Asking Out, Moving Out, and Starting New, Dear Guyset

Welcome back to another Dear Guy Set episode where I answered the questions that guys are asking, whether that's about a situation, a situation ship, a relationship, really anything that you might have a question on. And I, to the best of my ability, give you my advice that I have right here, right now.

I am no expert in any of this. I like to give that kind of quali not qualification. It's the opposite of qualification. I like to give you that disclaimer at the beginning of every one of these Dear Guy set episodes, which is an episode I do every like third or fourth week of the month, and I answer questions that guys write in and that I've compiled over the month. And

I just wanna say that I'm not an expert in any of this. I'm just another twenty-six-year-old guy going through this alongside you. And I hope that hearing somebody else share their opinion or their advice or s this in this scenario, it's my advice. So I hope hearing me share my advice and my perspective hopefully gives you a little bit of clarity or just like another opinion that you can.

Put against yours or use to inform yours or help you in whatever you're going through. I always think that it's helpful to have somebody else to just be like, yeah, you're not alone in that. And I've also experienced that, and I've also felt awkward in that, and I've also felt weird for that, and I've also felt uncomfortable for that. And these are all things that every single guy in our age, or a little younger, a little older, has experienced. They just don't talk about.

They just never share because they think it's weird or they think it's a cutter roll or they think it's awkward. And they feel like at this point in time they should already know that or should already have that figured out. When in fact nobody has any of this figured out. And if we all just kind of like shared more about it, everybody would feel less uncomfortable and less alone in it. So that is the purpose of these episodes. And I hope you can find something, at least one thing to leave with being like, huh, okay.

so let's get into it. The first question is what should I be for Halloween? A very timely question, as this Saturday is Halloween, and I'm sure you may be going to something where you have to get dressed up. and a question that everybody has, whether it's gonna be Friday or Saturday, is what the fuck should I be for Halloween? I think the easiest thing to be is find like a TV show that you love or a character from a movie or

Somebody in like pop culture that you can easily put on a costume and be recognizable as. I I also have nothing to be yet. I'm always last minute when it comes to Halloween. I have no idea what I'm gonna be dressed as. and I'm never like planning far ahead. you could always throw on a t-shirt and be Spider-Man, you could always just be putting on a red shirt and like draw a spider web on it. Like you can always be like makeshift like that.

It's never that deep. Don't ever put too much pressure on it. Like, I have no idea what I'm gonna be, and I'm gonna figure it out probably Friday morning or Saturday morning, and it's gonna be like a what the fuck? but I think that's also everybody at the same time. but the good thing is it's Tuesday now, so you still have some time. as last minute as you might be, this is still kinda early for figuring it out, so you have some time. go on Amazon, go to the party city nearest to you.

and you can find something, but like I always think a TV show character or somebody that like you like you can just be dressed as. it's not that deep. like an old TV show character like Zach and Cody or like Drake and Josh or something is always easy. I don't know, is that easy? I have no idea. what could you be? I I'm gonna c I don't know.

I'm gonna put together a guide. It'll be on Guy Set of what you can be for guys. it'll be on guyset.com. So check that out later this week. Like as last minute as possible. I'll put like a last-minute Halloween costume guide together. The next question is: how long should I talk to a girl on a dating app before asking her out? I think this is a very universal question that every guy who has ever been on a dating app has had. Like it there, you're you match with somebody and you send like a message, you send something like

trying to be flirty or trying to say something funny or something cool or something relatable. Like this, it's it's just like a universal experience of it being an awkward, like, what the fuck do I say? when you start out on a dating app, I always think it's easiest to like use one of her prompts as a way to get into it and just like respond to a prompt and then go from there. I then think after

Having like a long enough conversation, and that means like, I don't know, like five to ten back and forths. Like enough that you're like, okay, she's normal, and I think that I could have a real conversation with her. I think I'd like to have a conversation with her. I'd like to get like a drink with her. Enough so when you've like talked on the app when you're like, she's normal, then I think you should take it to text. I think that like you shouldn't wait too long to take it to text. I don't think it should be like.

I I don't think you should be going back and forth on hinge or a dating app for days. I think it should be something that is in within like one conversation or so, maybe within like an hour, to then get her number and be like, here's my number, like or can I have your number? Like I would love to text you. Then from there, I think you have another kind of few texts back and forth, enough to know that you like the person, enough to know that you can actually like hold the conversation with them.

