How To Feel Confident In Any Room

Have you ever wished you could borrow confidence? Looked at someone and thought, how are they that confident? Where did all that come from? Were they born that way? Did they always have that? Or did they somehow create that themselves? Because if they did that themselves, then how the fuck do I do that? And how have I not been able to already do that?

Why can't I do that? Why haven't I done that? Will I ever be able to do that? And here's the thing. I think you actually can borrow someone else's confidence. I don't think that it's a myth or something that you have to buy or purchase. I think it is a mindset. I think it is something that you can wear like a hat or a hoodie. I think it is something that you can put on and take off.

And once you wear it for a long enough time, it might just become yours. Once you borrow it for a long enough time, it might just become something that's a part of you. And I don't think that this just applies to confidence. I think you can borrow a lot of different things. I think you can borrow traits and characteristics and mindsets and abilities. And I think once you borrow them for a long enough time, they can actually become yours.

to the point where you can actually give that person their confidence or their ability or their trait back because you've developed so much of it on your own and it's actually different, it's unique, it's better because it's yours now, it's yours uniquely. And I really like this idea of borrowed confidence or borrowing somebody else's confidence. For the sake of this conversation, I'm just gonna speak about it in terms of confidence and not all the other abilities.

Because I think confidence is something that people really want. It's something people strive for. It's something people feel like they don't have enough of. Some people yearn for something people really want desire and like feel a need to get because it's not innate. It's not something you have naturally for most people at least not for me. Like I've never had an innate or natural confidence. Some people definitely do. And I'm in this episode specifically, I'm probably not speaking to that person, but I think even the most confident people have

insecurities or doubts or anxieties in their own confidence. So I really do think this can apply to everyone. And I love this idea. And I kind of smushed it into a few different things in last week's episode. I wanted to talk about so many different things and it got a little lost in its own sauce. So I wanted to give this idea of borrowed confidence its own stage this week. Like I even thought about redoing last week's episode, but I was like, no, there are a lot of really good things I said in that episode.

that I wanna keep, but I said this thing about borrowed confidence and I said it in the same way of like, have you ever wanted to borrow somebody's confidence or have you ever wished for someone else's confidence? And I said that at like 25 minutes into the episode and it just got lost, it got pushed back. So I wanted to center it because I have wished before that I could borrow somebody else's confidence. I have wished now that I could borrow somebody else's confidence.

or even take it, like steal it, even pay for it. There have been many times where I would pay for somebody's mindset or their confidence or their ability or their, you know, all the different things. But again, I'm staying in confidence for this one. There have been so many times where I've wanted, I'm like, how does that guy have that much confidence? How did he get that? How did he develop that? Why can't I have that? I want that. And I'm sure you've been there too. And I'm sure you can also apply your own

Your own situation to that to that want to that desire to have that person's confidence. It may be in a work setting It may be in relationships. It may be in dating It may be in just the mindset you wake up with the minds that you go to sleep with it might be anything that you could apply to because we all have our own unique situations our own unique wants or needs and I really do think that

in the times where I don't believe in myself or in what I'm doing or where I'm at in life or what I'm meant to do or what my purpose is, those weird moments of anxieties or self-doubt that we so wish that we could just shake off and step away from, leave in a pile behind us and run the furthest opposite direction from, I have wanted to do that. I've wanted to borrow someone else's confidence or their mindset in those moments and in those times.

And I actually really think you can. And I think you can borrow the momentum that other people have created and use that as a launching pad for whatever you want to do or whatever you seek. And I actually think you can borrow it today. I think you can borrow it after this episode. I think you can start now. I really think you can start like this instant.

You know those old fashioned like mad men style ads that you see or like an old billboard, the old ad you see in a magazine that says something like, ever wanted to borrow someone else's confidence? Well now you can! Just take it today, literally. Just look at what they do and do that. Do what they do. It is as simple as that.

And I'm going to tell you how. Like using that last, those last couple words that I've made into an old fashioned, like, ooh, you know, that like old, old fashioned speak, like, ever wanted to, you know, like, I really do believe that you can, I think you, by looking at what they do and doing that, it is as simple as that to borrow somebody else's confidence. And I'm going to tell you how I think you can do that and how I have personally done this before. Look at the people who inspire you.

That could be your dad, could be a friend, could be your brother, your boss, your mentor, a CEO, a celebrity, somebody you watch or see on social media, whoever it is. What do they do? What are their traits? What are their patterns? What are their consistencies? You can look at someone you admire and now you do not have to wonder about how they did what they did.

