How To Find Real Advice for Guys in Their 20s

Josh Felgoise (00:00.226)

Welcome to Guy's Set, a guy's guide to what should we talk about. I'm Josh, I'm 24 years old, and I'm here to find all the tips, advice, and recommendations for everything you're wondering about. Let's get into it.

Josh Felgoise (00:17.858)

Hi guys, welcome back to GuySet, a guy's guide to what should be talked about. I started a magazine introducing the first ever issue of GuySet Magazine. It is live right now at theguyset.com. T-H-E-G-U-Y-S-E-T.com. I somehow messed up the link for guyset.com, like the URL just stopped working last night and I'm working to fix that. So, for right now it's theguyset.com. T-H-E-G-U-Y-S-E-T.com.

And then like moving forward every day, probably like starting tomorrow and from here on out, it'll just be back to guyset.com. But for right now use the guyset.com. cause just regular guyset.com does not work. So the guyset.com and it's been a long time coming and let me tell you more about why I started it and why I think it needs to exist and why I'm doing it in the first place. So first and foremost, the magazine is out now it's called guyset magazine. Same name as the podcast.

I've been working with somebody on the website for a little while now and it will look a lot better soon and it will be like everything I want it to be and include all the different things I want it to include soon. But this has kind of been my vision for guys set since this start. So I started guys set as a blog. It was called the 1921 club and it was called 1921 club because it was for 19 to 21 year old guys until I quickly realized that I was going to outage my own.

company, my own brand, own blog, and that was really stupid. So I realized that name was terrible, but I started this as a blog to cater to an audience or target an audience that was kind of being like left out and forgotten. Like there was nobody talking to guys specifically in that demographic. And I don't know why I was being exclusive, but because like it also doesn't include like guys who are like 16, 17, 18 through guys who were like 30, 32, like

All of that demographic of guys is kind of missed and it's kind of an open space. Like there's not a lot of companies or brands or blogs or podcasts or anybody really giving advice, recommendations, tips, tools to that demographic. So I started doing it as a blog and I started with posts that were directly for that audience. So I started with things like what to make for dinner, what to wear going out, what to do for a hangover.

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I asked 50 guys how they're feeling and I put all those answers in a blog post. And I realized that a podcast would probably be a better way to tackle some of those answers because I didn't have a lot of the answers myself. I didn't have a lot of like the recommendations or tips at that point in my life to share with people. So I thought a podcast would be like the perfect way to do it. And I still think it is by the way like this is going nowhere. Do not think this is going anywhere. This is still every every Tuesday I will be here to talk to you about what should we talk about for guys.

No, every week I'll be here because I love doing this. think it's one of my favorite things I've ever done. And I think it's like my purpose to do something like this and interview people and talk to people and just get so many different perspectives of so many different people. like this is going absolutely nowhere. Do not think anything like that ever, by the way. Like I will do this for as long as I can. And I can because I do it myself. Like there's nobody like that. There's nobody telling me I can't. So I just thought like this would be a really great way to interview people and get other perspectives on here.

And I then kind of realized that like siloing it into one thing and just doing the podcast and not the blog was kind of not also the best solution for all this because there's so many like visual components and visual elements to this where I'm like reading you through like a guide or recommendations for what to buy for Valentine's Day, for example, or like gift guides for something for Christmas or for Hanukkah or holidays. and like what to wear going out or what

favorite brands are like what, like all those different things that are so visual. couldn't figure out how to combine into this. And I realized that like going back to what I used to do and this together is what I should have been doing the whole time. And if I can compile all of that, like if I'm putting out a ton of different blog posts and a ton of different episodes that have guests that also have me talking about different topics that I'm going through on a week to week basis every day, every month.

then like why not compile all of that into a magazine each month? And when I started this in the first place, when I started the 1921 club and then Guyset, when I quickly got rid of that terrible trash name and turned it into Guyset, which is Guy's Mindset, I looked at who was already doing this a lot. Like I looked for what brands, what companies were doing this for guys, were targeting like that demographic of guys.

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And I've always been kind of inspired by those companies, those like bigger brands that have been doing this type of thing for years, sharing quote unquote, like advice for guys. And I always thought that the brands and the industry that were already doing it were almost like too big to compete with or like too big to like try and start something similar to. And it was like too hard to break into that sphere.