To then be like, hey, I'd love to take you out sometime, or hey, I'd love to take you out this week or next week or this Thursday or however kind of you want to go about it. But I think it shouldn't be too long and it shouldn't be too short. I think there is a perfect balance, like there is a perfect world in here in which you aren't waiting too long and you're not jumping the gun too quickly. I have had experiences where I have done both, like both ends of the spectrum, where I have asked somebody out.

Way too quickly, and also where I've asked somebody out way too long, and it's just like I've lost my chance because this is just like, what are we doing here? And like this I I didn't think you liked me, so I've given up and I've gone on to the next person. I think that happens a lot of the time too. but in the time when I asked her out way too quickly, where like we responded back and forth a couple times, and I was We'd love take you out to like to get a drink or something, I knew nothing about

About her, and it didn't go well at all because I was just like, This we we don't know it, we don't e we don't know each other at all. And of course, on any first date, you don't know the person at all. You don't know anything about them yet. but I think you can get a little bit of something on an app. You can get a little bit of like a we will at least have a good kind of banter, or we already have had like a good banter. We have a base for conversation. We've talked about this that I can reference, or we've talked about.

her dog or this trip or this place she traveled to, and I can bring that up and like you at least know you have something in common versus literally nothing. So I think you have to find a little bit of common ground over your conversation on a dating app or over text before you ask on a date. If you have literally nothing to go off of and you know nothing about this person, I think it just makes your date so much harder.

And like, why would you want to make your situation harder? It's already like a hard enough situation to go into a first date knowing nothing about the person and like what am I gonna talk about with this person? Why make it even harder by knowing literally nothing? So I think there is a world in which you can have some information about them and have some common ground when going into the date, but not too long where you know too much about them and it's gone on for too long and the person on the other side is like, does he even like me? Like, does

Is he interested? Why is this taking so long? Like w what are we doing here? Like why so I I do think there is a middle ground in which you get to know them a little bit, but it's not too long. I would put like a a couple hours on it. I think that's a good kind of rule of thumb. If you've been texting or talking whether you're on the dating app or over text for an hour or so, I think that's enough time to ask them on a date. and I think if you've been talking for a day, that is way too long. So I think

Maybe that's a good rule of thumb. If you've been texting for an hour or so, and I think that even might be long. Like if you've been texting for an hour, I think that's enough time to ask on a date. And if you've been texting for over a few hours or a day, that is plenty of time to ask on a date, and you should probably have asked by that point. So I think that is a good place to start and try from there, and then let me know what you think of that. And I'll I'll I can kind of modify from there my advice. But I I think that is a good piece of advice. I think like

a few hours, an hour or so of texting should be enough of a ground to go on a date. And more than that would be like, what are we doing here? Like shit it off the pod type thing. That was a very long-winded way of saying that, like, I think you just need to know a little bit about somebody before you go on a date with them, because from personal experience, I've gone on a date where I know nothing about the girl. And we both get there and we're like, so you like.

Drinks. Like you just you don't want to put yourself in that position where you just know nothing. And that just sucks for both of you. And like you're not only wasting your own time, but you're wasting her time. And yeah, sure. Like, could it become an amazing date and you both have the best time ever and you fall in love and you make babies and you have like a family forever? Yeah, sure, that could happen, but like is that likely to happen? No, because you're going on this date and you know nothing already, and you're just kind of like, hey.

How's it gone? And I I just think you need to like it's so much better to give yourself like a little bit of some information about the person, just a little bit information. So you know something about them going in. You'll be so much happier for it. And I I couldn't recommend it more. so I think having an hour long around there conversation with the person is a good place to start going into dates. and that's how long you should talk to somebody before going on a date with

The next question is: I've been on a few dates with this girl and she's great and all, but I just feel like something is missing. Should I keep seeing her? I think this depends on how long you've been seeing her already. If you've been going, if this is like your eighth date with this person, or maybe sixth, seventh, eighth date with this person, you've been on like a lot of dates with her, and you've seen her for a long time, and you think she's great and all, and she's nice, and she's kind and she's she's great and all.