You can actually study what they did and follow what they did. There are a tremendous amount of resources at our fingertips every single day. YouTube, Ted Talks, movies, documentaries, autobiographies, memoirs, podcasts. These people that we look to for inspiration, for aspiration, for all of the things.

They talk about their stories and people talk about their stories. People pick them apart. People study them. Like people do the groundwork for us in a lot of these instances. If it's a celebrity or if it's a CEO or somebody that you find really inspiring that you don't know personally. People talk about their stories in the way of how they started and

You can actually look at how they started and borrow the patterns they use to move forward, to move yourself forward, to propel yourself in the direction that you want to go in. You can actually look at what they did and take it with you to create your own toolkit. I love this idea that you can look at what somebody did and actually apply it to your everyday life. You can start today. You can find the actual things they do and that they

did or that they continue to do and use them and bring them with you and like put them in your backpack, put them in your imaginary toolkit and start doing them every single day to get to where you want to go. You can actually take them today and I'm gonna give you a few examples that aren't as like imaginary backpack, imaginary toolkit like Bob the Builder Door, the Explorer type shit. I'm gonna give you some serious or real examples that I've applied to my own life.

So I think the first example that applies to everybody is confidence in a meeting setting. I think a lot of people don't have confidence in a meeting setting. I know that I didn't until a couple years ago and I've been working for now four years. So I think that like it's it's not something that's taught. It's not something that there's a class on that there's

a class on how to be confident in a meeting, how to talk in a meeting, how to walk into a meeting, how to present yourself, how to present. Like these aren't things that are taught. These are things you have to learn on your own through your own personal experiences, through doing them, through action, through having to do them again and again, and to learn through those moments and those times. And I learned just about everything I know now about how to conduct myself in a meeting setting from my most recent boss.

And in the first few meetings I had with her, I learned so much just by watching her, by watching in a non-creepy way, but in a way in which she is so much more seasoned than me. She has so much more experience than me. She has 30 to 40, I don't want to age her if she's listening to this. Hi, if you are. She has 30 to 40 years of experience on my four years. I don't know anything in comparison to her. I'm so green, I'm so new to...

to what she has and to what she's experienced, what she's learned, what she's seen, what she's done. So it would be like a waste if I didn't watch or study the things she does in meetings or the way that she acts or the way that she talks or the way she responds to when she's undermined or not believed or not taken seriously or not, or her thought is not as weighed as highly as somebody else's. And how she responds to all of that, how she acts.

when responded to how she waits for somebody to finish what they say and lets them get it all out before she then responds because when you leave a five or ten second space, like usually it makes the other person uncomfortable enough that they're gonna wanna say something more, they're gonna wanna propel the conversation forward and say everything they wanna say, so by waiting you...

you learn what they really want out of this and what like you can actually say to do or help or whatever, by watching her mannerisms and the way that she walks into the room, the way that she acts, the way that she responds, I learned so much more than I could have by my own experiences. And there's things to be said for both, learning from your own experiences and watching somebody else and how they do it. And I...

Was not nearly as confident as I am now in a meeting setting before I knew her and before I got to watch the way she moves and I took some of that with me in the first couple of meetings. Like I was like, if she does that, then why don't I just try that? Why don't I just put that on and see how it works? Like see how I can, how I do that. And instantly I felt better and I felt more confident. That wasn't confidence that I had innately. It wasn't confidence that I knew it wasn't

confidence that I was born with or that I just stepped into when I stepped into a new position or a new job. I, that's not how anything works. Like you don't just start something new and be like, you know what? get it all now. Like, okay, the sparks here. I got it. Like the fires lit. Now I can just run with like, no, like you, you still have to figure out how to progress, how to move forward, how to get better. And by putting on that, by borrowing her confidence, by putting on that like hat of like, okay, I'm going to

try and do what she did and see if it works, I instantly felt more confident. And then I learned by each time through now my own experiences. Like I didn't have that starting place of confidence. So I borrowed her confidence. I think that's a really good example that can be universally applied to everybody because everybody has a meeting that they're gonna be anxious for, that they're gonna be nervous for, that they don't know enough about, they don't know how to conduct themselves in. And I think by watching somebody

who has been in it, who has done it, who is good at it by like bunny ears good at it. You know what I mean? Like somebody who's experienced, somebody who's been in the industry and has more knowledge than you do by watching the way they act, the way they move and borrowing some of that because we don't have that. We don't have it. So by borrowing that and putting it on two years later,