And I got halted by the idea that like the brands giving guys advice right now or the people already doing this were too big to compete with. So I kind of siloed myself into like, all right, I'm going to this as a podcast and see what happens. And I started posting some things on social media being like, that's a way to incorporate the visual element and also do the podcast. But I realized not everyone has social media.

And that brought me back to re-releasing and starting the blog up again and also the magazine. And that's kind of been my idea from the beginning. And I also honestly really missed that blog element of this because I love writing and I love responding to people in real time and sharing advice or just like my perspective on many different topics like throughout the week.

And I struggled to incorporate all that. Like I've done like advice guy episodes where I've just answered like a bunch of random different questions, or I've done like answering the questions of guys on Reddit, like episodes like that, that I think are some of my most fun episodes. I love doing those episodes. I love just sharing like off the cuff advice and seeing how people react or sharing just like my thought while it like comes up.

which is kind of messy, also fun to do because I honestly like hearing other people's perspective and hearing advice. And I don't always like having to like solicit that advice or ask for it or find it. So I think having somebody that's just like giving you advice or like a place that you can find tips or tools on something would be really nice. And one of my biggest things for doing this was creating an organized way to find the advice and the recommendations and the tools and the tips. And I don't think

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I was doing that whatsoever. Like in the episodes I was sharing, I was just like answering random questions that I found and compiled that I thought were compelling and exciting to talk about and would be like kind of like hot questions that people would be interested in hearing advice on or hearing my take on. And I realized I wasn't organizing it. And that's been like my biggest problem with trying to find advice is that like, it's not organized. There's no place where you can just like search for

what to wear going out or how do I stop feeling so overwhelmed and what do I do if I'm nervous to ask a girl out or how do I know if she blank or like what if I said this or like all these different what do I do if I feel like I want to quit my job how do I talk to my boss for a raise what do I tell my roommate if they're pissing me off and they're not cleaning up after themselves how do I

deal with living on my own for the first time. How do I stop feeling so lonely? How do I stop feeling so overwhelmed? Like all these questions that we have on an everyday basis that like we just maybe not, we may not talk to our friends about, we may not honestly ask anybody about, and then just kind like all these internal things that we're thinking, but don't know where to find advice on or another just take on. And there's a

Reddit channel called ask men that has six million people I've talked about it here before but it has six million people in it six million guys that are like asking questions responding Super active throughout all times of the day and that is so unorganized as well because like you just can't find any of the answers you're looking for advice you're looking for and Like the only way to really find your own answer to your question is just by asking it again

And there's not like a great way to search because there's so many different answers and that question has probably been asked so many different times. like it's super unorganized. whenever I go in there, like I'm, I'm only just like scrolling to see what guys are asking about or, or wondering about. And I can never find like an answer to something I was looking for specifically. So that is my intention here. That is my intention for the blog and the magazine is that like each month will have some sort of theme and some sort of like answers, advice, tips to something and

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every week, every day on the blog, I'll answer like a bunch of different questions. So like not a bunch every day, I'll answer like one question and every day there'll be like a new blog post about something. And at some point soon, some point down the road, there will be this like amazing one stop shop for all of these different recommendations, all this different advice, all of these different tools to the questions you're asking, the things you're wondering about, the things that you're curious about.

that you may not know where to find the answers to. At some point it won't just be me and I'll have guests on to co-write blog posts and I'll share the guest's opinions that I have on the podcast into those posts as well. like, for a good example is I shared my advice for career change maybe like almost a year ago now. And I just had my friend Luca on who shared all of his advice for career change and talking to your boss and asking your boss

for a raise and just like all these other questions that I can now create a blog post that has my advice and Lucas advice. So you have two guys perspectives that are in their twenties that have gone through this already to share their advice. So those those types of blog posts will incorporate my advice and his advice for something like body image. I'll share my advice on it. And I had an amazing guest a while back called named not called named Ryan Winter.

who used to be a model. like modeled for Calvin Klein. has a cafe in Brooklyn and like, just a super unique guy. but he talks about like body image in like the fashion industry and in the modeling industry. So I'll incorporate his advice into that, that blog post too. So when you search something around like body image, you'll see my advice and his advice. And that's how I want to structure this, the blog itself. Like it won't be separate posts for