But there's something missing. You may never actually find that thing, and you might always be wondering what that is and why you don't have it, whether it's the spark or it's the passion or it's the I think the spark is a good way to put it. Like if you're going on dates with this person, you like them, and you're just like not feeling it completely, you're like you're not r you like them, but you're not really feeling like you're gonna fall in love with them and you're not really feeling that spark.

I don't know if you're gonna find it, especially if you're that late into dating. If you're early into dating, I think it's worth giving them another chance. I think that when you've gone on, let's call it like two dates with this person, and you're like, she's nice, she's kind, she's great and all. I keep saying that because that's what you said. I think it's worth going on another date with her. I think it's worth going on another couple dates, honestly.

especially if you could see something there and it's just not there yet. I think it's worth exploring a little bit more to hopefully find that or to start to see that further. more time can only give you more chances to develop that and see that through. whereas if you cut it off, you're never gonna give it that chance. I think it's worth giving it another chance.

especially if you've gone on like three dates. Let's let's call let's call it like that that being the marker, three dates, three or four dates. And you're like, I'm just not sure. I'm not really feeling it. Like, she's great, but I'm just there's something missing here. I think it's worth giving her a few more hours to be like, could this be something? And I think the hardest part about this is you can't really go into that like searching for it. Because if you're searching for that the entire time.

You're like putting her through this test, like this obstacle course to be like, you better create this spark or this isn't gonna happen again. And then you're making this harder for you and her. Like you're not giving her a chance, and you're not giving the date a chance, you're not giving yourself a chance, you're not giving it a chance at all. If you're going in with these blinders on and like with this like test on of like, if I don't feel this spark in two hours, then it's over.

You're you're not gonna get it. You're not gonna feel it. So you need to go in being like hopeful about it and optimistic about it. Cause if you're negative about it and if you have that like two hour like once it's over, it's over and I'm never like you you can't go into it with that. I think that's the worst thing you could do is to put her through this test of if I don't feel this, then it's over.

I am saying that that is what you should be doing ultimately, but I think that kind of comes with like the thought about how you're feeling later, after it. Once you're talking to her after, you're texting, you're you're wanting to see her if you're you're you're deciding if you want to see her more or not after that date. I think that's when that all comes in. Because if you're putting her through that test on the date, then it's just not fair. And you're not giving their her the real chance that she deserves.

Or the real chance that this situation ship or this relationship really deserves. So that all kind of comes with how you're feeling after. And you can't really judge that until it's over. Until you're like, do I want to see this person again? Am I excited about the potential of seeing them again? Or would I be okay if I never saw her again? I think that's when it comes in. So don't go into the date being like, I need to feel this or it's over.

Think about that all after when you're walking back from the date, when you're going to bed that night, when you're waking up the next morning. You that's when this all comes back. And it's like, am I excited about her? Am I excited about this potential? Would I be upset if I never saw her again? Would I feel like there's something missing? Would I be sad? Like, that's when this all comes back in and you can really determine if you should keep seeing her or not.

But I think you should give the date one more chance. I I kind of always am in the camp of giving it one more shot, give it one more chance. because if not, you're robbing yourself of potentially a really great connection and you're robbing like what this could be. and one more night, one more date isn't really gonna change so much in the course of your life. If it doesn't go that well, if it's not that great. If anything, you'll give yourself the peace of mind of like.

You know what, I'm happy I gave myself that thing. I'm happy I gave her that chance. I'm happy I did it one more time. Cause now I know for sure. And if you don't, you'll kind of always be wondering, well, what if I did give it one more chance? What would have happened if I did go on that one more date? So I think it's always better to at least explore it one more time than not. if you're in the earlier stages. If you're in the later stages, I think you should probably know by now. I think you should be knowing that if you're gonna be sad without her, if your life is gonna be worse without her.

if you're gonna be feeling like this missed or lost thing without her, you should know that by then. And I think that you just need to do a little bit of like deeper kind of thinking about it and really like talk to yourself and have a real conversation with yourself of like, is this good? Do I feel that spark? Is there that passion there? Am I excited? Am I happy? Am I it like that that that needs to be a serious conversation to have with yourself, especially if you're in the later stages of dating or if you've started dating already.