I now feel like that is my own confidence. I don't feel like I'm borrowing it anymore. I don't feel like this is something that I have to actively do. Like it is just how I do. It is just how I am now. And that's really cool. Like it's a really cool concept. I think that that even if you're not confident right now, like that is a good starting point to know that you're not admit that to yourself and now be like, okay, what can I watch? Who can I emulate?

to get that confidence and who should I borrow from? Because there's a million examples of people you could borrow from. It doesn't have to be the boss in the room that you're in with. It could be Steve Jobs. could be like somebody giving a Ted Talk. It could be a confidence expert. It could be anybody, but borrowing something that you've learned from that person or something you've seen from that person. It could be a friend that you've seen talking to somebody and been like, how do they get all that confidence? Be like, you know what? I'm gonna try the thing they just did. I think another great example of this

is walking up to a girl at a bar that you're nervous about walking up to and you see somebody else and you're like, how the fuck did they do that? Like, how did he learn that confidence? And how did I never get blessed with that? Like, how did I not get the abilities that he had? And that's something that I think a lot of people are thinking or feeling. They're like, why don't I have that? Like I have before, like, why don't I have that confidence that he has? But you can watch what he just did.

And you can see the way he walked up and like either touched her arm and was just like, hey, like, how are you? Nice to meet you. I'm Josh. Like, can I, not can I get you a drink or whatever he did. Like, and I'm just making up a scenario and said, like, I think you're really pretty. Like, where are you from or where, what do you do? Where do you live? Whatever he said, be like, you know what? I'm going to try that. Like just because I don't have the confidence at this exact moment, just because I don't have the mindset at this exact time, that doesn't mean that I'm not, I can't try it. I can't try it on. I can't put it on for five minutes.

and see how I like it, see how I act with it, see how that changes me or progresses me or moves me forward into the direction I want to be in. Like, I think that's a really cool concept. I hope you do. I hope what I'm saying makes some sort of sense that like you can watch somebody and emulate what they just did and see how that makes your life better. See how that expands you. And then if it doesn't, if you don't like what you just did or like what you just tried, you can take that hat off. You can, you're just borrowing it. You're, you're not

keeping it, you're not stealing it, you're not purchasing it, you can return it, you can give it back, you can take the hat off and be like, all right, now let me try something else. Like if you watched the way somebody moved in a meeting and how they responded to a question they were asked or something, and then you do that and it doesn't work and you're like, actually, like that was so not me. I'm that's like, so I'm just that's not me. Like at the end of the day, that wasn't me. I don't know why I just did that. You don't have to keep doing that. Like it's

It's it's another way to say fake it until you make it. think it's a better way to say fake it until you make it because vacant until you make it is like, what does that even mean? Like this is an actionable, practical, tactical way to fake it till you make it. Like this is a, a way to actually make that possible, make that real. I'll give you another more personal example that is really specific to me. Like you may, you're not going to be like,

Alright, like this is about like TikToks and posting videos online and that confidence that I did not start with. if you don't know, I have a TikTok channel that I post videos on every single day just talking about like everything that's being talked about online. Talk about like pop culture. I talk about dating. I talk about everything. Like anything that I think is interesting. Like right now, I'm talking a lot about Stranger Things because I am fucking in love with that show. The first four episodes were so good. If you haven't seen them yet, like.

And if you want to catch up, like you still have a month till the next four drop. I'm obsessed. It's really, really so good. But anyway, I didn't start off with an immense amount of confidence in posting videos online or with this podcast as another good example. Like I didn't start by. Confidence. didn't start by, I didn't start with confidence. It's better way to say that. And I watched a video of Alex Earl talking about, you know, who, if you don't know who Alex Earl is.

she's like a huge creator online. She has like 8 million followers. She was just on dancing with the stars. Like she's now kind of propelled from influencer to celebrity. And she's like the model for tick tock, like growth or like skyrocketing on tick tock. She's like the perfect example, like the, the newer Charlie D'Amelio is a good way to say that. And I watched a video of her talking to students at you Miami about like her, someone rose their hand or raised their hand and asked her like.