Ryan's advice and my advice on that it will just be one post that has different piece of advice from different guys. And that is what I want to do going forward with the blog with the magazine and I'm so excited about that because I that is something that I would love like that is something that I've been looking for for the past five years. So I'm creating what I wanted to see in the world like that is that is my goal for this is to create something that I want to read and I know there's so many other guys out there that also want to see something like this too. And it's kind of been this thing that

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I've wanted to do that. I've had this idea that like, I don't know. And I'm just like, why am I waiting to do this? Like why, why do I keep holding back from putting something like this out there and just doing this every single day? And I think a lot of the reason I stopped myself from doing this is what I said earlier, that there's already bigger kind of companies doing this. Like a good example is GQ. except what I realized is they're not doing it. I don't know if you guys know this, but GQ stands for gentlemen's quarterly and

The whole goal of the magazine was to give like style and fashion advice to guys. And of course it became like this multifaceted brand that talked about like wellness and health and style and all these different things that guys are wondering about. But the advice isn't tailored to somebody like me. It's not tailored to somebody who's younger, who just has like honestly more simple questions. It's really celebrity focused and celebrity facing.

and not not relatable. It's it's actually super unrelatable. Recently, this past week, they had a post which I thought was so fucking crazy. Their second cover story of the magazine. Let me actually find it so I get the right name of it, because I think you'll think it's crazy, too. And this story was under their wellness section. This story is under wellness. OK. It was called How Zinn Took Over the American Mouth.

and not only highlights Zin, but glorifies it to our generation. That story's under wellness, like that's so fucking crazy that like they, the magazine that is supposed to be like four guys is putting this under wellness, like they're highlighting this as like something that's like okay or good or like trendy, like what the fuck? What is going on? And that's crazy and I'm not here to say that like,

Zin didn't take over the American mouth. I don't care. I'm not going to comment on I guess I am going to comment on Zin like this isn't to say that they're not happy for Zin. Good for them. Like good for you guys for taking over the American mouth. But like why is that the in in guys advice? Like why is that? And there's like all these like images that are like trying to make like Zin sexy. Like what are we doing? That kind of pushed me over the edge in terms of being halted by

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these bigger companies that are technically doing something like this because they're not like they're not doing what I've been looking for. What I think a lot of other guys are looking for. And that's just to share like advice or recommendations on a topic that like we may not know the answers to and may not know where to find the answer to. And after a lot of research into all these brands that I thought were kind of like too big to compete with in a way, I realized that's not actually true.

And nobody's doing this. And that's why I started this all in the first place. I started this all with the question of what should I wear going out because I had no idea what to do and I had no idea where to find that answer to that question. And I realized there's actually a massive gap for something like this geared toward younger guys. And I wanted a way to combine, as I said, everything into like one guy set universe, a Marvel's Gar- Garvel, wow.

the guys set cinematic universe, Marvel, Marvel cinematic guys set universe. And I think this is the perfect way to do it. So every day you will see blog posts on guyset.com that are answering specific questions that guys online are asking that you guys are asking that I'm asked specifically. And that will all be incorporated into the podcast as well. But there will also be this like resource guide, this place for every answer to these questions or

When I say answer, of course, I always mean like recommendations, advice from me or from somebody else. Answer isn't the right word. So I apologize. I always use that, but every day on that website, there will be something new answering a question and it could be as short as three sentences. It doesn't have to be a super long answer if it doesn't require one. And there may be some that are like pages long of an answer and like, that's all right. Like it'll just be whatever I think it takes to

share advice on a topic or share advice on a question. And I'm just excited to actually dive into all of that and provide what I'm looking for, provide what I've said I'm going to create kind of just haven't yet an organized solution, a one stop shop, one place for all of this advice to be. And the one like universe for everything that I'm creating to exist within. And that will all be guyset.com.

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So it will be of course the same exact weekly podcast that you know and hopefully love every Tuesday. It will be a blog post every single day answering and giving advice on some topic or some question and it will be a monthly guys set magazine on the first Tuesday of every month. So that is what the kind of like three things will look like. I wanted to sit down and explain that all to you because I also think I'm working through it myself and also need to explain it to myself.

because it's a lot going on, I think it really like encapsulates what I'm trying to do and really compiles everything I've been looking for into one. So I wanted to tell you a little bit more about Geisset Magazine since that's what this episode is titled and that is what I released today, the first edition ever and what it features and walk you some of like my favorite sections and pages of this.