Because yeah, that that's important. You need to do that with yourself. So because that is an important thing to do. And like it's important to check in with yourself and how you're feeling about this. And if you're also in that later stage, I think you can also have a conversation with her to be like, hey, like, I really like where this is going, but like I'm not sure if I want like a full relationship or I don't know. Like I I I want to hear where you're at, because I don't know where I'm at. And then see where she's at. Cause it might give you a little bit more little bit more clarity too when you know where her head is also at.

so I think this is a really like stage or date dependent question. and I think my answer really differs depending on where you're at in the dating. If you're like in the early stages, I'd say go for another date. There's no harm in one more date. And if you're in the later stage of the dating, I think you need to do more of like a self-reflection or have a conversation with the other person to decide what to do next. The next question is: how do I get better at being where I am right now?

I really like this question. It's really deep. I don't know if you meant it to be deep, but it is really deep. maybe you did. I'm I'm gonna give you credit. I'm gonna say that you meant this to be really deep. Thank you for asking such a deep question. How do I get better at being where I am right now? I think

I think that and this question is basically asking how to be more present, is to put your phone away. I I've done a few episodes recently talking about this and giving this piece of advice. Putting your phone in your pocket, putting your phone away, like being in a room where you're not using your phone as a crutch is the best way to be present.

You are simply more responsive when you're not looking at something else and responding to something else. You're literally just more active, you're more present, you're more like able to be where you are if you're off your phone. So I'd say that's the first thing. The second thing I'd say here is ask more questions. When you're asking questions, you have to be more engaged. Like you just have to be. To ask a follow-up question, you have to be listening.

To ask a question in the first place, you have to be interested. And I think if you're actively working on asking more questions and practicing asking more questions, you will become more present in where you are, whether that's in a work setting, whether that's in a social setting, whether that's on a date, whether that's with your friends or your family or your girlfriend or wherever you are. If you're asking questions, you are just genuinely more present in the moment.

Because you're more curious, you're more responsive, you're more kind of hooked into the conversation, you're locked in, and you're you're wanting to know more. That is a way to be more present. I think this is a pretty simple answer to your question, and I'm happy I came up with it in the moment because I really like it. ask questions. This is the best way to be present. it literally will force you to be more present because you can't ask a question and then like look away or look down or like because then the person will be like, What?

You just asked me a question and now you're not listening. what the fuck? you will be more like you will just be more hooked into the conversation if you ask a question and you'll like have to answer back and you'll wanna answer back. You'll be more engaged, you'll be more responsive. Ask questions. I think that's a great way to be where you are and get better at being where you are.

I think that's even better than being off your phone. I think they're both good, but I just think asking questions is like the kind of unlock here. and I think it'll help you be more present. The next question is: when should I introduce the girl I'm seeing to my friends? I think the earlier the better, honestly. Like I think the quicker you introduce the girl you're seeing to your friends, the more comfortable you will be with her. I think the happier you will be in your relationship.

Because once you get like whether or not you care about your friend's approval, you care about your friend's approval. Everybody cares about their friend's approval. Everybody wants their friends to approve the person they're with, or like the person they're with, or be around the person where they're with, because ultimately that is gonna be the person you are with most of the time. And you're gonna want your friends to like the girl you're with, the girl you're dating, or your relationship. That is a really important thing. So the quicker you introduce your friends to the girl you're seeing,

The more you will be happier, the the faster you'll be happier with the relationship, the quicker you'll be ready to like jump into it, I think, honestly. Because you'll be like, Okay, like I've gotten more people to be like, she's great and she's fun to be around and she's really likable, and I like you guys together, and you guys seem really happy together. And then you'll be like, Yeah, we are really happy together. And that just like when you introduce somebody to your world.

That is a sign of confidence and comfortability. And I think that's just great overall. And then when your world is receptive to that person, everything just feels better. So I think the faster the better. I'm not saying that on a second date you bring her to meet your friends, but I do think that somewhere around that timeline, whether it's your third, your fourth, your

If you're going on a date and then your friends are out after, you can be hey, would you want to come with my friends out after? And like you we can all hang out later. And she'd be Yeah, of course. Like, I think that is a great way to do it. It's a great way to integrate the girl you're seeing into your friends and let them know who she is and let them meet her. because as I said, like ultimately the girl you're with or the girl you're seeing.