What is your process with posting? Like how do you stay so consistent? And I think that's a really consistent, that's a question that people ask all the time with anything. Like how does somebody stay consistent? And I really do believe that like with anything, consistency is the flex. Like if you have been able to stay consistent with something for a long period of time, like that is a flex. That is impressive. Like if you can commit to something,

and stick with it for longer than a period of a month or two months or a year, like that is more than most people ever do. That is a flex. I really do believe that. So she talked about her kind of strategy or the secret to her success on social media. And she said something like, you know, it really is just consistency and

If for you, that could mean you start posting just once a day. If you really want to gain consistency or gain traction with anything, I think this is actually applicable to anything. I'm using this as a specific example for my social media. I think this like greater talk about consistency is important and also applicable to everything. But she said something like, I decided to post three times a day every day.

And that is how I stayed consistent. Like I just committed to doing three times a day and never giving up on that. Like even if the video didn't well, like I would just keep going. I would just keep my consistent three videos a day. And she, like her way is more specific than even my way. It's just, it's different for everybody. And she said like how she made it a part of her day. when she would go to a event or an event like

she would make a video getting ready for the event. She'd make a video at the event and then she'd make like a post game like here's how the event went. And of course that's not realistic for most people. Like not everybody has an event every single day, but that was her strategy. It was specific to her. And I was like, that is insane. Like it is so crazy that she's able to make three videos a day. Like I feel like I'm, I struggle to make one a day. Like I made it a consistent thing where I, before I saw this video, I was like, I want to post one a day because that is

a consistent thing if I'm like if I want to build this or try this thing and I'm having fun with it like I might as well try to do it once a day. And then I thought to myself well that actually does make a lot of sense like if you're already consistent with one thing a day like why not increase that and that increases your chances of more people seeing your videos it increases more chances of people seeing you and watching you and liking you and all the different things and engaging with you and you me building a platform or building.

the thing I wanted to build. Same with this podcast. I was like, I want to commit to one podcast a week. And I decided that May of 2023, we're now in December of 2025. Like that was almost two and a half years ago where I was like, I want to stick with one a week. Like that is to me a consistent metric that I can judge myself on and base like my own success on. If I can be consistent every single week, that's success to me.

If I can stay consistent, that is that's how I'm seeing success. And I've been asked over so many different times, like how have you like you don't miss a week. Like, do you take like a hiatus to take time off and like, no, like I, I feel like it is very much within my grasp to make one, one podcast a week, create some sort of concept, talk about something every single week. And I love it. I it's like my favorite thing I do. Like I find so much purpose in this sharing.

what I've learned myself, what I'm going through, what I'm understanding better or like the knowledge that I'm learning, the different kind of frameworks that I'm understanding life through like this one, like borrowing confidence, getting to come on here and share it with you. And the fact that even one person listens to this is enough for me. Like that is so exciting and exhilarating to me. And

That's the same way I felt about social media. I was like, if I can do one a day, like that to me is exciting and exhilarating. And I love it. I find some sort of purpose in it, which is, which is kind of funny. but it doesn't matter. It's whatever works for you, whatever you find, like that's kind of what this is all about. And I also love getting to have guests on and sharing people's stories and the knowledge that they have and like the expertise that they bring to different fields.

and sharing that with an audience. Like I've just found so much purpose in that and getting other opinions, other perspectives, advice for myself, for you. And I'm like, that is, it's something that like I have committed to. So then when I heard her say that she does three a day, I was like, it is a simple framework. It's just not easy. Same for this. It's simple to do one a week. It is just not easy to carve out the time, edit it, make it like, get it out there. Like it's, it's not always easy.

but it is simple. So I started three videos a day, every single day, no days off. And I still do that every single day. Some days I post two, some days I post four, some days, it just depends. But like, now that I've consistently done that for almost a year, I started this probably January something of this year, doing three a day. I was really, really consistent with it. And now that I've done it for almost a year,

It does feel a lot easier. Like it feels like something that I want to do. I wake up excited to do that. I wake up excited to share with you or get to talk to you on here every single week. Like it's not a chore. It's not a thing that I have to do or motivate myself to do. It's something that I get to do. And that is a great example of borrowing confidence, like, or borrowing a mindset or borrowing a framework like

Alex Earle's confidence of posting three a day or her framework wasn't posting three a day and how she's gotten so confident or how she's built her brand was something that I was like, you know what? I'm going to try that on. I'm going to see if I can do that and stay consistent with it. And now it's become my own confidence. It's become my own framework. And I don't even need to look to that and be like, I have to post three a day. It's like, now it is a part of my own thing. Like I don't

need that anymore. no longer need to borrow that confidence from her. I now have it myself. I no longer need to borrow that framework from her. It's now my own and I don't feel like I've lost if I posted one or two. I don't feel like I've changed narrative or the game if I've posted three to five. Like it is just part of now my own thing. And what I'm saying about like the different numbers, the different things is like that is uniquely mine now.