And it would be helpful if had my computer because I don't have it on my phone. one second. And just for like a little context, I have no fucking clue what I'm doing, by the way, like with all of this. I just think it's I think it's like fun to create something that connects everything from the month. But I have no idea what I'm doing. So what I did to create this was I bought like six different magazines, some of like the biggest names of magazines that are out there right now and literally like ripped out

what the same sections were compared them all and found that like most of these magazines have, I don't know, five or so sections. And then the rest of them are just all ads. This one has no ads, obviously, but the only ad is like for my sweatshirt. I released merch. Hold on. Let me show it to you. If you're watching on YouTube, I also started. I'm also trying to post these on YouTube so you can see you can watch this whole episode on YouTube too. This is what the sweatshirt looks like. I'm so excited about it. It was designed by

My friend, Adam's brother, Eli, he has an Instagram account called Toasted by Eli. It has like 150,000 followers. He creates these like really incredible cartoon-ish images that have like really inspirational messages all about like anxiety and mental health. It's really an amazing page. He has such like incredible designs. So I reached out to him to ask him to do this because I've followed his page for a few years now.

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And love what he does. And I worked with him on creating this. So he brought my idea to life, which was like a toolkit, because that's kind of what I see guys set as. I see this whole thing as like a toolkit to your mindset, by providing advice and recommendations and tools to all of these things that we don't know, don't know where to the answers to, don't know where to find advice to. I see this all as like a toolkit. So I wanted to create that image.

And it is, have not actually talked through this before. I've just talked to him about it and like my family while I was designing it. but it's a toolkit and it has a bunch of different guys doing like all different tasks up top. have these two guys holding a measuring tape. I'll let you do with that. What you want to do with that down below, there's a guy holding like a warning sign, a guy holding a wrench. That guy who's holding the wrench will also be on the hat that I just ordered. there's a guy taking a break. There's a guy trying to.

like fix all these loose screws. there's a guy looking up at his friend and talking to his friend and it's just kind of like all these different guys working on this toolkit. That's kind of what I see guys set as it's a bunch of different guys coming together to figure it out, to create a toolkit, give each other advice and share their perspectives and like, I don't know, be more open about what's going on and start actually talking about

their feelings and their mindset and all these things that guys don't normally talk about or share. So that's this. I love the design so much. Every time I look at it, I like it even more. That's beside the point of the magazine. Sorry for the tangent, but basically I looked through all these magazines to figure out what they did. Similarly, what I should do for this one. So there's a cover. It's me this time. It won't always be me. It'll

be hopefully a guest from that month that I want to highlight. A guest meaning like somebody from, this is what I mean by like it all comes together. Like it'll be somebody that I have on the podcast on the cover of that month's issue. like for example, if it wasn't me this month, it would be one of the authors that it may be next month that I just had on or my friend Luca. Like that would be the cover star, cover star, I don't know.

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there's a contents page, there's a letter from the editor, which I'll do every single month. There is an introducing me because if somebody stumbles upon here and is like, who the fuck is this? I wrote a little bit about who I am. there's the hoodie link. There is this section I'm calling what guys are wondering. And that's basically like what the blog posts will answer every day.

And I'm going to share some of what I wrote in the letter from the editor as well as the introducing me before I get to the what guys are wondering about section because why not? So here's what I wrote in the letter in the letter from the editor. Hi guys, my name is Josh. I'm 24 years old and welcome to the first ever issue of GuySent Magazine. First and foremost, thank you so much for being here. I created this with many things in mind, but namely because I couldn't find a place to find answers to the questions I've had for the past few years.

I noticed there were so many places and spaces for girls to hear recommendations, advice, and perspectives on the topics they're wondering about, but really none for guys. I started this with guys in their 20s in mind, because well, that's me, but I've quickly realized there are so many more age ranges included in all of this feeling. It's a simple solution to my problem really. Create a place to provide answers, or as close to answers as possible, meaning recommendations, advice, tools, and guides on all the things you're wondering about.