Will become one of, if not the most important person in your life, and one of, if not the most, the person you spend the most time with. And you want your friends to like that person. You want your friends to want to hang out with that person. And I think that's just really important. So the earlier the better, I really think. I I think it's kind of like a red flag or whatever. when people don't introduce

the person they're with to their friends, or it's been so long and they haven't met their friends yet. Of course there are like in extenuating circumstances where it's over the summer and it's been a while and and you haven't been around. It's like there's there's always like different scenarios where it's okay if it's been a while. But I think if you're actively avoiding your person meeting your friends, whether it's both both ways, honestly, I think that's a bad thing.

I think you would know that too. I think anybody would know that too. so the quicker you integrate, the quicker you get get her to meet your friends, the better it will be. The better you will feel about her and the better you'll feel about the whole thing. You'll like, Yeah, like you know what, she is really great. And I completely agree and I'm so happy you said that and I'm so happy you feel that way. There's like nothing better than getting a text from a friend that's like, Hey, by the way, she's great. Like that is the greatest text to receive when you're just like, Thanks. Like I'm I I feel the same way. I'm so happy you agree. Like that's such a nice thing to receive.

And I think it'll just make you more confident and more happy with your relationship. The next question is: should you tell your girlfriend when something small bothers you? mmm. Mmm. this one depends. It depends what it is, and it depends how much it bothers you. this is a great question. I think that.

If there is something that really bothers you and it's been bothering you for a long time or it's a persistent thing, then it's never going to stop bothering you until you say something. And it will only get worse and it will only like agitate and aggravate you more. So I think if it's something that has like persistently really bothered you, then you should say something. I think if it's something small that happens once or twice.

You can let it go. I think that is kind of what a relationship is like built on is like, or one of the things a relationship is built on is like letting things go and not bringing up every single thing and not nitpicking on every single thing. Because that gets really annoying too. And I'm sure if you th thought about like how she's viewing you, there's also things that you do that are annoying or gross or like you're farting all the time. Like I'm sure there are things that you do that are also.

really annoying or bothersome.

So I think that you gotta play your cards carefully here. I think that if there is something that like seriously pisses you off and she does all the time, like for me, like I hate when people pick their nails. That's one of my biggest pet peeves. And I will always call it out. And it's like annoying thing. It's annoying thing that I have to always call that out, but it's just like it aggravates me more than I would like to admit. as you can tell.

But I will always call that out. So if that's happening, I'll call that out. But like if there's other things, like I I don't know. It's so there there's probably something that you have in mind. You wrote this question in, so there's obviously something you have in mind. If it has been persistent, if it's been a while, it's never going to stop bothering you if it's been a while. So you should say something. The way you say it matters. The way you deliver this information is very important.

and could make or break how you handle this. Not gonna make or break your relationship, but could make or break the situation. and it could result in you having to apologize for bringing up something. So I really think the way you deliver this is important. If it's like, hey, if you're like, I hate that you fucking do that. No, no, no, no. But if you're like, hey, I this little thing you do bothers me, just like this little

Mm, that's not good either. I'm gonna try again. If you're like, hey, like, would you mind I don't know. I I'm scared. I'm like putting myself in this scenario and I see her like, what? What'd you the way you do this matters. act very carefully, say it really nicely, do it in a compliment sandwich, Hey, I think you look really pretty today and then say the thing, say it nicely, say it gently, say it warmly, say it carefully, and then compliment again. That's how I'd recommend it. Honestly.

I I'm not even kidding. Like I know I'm making this one like a bit of a joke, but I do think this is a hard one to navigate. I think put it in a compliment sandwich. Say how sh pretty she looks, or something that like you like about her, and then be like, hey, like this little thing. And then she'll be like, okay. And then be like, like, by the way, you look stunning. She'll be like, Thank you. maybe that's the best way to do it. and should you tell your girlfriend when something small bothers you? You mentioned it's something small.

so I'm gonna say no, unless it's been persistent. and if it's ongoing and it's all the time, then yes. but for the most part, you probably should let it go. I'd recommend letting it go. The next question is I just started my first real job and I already feel like I'm supposed to know everything. How do I know if I'm actually doing a good job? This is a

Really like normal feeling. Like, I just want to let you know that I have been in a lot of jobs now. Like, this is my fourth job I've been in. yeah, yeah. And no, third, one of them. I don't know. And I feel that way every single time. I don't know if there's ever a time where you won't feel that way. When you start something and you feel like you're supposed to know everything, whenever you join a new company, whether it's your first job, whether it's your fourth job, whether it's your eighth job.