It's no longer hers. I borrowed it until it became mine and now I can give that back to her and now I have my own thing to share with you. I think that's a really good example of what I'm trying to say with borrowing confidence. And then I'll give you another more personal example. This is a recent example and I'm to talk to you more in depth about this interview opportunity that I got last week to

go interview a bunch of celebrities for this Broadway play opening in New York City. And I was reached out to and they were like, hey, do you want to do this thing? I was reached out to on a Tuesday. This was for Thursday. And when I first saw that I was like, my God, like I'm going to say no, or I'm going to make up all these excuses as to why I can't because I don't think I'm prepared for that. I don't feel ready for that. I'm nervous about it. I'm anxious about it. Like I don't even know if that's something that I can do. And

And then I was like, you know what? Fuck it. I'm going to try to do that. I'm going to see if I can. This is an unbelievable opportunity in front of my face. If I don't take it, I will think about why I didn't and all the things and all the reasons. And I will think about the fact that I didn't more than if I tried and failed and what I did and how I got that confidence, how I was able to go up to those celebrities like the people, the cast from succession. was cousin Greg Nicholas Braun. It was

The sister from Nobody Wants This, Justine Loop, who's also in succession. It was potentially gonna be Peter Dinklage, which is crazy. You all know who that is, I'm sure. He's in Game of Thrones and Elf and a lot of other things. And a bunch of other people that are pretty successful and that's just nerve wracking. I've never had an opportunity to, or I've never been in that position to interview people like this. I've done it on here and I know I have that experience.

I could also go back and dive into like how I got that confidence to start doing that. But this is a really good example of borrowing confidence. So I watched a ton of interviews of celebrities on red carpets. One of them I notably watched was Emma Chamberlain's interviews. She does a lot of like interviews for different magazines and at huge events. And I watched the way that she spoke to these people.

and the comfortability that she brought forth to the celebrities and to the situation. And it was more about the energy and the vibe than the actual questions. It was more about making the person feel comfortable and excited to talk to you and happy to be there and just excited to be in that moment with you than the actual like, what are you excited about tonight? like, what are you look, wait, sorry, I hit the mic. Or like, what are you?

looking forward to the questions and the things that I had in my head. was like, I want to get these questions right for these people. But what I realized was it was more about the energy that I brought forth to the interview than the actual questions. I could say whatever it is and have a human conversation with anybody. And that's how I distilled it down. I was like, all right, let me take what Emma Chamberlain did in these interviews and borrow that. And like I was so not confident going into that, but I.

borrowed her confidence. I really did. was like, let me see what she does. I'm going to watch what she does and I'm going to try that on and see if that fits and see if this is something that I can do. And in the first, the first interview I had was with Nicholas Braun. He's the cousin, Greg. He was the star of the play. It's called gruesome injuries in New York. And he was the first interview, which was like thrown right into the fire, which is great. was like, okay, this is the first time I'm going to do this. I might as well like try my best and I'm going to give it my all.

and I channeled what Emma Chamberlain did in those interviews and I brought that energy and I was excited to be there and I was like, hi, it's so nice to meet you. Instead of being like, hi, I'm Josh, and the nervous energy that I felt versus what I actually put forth, which was this really comfortable, really energetic, kind, inviting personality and.

I was like, actually that is me. Like that is, that is me. Like I'm not this nervous, anxious guy and I have those times and everybody has those moments, but like I took what Emma Chamberlain did and then made it my own. And once I stepped into that, I became confident myself. And even in that first interview with him, I was like, I now feel so much more confident than I did before. Like I get it. I got it. And now it's uniquely mine. Now I feel like I can go into those situations a lot more confident.

but that is a great example of borrowing somebody else's confidence. And here's the thing, you're not copying them, you're not stealing from them, you're not trying to be them. You're just borrowing their confidence until you build your own. You're just borrowing their momentum until you get your own momentum. You're acting like the person you want to become

until you actually become that person. You're trying on new things, new hats, new hoodies, until they become your own, until they become a part of your wardrobe. So if you're feeling stuck, if you're doubting yourself, if you're wondering, how the hell do other people seem so confident and I can't, just borrow it. Like just borrow their confidence, put it on, try it on, see if it fits, see if it works for you.