When I first thought of this idea in the summer of junior year of college, it was my first time going out to a bar and I had no idea what to what to wear. I looked everywhere online for advice on this and couldn't find a place that had an answer to my question alongside everything else I was wondering about while living on my own for the first time. What do I do about the razor burn on my neck? Which is a question that which was like the second question I had that I was like, oh, actually, this could be something. So what do I do about the razor burn on my neck? Where should I go on a first date? What should I wear on a first date? What type of question should I ask on a first date?

How do I cure this hangover? What should I text that girl back? Should I double text her? Why did she ghost me? What should I do after that one night stand? What should I wear to work? How do I ask for a raise? How do I stop feeling so anxious? Why do I feel like I'm not good enough? How do I stop comparing myself to my friends? How do I feel more confident? How do I get bigger? Am I big enough? All these questions were followed by feelings of doubt, insecurity, self-consciousness, lack of confidence.

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Did anybody else have this figured out or were these questions that every guy wonders? The answer to that question was the easiest to find out out of all of them. And that was a big fat resounding no. Nobody has this figured out. And because of that and how insecure and weird all of that made you feel, nobody talks about it. So I created a podcast called Guy Set, which is the words guys and mindset combined. Shout out to my sister for the genius name. And I set out to start answering the questions.

The goal of the podcast is to make guys feel a little less alone in all of these experiences and to talk about the topics that aren't talked about for guys. I am not an expert in any of this and that's the point, to experience the same things with you and alongside you and to be able to talk about it in real time. It's definitely gotten me into shit a few more than a few times and I'm sure you can see why, but I wouldn't change a thing about it.

I'll be there, talking about what I learn and what I continue to learn, share advice and recommendations on everything I'm going through, and bring on guests to bring their perspectives and experiences. I believe in Geisset wholeheartedly because it's exactly what I've been looking for. This didn't exist, so I created it. A place to find answers, advice, and perspectives on everything you're wondering about. It's far from the perfect place, but I can guarantee you it will always be honest and real. With that, I give you the first ever edition of Geisset Magazine.

And then I'm gonna read a few of the other excerpts from the other introducing me section as well, just to give you some more of what I'm talking about in here. But you can also read this for yourself if you want to. No pressure. Okay. No website, podcast, magazine or place was giving real authentic advice tailored to guys in my age group and younger. No one was doing it. So I thought, fuck it. Why not me? I don't have any of this figured out, but I'm getting there and I'm trying to enjoy every moment while doing it.

Putting this all together and creating a podcast episode each week is so much more makeshift and figure it out as you go than you may think. Or maybe you think that every single week. But that is exactly how I see my 20s and this time in my life, figuring it all out as I go. There is no guidebook. There's no toolkit. There's no how to to any of this. So I decided to create my best version of it, what I'd want to see and hear. I am no expert, never claimed to be and never will claim to be.

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Just another guy going through all of this at the same time as you and sharing my experiences as I go through it to hopefully help another guy going through it all too. My goal here has and always will be to make everyone else feel a little less weird and a little less alone knowing that someone else is feeling this way too. Not an expert, but hopefully helpful. Learning from my mistakes along the way and of course sharing those too. And then I go into like a little something stupid that I did and then I say,

All this to say, I continue to do dumb shit and make mistakes left and right. We all make mistakes. Do things we regret. Say things we wish we could take back. And for some reason, we think that no other guy has felt this exact same way too. We've all had a bad first date. Or maybe you haven't yet. And if you haven't yet, you probably will at some point soon. We've all said something drunk and an idiotic to a friend that we regret. Slept through something important. Had anxiety about the future. Compared ourselves to our friends.

Thought we weren't good enough. Been rejected. We just don't talk about it. About any of it. Guys are taught from a young age that sharing our emotions, our worries, our anxieties, and our feelings, things that are not manly and not cool, are not to be shared. But the funny part about all of this is thinking those things doesn't change any of them. Pushing those feelings down doesn't make them go away. I'm creating GuySet as a place to talk about what should be talked about.