I think you're always going to feel like you have to know everything. That's really normal. I just want to let you know that's just like such a normal thing to feel. to be like, I feel like I'm already behind and I just got here and it's day two. There's so much to learn. Just go easy on yourself. I'm gonna give myself this advice too. Like, go easy on yourself. Spend the first few weeks like trying to acclimate to the new environment, try and get to like learn everything there is to know about the business, what's going on in the back end, have conversations with.

Conversations with people. Make sure you're checking in with your boss and doing all the things that they are asking you to do. but like really be easy on yourself. You're not supposed to know everything when you first start. if it's been a month or so, then you can start to feel that way a little more and start to like make sure you're doing a good job. But if you just got there, like you've got to be easy on yourself because nobody is expecting you to know everything or know how to do everything except for you. So

Be easy on yourself, like be gentle, because this is a very like it's it's hard. It's it's normal to not know at all what is going on and feel like you're supposed to know everything. and there's no way you will. There's just literally no way you will. So you have to like start small. that's the advice I'd give here: is just start small. Like start with what you can do today, which is learn about the business, learn about the company, learn how they make money, learn about your team, what your team has been up to, what they're doing, what they're working on, all of that stuff.

If you get comfortable with all of that, if you get acclimated with all of that stuff, that is where you should be. And that is how you know you're doing a good job. If you can answer those questions at the end of the first couple weeks of how everything works, what everyone's doing, what you should be doing, what your job is, what you'll be doing moving forward, like at least have a grasp on some of that stuff. I think that is how you know you're doing a good job. that is where I would start.

And just go easy on yourself. Like you're not supposed to know everything when you start a new job. And I'm telling you, I feel the same way. I'm like, how am I supposed to know everything? And why do I not know everything? And and why do I feel like I'm doing nothing and I feel like I'm doing everything at the same time? that is how you feel when you start a new job. It's so chaotic, it's so much going on. You're being thrown into think about it this way: like, you're being thrown into a car that's already moving at like 75 miles an hour because everybody else around you is already.

Doing what they're doing, and they've already been doing it for a while now, most likely. So they're already driving at full speed ahead. You're hopping in the passenger seat, being like, How did we start moving? What is going on? Who's driving? Who's in the back seat? What model is this car? Where are we driving in the first place? Where do we come from? Where are we going? And you're in the passenger seat. Like you just got there. You gotta put your seatbelt on first. I think that's this is a good like metaphor for all of this. That's

Take the first few weeks to put your seatbelt on, and then like you can start to look at the driver and see how they're driving and why they're driving and where they're driving. And look in the backseat and then look under the hood and then look at all of the different parts of the car, the pieces of the car. But you are getting in a moving car. Like you're you're get you're hopping into a car that's going full speed ahead and you've never been in this car before.

In fact, you've never known what this car looked like and you've you've never you don't know what a car is. Like that is kind of what a first job is like. when you've been in the job field for a little while and you've started and you've been in a few jobs, like you know what the car looks like, but every single car is so fucking different. Every car is so so different from the one before. The model, the make, the color, the interior, the the way they drive, like everything about that car is different.

So you have to give yourself time to put your seatbelt on and get acclimated with the car you're in before you can do anything else. so go easy on yourself. I honestly love that metaphor and I will be using that moving forward. I don't know where that came from. It just popped into my head and I'm fucking thrilled about it because I will be telling anybody that piece of advice moving forward.

who's starting a new job who has no idea what's going on and feels like they need to know everything already and is doesn't know if they're doing a good job or not. I'll be using that moving forward and I'm really happy I came up with that. That is the episode. Those are some of the questions that guys are asking right now.

I hope you leave this episode feeling a little bit less alone in one of them or all of them. You feel like I've given you something that can help you in one of these situations, or maybe all of these situations. maybe some practical or tactical piece of advice, or maybe some sort of metaphor that makes you feel a little less like like a little less anxious about everything. I hope this episode was helpful.

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