Look at somebody you admire and ask yourself, what would they do? How would they approach this? And then do it and then try it and see if it works. You know those like, what would blank do? Really use that thing. What would blank do? What would that person do? Start today. Pick one person that you admire and watch how they do what they do. Study one thing from them and borrow it. Try it.

Apply it to your life and see what happens. See how it affects your day or your life. And then borrow it until it becomes yours if it works positively, if it has a positive influence, if it's a good thing, if it feels like you're building towards the thing you're trying to build toward. And I really do believe that is a great way to build confidence. And as I was saying in the beginning, I don't think this just applies to confidence. I think this can be applied

to anything you're specifically trying to build or wanting to build. It could be strength. It could be work ethic. It could be mindset. It could be getting a raise or a promotion or building within your company or building a company. Anything you want or look for or desire, this same ideal or motivation can be applied from borrowed confidence. You can change that word confidence. You can swap out that word for

anything else you want. Borrowed motivation, borrowed work ethic, borrowed mindset, borrowed strength. I believe you can actually borrow any of these until you practice them enough every day and they become yours. Want to borrow confidence? Today you can. Identify the person doing what you want to do or the person who has what you want to have and see how they do what they do.

Find everything you can about how they've gotten to the place they got to. The lowest level of this is somebody that you can access the person, like you can send them a text or send them an email, set up a call or a Zoom, reach out to them and ask them the questions directly. It's actually just a coffee chat or a cold call phrased in a different way. I'd love to hear more about your experiences so far.

I'm looking to do something new or explore some different industries and hear from people who I think are doing cool things. And that's like a good framework of what you can say to somebody that you want to ask questions to and see how they do what they do. That is the easiest way to access borrowed confidence or borrowed fill in that blank and get to that person directly, ask them questions. The next level is somebody you're inspired by that you don't have access to.

You could, of course, send them an email or a DM or try to ask them questions directly and they might not respond, but it might be worth a try. The next level of that is like there's going to be an article or a podcast or a video or a website or an interview. There's going to be something with that person. If they're an inaccessible person that you can find out more about how they do what they do or how they got to where they got to. There is so much information out there. This can be applied to, as I said, confidence.

Energy, motivation, belief. And I truly believe that any of these traits or characteristics can be adopted and can become a part of you if you believe they can. Our mind is a really strong place and if you believe you can, you can. It's not a lot harder than that. Through a lot of belief and determination, through following the groundwork that somebody has set before you,

It can be yours and it can become a part of your story. And then one day you'll look back and see that maybe you've become the inspiration for somebody else that you once strived for. That is the episode. Thank you so much listening to Guy's Set, a guy's guide to what should be talked about. I'm Josh, I'm 25 years old and I'm here every single week, every single Tuesday to talk about what should be talked about.

If you have anything you want me to talk about that should be talked about for guys, head over to guyset.com. G-U-Y-S-E-T.com. There is an ask me anything right there. You can ask me anything and I will be sure to talk about it. I'll probably do a full episode on it just like this one. Or there's a million, not million, there's like a hundred articles on there that you can read more about what I'm talking about, different topics. You can search for basically anything from dating to lifestyle to style to mindset to confidence.

to there's just like so many questions I'm answering on there. That website is like an extension of everything I talk about on here. I love doing it. I'm really excited about it. I'm writing new articles every single day. So you can probably find one to three new articles on there every day. That's extending everything I'm talking about on here and you can ask anything and I'll write about it. I'll talk about it and like make it a part of that website. I'm so happy that there are so many people writing in and asking questions and asking things.

of me to talk about or things that they want to hear more about just advice on perspective on and that's what I'm here for. I'm so excited to build this thing. I think it is so necessary and so important. I think the purpose of guys that is to answer the questions that guys are asking the questions that guys can't find other places or there's no other place for them to access information or advice or perspectives on that's the purpose of guy set. That's what I'm building here and I will always be building here.

I love doing it. think it is my purpose and I'm so happy to be doing it. really, find so much joy in it and I feel like it is so necessary because it is exactly the thing that I've always wanted to see in the world. And I hope it is something that you resonate with too. And I hope you keep coming back every single Tuesday. You can find me on Instagram and TikTok at the guy set or at guys set podcast. And you can watch this full episode on YouTube at the guy set.

Thank you so much for to Guy's Guide, you can send me an email directly by the way, can also just email me at josh at guyset.com. Anywhere is great and I will be sure to answer and to talk about it. Thank you so much for listening to Guy's Guide to what should be talked about and I will see you guys next Tuesday. See you guys.