And that means anything and everything you're thinking about, wondering about, curious about, worried about, anxious about, excited about, scared about, whatever about. It's all going to be here every week on my podcast, GuySit in the blog, every day on guysit.com and every month in GuySit Magazine. I don't think of myself as an expert in any of this, but I'm just, I'm willing to share my experiences, what I've learned, what's worked, what didn't, what I'm working on, what I'm still working on, what I'm failing at, all of it.

I bring on guests to share their experiences and advice, and I'm creating a space and a place where you can find advice on everything you're wondering about. GuySet is a toolkit to your mindset, a place for me, the guests I bring on, and you to share advice, tips, and recommendations for everything that should be talked about for guys in their 20s. I think it would make a lot of our lives easier if we just talked about our shit, so that's what I'm gonna do here. Thank you for being here, for reading, for coming along, for listening.

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Welcome to the next generation of advice for guys. I read more of that than I thought was going to, but I thought it was actually better than I, like reading back, I was more impressed with what I wrote than I thought I was gonna be. So there you go. Okay, and then in the section I say, the section I'm calling right after that, what guys are wondering, I share a list of like 20 questions.

And these are all questions that I've gotten sent from you guys either to my DMs at the guys at thguiset on Instagram or to my email josh at guys at.com. Also things I've seen commented on my posts on social media, things I've seen on Reddit, things I've seen online from real guys that the actual guys are asking. And I'm just going to share some of those questions so you know what this section looks like. How do I know if I should? And these are the questions, by the way, that I'm going to be answering every day on the blog.

And like there's there's thousands of these questions. So like it's just a never ending. There's never ending advice you can give on these on these questions. And there's always something new or something more or like a developing perspective to add in and just like add on top of. So here are some of the questions. How do I know if I should go in for the kiss after the first date? When should we start splitting the bill on dates? How do I know if she's on birth control? What should I wear on my first date? How can I feel more confident?

How do I ask my boss for a raise? Do girls want you to shave? How do I stop overthinking so much? How do I tell my roommate to take out the trash? What do I talk about on a first date? Should I be wearing cologne? How do I talk to girls at a bar? How do you know if you're in love? At what age am I supposed to be in a relationship? How do I stop feeling so lonely? What shampoo do guys use?

How do I know if she likes me? How do I move on after she ghosted me? How do I stop comparing myself to my friends? What kind of skincare do you do? How do guys make new friends? What are some good hygiene tips you have? How do I stop texting my ex? How do I stop overthinking so much? How do you discover your taste in fashion? How do you deal with anger issues? What do I make for dinner?

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How many years apart is it okay to date? How do I last longer? These are all questions that I've seen directly from you guys that I've seen online. Real guys are asking these questions. So this is what guys that will be built on the foundation of what this all will look like is advice, tools, tips, recommendations. I keep saying all those things, but it's true. It's not answers. It's just all of those different things to these questions to things guys are actually wondering and don't know where to find answers to or advice on.

And at some point in there, you probably heard a question or two that you may have had previously. And I'm curious, like, where did you find that answer? Where did you find advice on that topic? How did you work through that? And maybe there's more than one question. Maybe one of those questions you still have right now. So that is what I'll be providing advice on every day. Those specifically, and so many more questions.

The next section is called what guys are wearing and it's kind of like the guys that style account that I created and just to like see what guys are wearing because I think one of the hardest things for me to find has been advice on what to wear. The question that started it all was what to wear going out to a bar and that has been the hardest thing for me to find a solution on because I don't think there's a great source right now for fashion advice or just style advice. What to wear advice.

And I think like none of it is accessible advice. None of it is really like catered to me. All kind of feels unrelatable and out of budget and like not things that I'd actually want to wear. It's almost like too. It's just, it's not for me. none of the, none of the things that are out there are really like made for someone like me and or you or anybody in our kind of demographic of like 18 to 34 and

There's no really, there's no great place for it. So what I started doing, and I hope this doesn't sound creepy, was just taking pictures of outfits when I went to work, when I walked back from work, on my random walk to get coffee. Like if I saw an outfit that I thought was cool or like put together well, I just would snap a quick picture of somebody on the street. Because what better way to see what people are actually wearing than to go outside and see it yourself, not just what...

