dating and when starting all of this, like it kind of goes back to the first question that I answered. Like I feel like you deserve the attention back that you're putting into it. So.

If you're still thinking about this girl and she hasn't reached back out or hasn't reached out, then like, I think it's time to probably move on. So can you? Yeah. Like have I? Yeah. I've done it before. Like I've definitely reached back out and been like, Hey, picked up the conversation from the graveyard, which I call it with my friends, the hinge graveyard where you're scrolling back through all the people that you haven't had a conversation with in a really long time. You're like, like

Here's number 11,000 from a year and a half ago. Let's see what she's up to. Like, hey, long time no talk. Haven't spoken in a while. Hope life's good. Like, are you still in New York? Would love to go to, like, yes, you can do that. Should you? I'm gonna say no. Can you? Yes. Have I? Yes. So take with that what you will. I think there's probably somebody better for you than somebody that has ghosted you.

Ghosting is it's the worst fucking feeling like I'm such a big anti-goster proponent I'm such a big proponent of not ghosting like I think it's the worst I've done it I've also been ghosted like I regret the times that I've done it and every time it's happened to me I have felt so bad because you're just left wondering like why did she not respond to me like what did I do wrong and then you go through this like fucking Spiral in your head of like what did I say? What did I do? What is she thinking? What's she talking about with her friends like my god fuck

And that's a very normal thing to think and feel because like you don't know and you're never really going to know. And I don't I don't think you even want to know. So why would you want to respond to somebody or kind of rekindle the thing with somebody who's made you feel that way before? And if it wasn't that deep and you haven't felt that way before about it and you were kind of like, yeah, she probably forgot and like I want to see what happens with that, then go for it. Like there's no real rules here. There's no like, yes, no, there's no like you should you shouldn't.

This is just kind of my advice. It's one guy's advice on the things I think would be helpful, the things I would have liked to hear before, the things I would have loved for somebody to tell me and to have with me in everything and the stuff I'd still want to hear now. take with that what you will. And the next question that I'm going to answer first in the next Dear Guy segment is,

How do I handle farting in my relationship? I love that question. So I'm gonna start with that one next time. So tune back in in a couple weeks and I will answer the next questions that I get. I already have a list of a bunch. So that next one is gonna be great as well. And please send in any questions you have. I love answering these. There's some of my, if not my favorite episodes to do. I think they're so much fun.

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