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magazines or what companies or brands tell you is in style or tell you is on trend because like what the hell does that even mean? So I thought this was the best way to actually see what real guys are wearing. So this section includes a bunch of different outfits that I saw from like walking in the street in New York City and I'm excited about it. I think that none of the advice out there right now on style is made for me. So I just started doing this and I'll continue to do it and I think it's

a fun way to see what real guys are wearing. And I think it's probably the best way to see what real guys are wearing. find it so helpful. So that's the next section. The one after that is highlighting the episode I did with my friend Luca about navigating your first career change. If you haven't listened to that, you should go back and listen to what he had to say. I thought he was super transparent and very honest with his whole experience in finding a new job and leaving his first job. I love that episode. I think you should go listen to it. But this story highlights a few of my favorite moments from that episode. I pulled a couple of quotes to

show in the magazine and just kind of like promote that episode in a way. And then after that section, there is a Valentine's Day gift guide, which is like a sneak preview of next week's episode. I'm going to be talking about that gift guide and also like other things to do for Valentine's Day, what to do if you're single, all that good stuff next week. So that's next week episode. But in the magazine, there is a Valentine's Day gift guide. So you can see that there too.

And then the final section is kind of that like January resume that I told you about the end of your resume last year, thinking about like all the things you did, the things you're working on, things you're still working on, what you watched, what you read, what you listened to, the things that you liked best, the things that inspired you. And instead of doing that on the podcast every month, I thought that doing it in the magazine would be a perfect place to do it or doing it on the blog would be a place to do it. So I incorporated what I watched, what I read and what I listened to as well.

I watched the show Shrinking. I loved that so much. think you should all watch it. I watched the Avicii documentary on Netflix called I'm Tim. Also highly recommend. I'm watching the new season of Severance and I'm still watching Young Sheldon. And what I read was a book called Hold Strong. I just had the three authors of the book on this podcast last week. Also an incredible episode. So I highly recommend going to listen to that. I think that episode will be highlighted in next month's issue or version of the magazine.

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And then I also read a book called when breath becomes air It's an unbelievable book. I highly recommend both of those books and My goal is to read two books a month. I probably will read one like two was kind of crazy for me I barely read one in like a bunch of the months last year. So that's what I read this month and What I listened to I highlighted five different podcast episodes. I listened to from January that I think were amazing

One is called how to stop caring what people think of you from the Mel Robbins podcast. The other one is Jack Antonoff returns on Mike Birbiglia's working it out podcast. Another one is Elizabeth Gilbert, who's one of my favorite authors on the Tim Ferriss show. Next one is crushing it with serial entrepreneur Emma greed on the Martha Stewart podcast. She and her husband are the founders of skims. I love that episode. I think she's an amazing entrepreneur. She's also on shark tank. I love watching her episodes.

And then the last one is navigating your first career change with Luca Maletti on GuySit. So those are what I watch, read and listen to. And that is basically what the magazine looks like. So that is what it will be every month. Instead of just having all the questions that guys are asking or what guys are wondering about, I'll actually put in a bunch of what I say from the blog every, every week so that it will incorporate a lot more of that too, and have a lot more advice on those instead of just actually the questions.

So this will become your one stop shop to all your questions and everything you want advice or another perspective on. And I'm so fucking excited about it. There's always an opportunity to do something differently, do something better, an opportunity to create what you don't see and what you're looking for. And you'll find out soon if other people are also looking for it too. And I think they are. With time, it'll look a lot better and I'll provide even more advice and tools and recommendations.

But you gotta start somewhere and if you don't start with where you are, with what you know, you'll never start and you'll never go anywhere. And that means there's only one way to go from here, hopefully up. So here we go, here it is. A new generation of tools, tips and recommendations on what guys really want to know, on what should be talked about for guys. Welcome to the next generation of advice for guys. Welcome to GuySet. Dramatic.

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Maybe I'll put the music in here. That is the episode. Thank you so much for listening to guys set a guy's guide to what should be talked about. I'm Josh. I'm 24 years old and I'm here every week, every Tuesday to talk about what should be talked about for guys in their twenties. You can also find me on guyset.com on Instagram at the guys set T H E G U Y S E T on YouTube at guys set or at the guys set both places. You'll find me.

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Can't wait for what I have in store and what is in store for all of this. And I'm so excited for the rest of this year. Thank you so much for listening and I will see you guys next Tuesday. See you guys.